there's this girl i like and me and my friend hang out with her group of friends during lunch. i dont really have long conversations with her and we aren't really friends because im too shy of a person to talk to her. i was wondering how i can become more of a friend to her.Teenage guy asking about girl advice.?
Just be friendly. Ask her how her day has been going and such. It shouldn't be that hard considering you guys already talk at lunch. and this may sound so gay, but maybe you should start buying this magazine called Seventeen it will help you understand girls and what they look for in a guy. Hope this helps
Friday, April 30, 2010
Need advice about my teenage son...he is more and more disrespectful and angry and distant from me than ever..
I have tried therapy for around 4 years, that did not work, he has done very poorly in middle school but is still struggling, has alot of problems with behavior in school, disrespecting teachers, hangs out with the wrong crowd in school, at home he just goes into myspace, does homework only when he sees that i have reached a boiling point. I have thought about sending him with his dad at least during the school week because he respects him and will be controlled...is this a mistake? Will he resent me, hate me? I dont want him to think i gave up on him, but he needs to see that i am not a wimpy mom, and i will sacrifice not having him around as much for his own good. I love him sooooo much but dont want him to drop out of school and be a loser in life...I want what is best for him, to have a future and be productive in our society...I welcome your advice...especially a teenagers point of view...it may help me understand what he is going through.Need advice about my teenage son...he is more and more disrespectful and angry and distant from me than ever..
kk, I'm a teen. First of all, the reason he doesn't respect you is because you don't discipline him. Also, myspace is junk, block it from your computer. You may want to visit his myspace in your freetime and find out who his ';friends'; are so that you can see what he's really up to. For the school thing, when he comes home, give him 30 min to get a snack or whatever he needs, then he needs to do his schoolwork. Check on him every few minutes to make sure he's doing his work. He'll probably hate your guts for a while, but when he's an adult, he'll be glad you kept him from doing all this stuff. Another thing, if you find out that he was being disrespectful in school, take away a privilage. Such as, concerts for exapmle. A ton of teenage boys love to go to concerts, so, if you tell him he can't go to one: it will be a real punishment. And he won't want it to happen again, so he won't do it again. (this will take a few times.) I really hope everything works out. By the way, I'm 15.Need advice about my teenage son...he is more and more disrespectful and angry and distant from me than ever..
Do YOU have the ability to talk to him as a third person?
What you can do is sit him down and have him tell you what is wrong. No matter what it is. Be sure to take notes, I'm sure he's got a long one. Try not to make any ';parent'; comments. He will want a friend's point of view. If you can't do that, take your notes and post them here, you'll get lots of opinions that you can sort thru.
Therapy won't work. They usually only have one way to doing things and everyone is different. You have to back off of the parent role and take on more of a friend role with teens. Simply because ALL teens have the rebel streak. I know it's wierd but...a 'friend' can say the same thing as a 'parent' and the teen will only do it AFTER the friend's advice.
You have to do the best for your son, even if it means sending him to his father. And as a last resort, ';boot camp';. Do either of them now, before something happens and a criminal record is created. Good luck.
Wow!!! I know exactly where you are coming from. My mother is at her wits end with my twin brothers. They are 16 and are so disrespectful. One of my brothers doesn't even go to school anymore because his attitude towards the teachers and other elders was so bad. My mom has sent him to his dad's to stay, but he was back in the house a week later...not to mention that he still came over everyday to eat and take a shower while he was living with his dad. He even steals from his friends and family. He is also hanging with the wrong crowd.
Does your son have a girlfriend??? Ever since my brother got his new girlfriend his attitude seems to get worse by the day. He treats my mother and I like crap. He seems to treat the ones that care about him the most the worst.
I don't know if you have Job Corps where you live, but that is something that we are looking into. It gives them a chance to get their diploma and get them started in the working world. They train them for specific jobs...kinda like a trade or vocational school. Last resort would be military school. Hope everything gets better. If you don't like the idea of sending him to these schools then you should either talk to him or go though therapy. Good luck.
are you and your ex able to get together and talk with him if your son repects him maybe you can come up with a similar way of dealing with him
I have friend in a similar problem. What happened is BOTH of them sat down their son and told him to get his act straight. When both of you have united front with your son he will no longer think he can run over you but not his Dad. If that doesn't work, then send him to his Dad's he is not gonig to resent you for trying to keep him on the right track and out of trouble.
Remember during those years we resent our parents for breathing. Anything else they do is simply icing. Do not be afraid of that. Keep doing your best for him and don't give. I think you can do it.
I think you should pretty much tell him the same thing. That you love him more than anything, but you can't let him keep being disrespectful and unproductive.
Tell him that he has a choice. He can do his homework, chores, and be respectful, or you he will be punished. Punishment could be loss of privileges (computer), grounding, etc... Tell him you are going to let his dad know about his behavior.
I would only send him to dad to live as a last resort.
therapy sucks kids hate it expetialy kids
have you ever (when tings are doing o.k)
just sat down and talked to him
he's just trying to be cool, thats #1 priority for a teen. even though you want what's best for him he just doesn't see how this can really affect him. if you think having him stay with his dad is best then try that, but talk to him and let him know you aren't giving up, you just think he'll be happy there.
he is just going through a phase where all teenagers think that there out of there childhood and they want to have fun so here's what you do on a weekday or weekend sit him down or when he's not busy say to him and ask him what or where do you wanna go then he'll reply back and if he says he wants to go to the mall or somewhere to his friends house drive him there you'll have more time to spend with him and and talk about what's going on then he'll just get use to that routine and he'll get use to you too.
kk, I'm a teen. First of all, the reason he doesn't respect you is because you don't discipline him. Also, myspace is junk, block it from your computer. You may want to visit his myspace in your freetime and find out who his ';friends'; are so that you can see what he's really up to. For the school thing, when he comes home, give him 30 min to get a snack or whatever he needs, then he needs to do his schoolwork. Check on him every few minutes to make sure he's doing his work. He'll probably hate your guts for a while, but when he's an adult, he'll be glad you kept him from doing all this stuff. Another thing, if you find out that he was being disrespectful in school, take away a privilage. Such as, concerts for exapmle. A ton of teenage boys love to go to concerts, so, if you tell him he can't go to one: it will be a real punishment. And he won't want it to happen again, so he won't do it again. (this will take a few times.) I really hope everything works out. By the way, I'm 15.Need advice about my teenage son...he is more and more disrespectful and angry and distant from me than ever..
Do YOU have the ability to talk to him as a third person?
What you can do is sit him down and have him tell you what is wrong. No matter what it is. Be sure to take notes, I'm sure he's got a long one. Try not to make any ';parent'; comments. He will want a friend's point of view. If you can't do that, take your notes and post them here, you'll get lots of opinions that you can sort thru.
Therapy won't work. They usually only have one way to doing things and everyone is different. You have to back off of the parent role and take on more of a friend role with teens. Simply because ALL teens have the rebel streak. I know it's wierd but...a 'friend' can say the same thing as a 'parent' and the teen will only do it AFTER the friend's advice.
You have to do the best for your son, even if it means sending him to his father. And as a last resort, ';boot camp';. Do either of them now, before something happens and a criminal record is created. Good luck.
Wow!!! I know exactly where you are coming from. My mother is at her wits end with my twin brothers. They are 16 and are so disrespectful. One of my brothers doesn't even go to school anymore because his attitude towards the teachers and other elders was so bad. My mom has sent him to his dad's to stay, but he was back in the house a week later...not to mention that he still came over everyday to eat and take a shower while he was living with his dad. He even steals from his friends and family. He is also hanging with the wrong crowd.
Does your son have a girlfriend??? Ever since my brother got his new girlfriend his attitude seems to get worse by the day. He treats my mother and I like crap. He seems to treat the ones that care about him the most the worst.
I don't know if you have Job Corps where you live, but that is something that we are looking into. It gives them a chance to get their diploma and get them started in the working world. They train them for specific jobs...kinda like a trade or vocational school. Last resort would be military school. Hope everything gets better. If you don't like the idea of sending him to these schools then you should either talk to him or go though therapy. Good luck.
are you and your ex able to get together and talk with him if your son repects him maybe you can come up with a similar way of dealing with him
I have friend in a similar problem. What happened is BOTH of them sat down their son and told him to get his act straight. When both of you have united front with your son he will no longer think he can run over you but not his Dad. If that doesn't work, then send him to his Dad's he is not gonig to resent you for trying to keep him on the right track and out of trouble.
Remember during those years we resent our parents for breathing. Anything else they do is simply icing. Do not be afraid of that. Keep doing your best for him and don't give. I think you can do it.
I think you should pretty much tell him the same thing. That you love him more than anything, but you can't let him keep being disrespectful and unproductive.
Tell him that he has a choice. He can do his homework, chores, and be respectful, or you he will be punished. Punishment could be loss of privileges (computer), grounding, etc... Tell him you are going to let his dad know about his behavior.
I would only send him to dad to live as a last resort.
therapy sucks kids hate it expetialy kids
have you ever (when tings are doing o.k)
just sat down and talked to him
he's just trying to be cool, thats #1 priority for a teen. even though you want what's best for him he just doesn't see how this can really affect him. if you think having him stay with his dad is best then try that, but talk to him and let him know you aren't giving up, you just think he'll be happy there.
he is just going through a phase where all teenagers think that there out of there childhood and they want to have fun so here's what you do on a weekday or weekend sit him down or when he's not busy say to him and ask him what or where do you wanna go then he'll reply back and if he says he wants to go to the mall or somewhere to his friends house drive him there you'll have more time to spend with him and and talk about what's going on then he'll just get use to that routine and he'll get use to you too.
Need advice about my teenage son. He's 13 and rude, unsociable and lazy....any thoughts on boarding school?
Our son back mouths us all the time, never or hardly ever does anything around the house and won't even go out ever with his friends.....we are always telling him to arrange something with his mates to go to the mall, movie theatre, bowling etc...but no everyhting is lame, so he won't do it...instead he plays video games, slacks off with his homework...and has a chip on his shoulder all the time. He's spoilt, we are trying to change that...but when we take things off him, he doesn't care...he'll just slouch around. Funny thing is, he's the fastest runner in his year and the second out of the year above him, so I don't understand his lack of energy at home to make an effort in anything. We did have him in a running group, but pulled him out as he was falling behind with his homework He usually is a A/B student but not now. He's always been difficult since he was a toddler, but the last couple of yrs are making me think he will never change. Friends at school say he's too bossy.Need advice about my teenage son. He's 13 and rude, unsociable and lazy....any thoughts on boarding school?
Nix the Vid games. Limit their use at least. They are addictive. Keep them under lock and key if you have to, if that don't work, sell them. Make your home a game free zone if you have to. Give him some consequences for bad behavior. If he's spoiled it's because you spoiled him. Let him slouch around, call his bluff and don't give in. He's slouching to make you feel sorry for him so he can return to running your lives. Who has the control in your house? No violence is necessary, just stick to your guns if you ground him for a month, Make it stick. He needs to learn respect, and he won't respect anyone who goes back on what they say. He will either start respecting you and behaving, or become more beligerant, violent and begin running away. This will depend on how brash he can be, and the underlying cause of his behavior.
The behavior as you describe seems to suggest a self loathing, and/or lack of ambition, and lack of respect. The lack of respect, your spoiling and leniency is the cause. The self loathing, and lack of ambition can be caused by loss of friends, or alienation or extortion by them. Less likely, but public female rejection, sex abuse, marijuana or alcohol use or the coaxing from others to use it, may also be possibilities as to the cause. It could also stem from depression which could be treated by a doctor, even if it isn't depression the Doctor may have some other suggestions for you.. If possible seek a child development councellor, your G.P. or M.D. can also direct you to one. Behaviors are due to causes, the councellor can help to find the true cause. You can't repair the situation if you don't know what the real problem is. The councellor can help with the solution as well.
Should all this fail due to the boys reluctance of the truth, and he continues the same way send him to a, Millitary Academy, if nothing else he will definately learn respect there.
Harsh words I know, but I used to be just like that 13 year old boy you describe. My parents always caved in. The professionals couldn't help in my case as I was too stubborn and would not be honest. I carried too much shame and guilt. I trusted no one. I learned respect on my own at Army Cadets, and later in Jail, but ended up living a life of alcoholism, drugs, and lies,lies,lies, until I finally found the truth at 41 years old, and changed my life for the better. I am now 44. I have what seems like many lifetimes of experience in what is wrong and I'm finally realizing what led me there. I say this not to shock you, but to share my experience, so that you may have a better chance of helping your son, and not having to live the anguish my mother went through with me.
I pray you find the causes of your sons behavior.
God Bless.Need advice about my teenage son. He's 13 and rude, unsociable and lazy....any thoughts on boarding school?
beat his @ss
Boarding school is no place for a kid.I was sent to Boarding School(Mills School Ft.Lauderdale Fla).
The place was a hell hole.I got bullied by the kids and staff
and My parents refused to listen.I had no where to turn.
I still have emotional wounds today from Mills School(closed 1978).If anyone from Mills is reading this bring it on.jjflash59@hotmail.com
tell him that cute girls ony like guys who can take charge and what not!!!
it's true ya know!
I think it's time for you to start parenting! Sounds as though you were lackadaisical in this area when he was younger, so he has grown into what you molded him into. Can still be changed. Maybe take some teen parenting classes to give you some ideas.
I went to a boarding school. Not because of a behavior problem; it was for gifted children.
However, there were a few gifted kids with behavior problems there. It didn't help. They just slacked off more and were eventually kicked out. What you're looking for is more of a tough-love type thing where someone will MAKE him do things.
But really, a lot of 13-year-olds are like that. They talk back to test your limits. Set them and stick with them. Taking away privileges is a good approach as long as it's consistent. However, in order to take away privileges, he has to earn some in the first place!
I turned out all right without a lot of guidance, but my sister at that age wasn't doing well. She couldn't do anything but be sarcastic and mope around. Well, eventually my dad had to put his foot down. He wants to play video games? Fine. But he has to do one chore for every fifteen minutes of playing. Take away the computer and game console until he does. Make a list ... wash dishes, take out trash, do one homework assignment, sweep floors, clean bathtub, etc. Ask him to come tell you when he does one, and you can inspect it. If it's done well he gets 15 minutes' worth of playing time. Add them up at the end of the day, and that's how long he can play before bed. Of course you have to do this early in the evening so it doesn't conflict with bedtime ... but that approach worked pretty well with my sister. Except she wanted to watch TV instead of playing games. Same thing, really.
If that gets him motivated, great. Problem solved. Take away the computer and console during the day, give him ONE for the specified amount of time during the evening. It might take a few days, but he will eventually get tired of doing NOTHING and be willing to barter for the privilege of doing fun things.
Once he earns some of those privileges, it's time to start taking them away. He talks back? Fine. Subtract that 15 minutes he just earned. He tells you ';I'll do it later'; when he's not doing anything? All right. Now he's 15 minutes in the NEGATIVE. He'd better make that up quick if he wants to play at all.
After a few weeks of this he might be able to rejoin that running group. Doing something he can feel proud of will also be motivating and help his self-esteem so he doesn't feel the need to be so bossy with his friends and backtalk so often to you. But for the moment focus on doing chores and finishing his homework.
Good luck. Don't give up on him. He's too young for that! My sister seemed worse off than he sounds and she's a fine young lady now, at the top of her class.
No one wants to go to boarding school, besides hes your son, you are in charge. If his grades are bad, ride him hard about his school work. If he wont do stuff around the house, make him, you are in charge. If he plays too much video games, make him ask before playing. He is sure to get upset if you do these things, but if you love him, you will show him whats right and wrong.
boarding school could make everything worse.
take charge band everything until he starts to show improvement
a tour in Iraq will do him good.
Ever try spanking ?
if that don't work whip his bunns
well he is your son and you raised him like that. i went to boarding school, and although he might hate the idea, it was great being with my friends 24 hours a day, and not having to see my parents, what more could a kid want. you will get no improvement in school work, in fact the opposite, as i say he will be friends the whole time, that will be 5 years of talking to freinds which includes zero hours of any work outside of classes. the main thing he will learn is independence from you which could be a good thing andhe will realise that the attitude will have to go when he is constantly among his peers.
Nix the Vid games. Limit their use at least. They are addictive. Keep them under lock and key if you have to, if that don't work, sell them. Make your home a game free zone if you have to. Give him some consequences for bad behavior. If he's spoiled it's because you spoiled him. Let him slouch around, call his bluff and don't give in. He's slouching to make you feel sorry for him so he can return to running your lives. Who has the control in your house? No violence is necessary, just stick to your guns if you ground him for a month, Make it stick. He needs to learn respect, and he won't respect anyone who goes back on what they say. He will either start respecting you and behaving, or become more beligerant, violent and begin running away. This will depend on how brash he can be, and the underlying cause of his behavior.
The behavior as you describe seems to suggest a self loathing, and/or lack of ambition, and lack of respect. The lack of respect, your spoiling and leniency is the cause. The self loathing, and lack of ambition can be caused by loss of friends, or alienation or extortion by them. Less likely, but public female rejection, sex abuse, marijuana or alcohol use or the coaxing from others to use it, may also be possibilities as to the cause. It could also stem from depression which could be treated by a doctor, even if it isn't depression the Doctor may have some other suggestions for you.. If possible seek a child development councellor, your G.P. or M.D. can also direct you to one. Behaviors are due to causes, the councellor can help to find the true cause. You can't repair the situation if you don't know what the real problem is. The councellor can help with the solution as well.
Should all this fail due to the boys reluctance of the truth, and he continues the same way send him to a, Millitary Academy, if nothing else he will definately learn respect there.
Harsh words I know, but I used to be just like that 13 year old boy you describe. My parents always caved in. The professionals couldn't help in my case as I was too stubborn and would not be honest. I carried too much shame and guilt. I trusted no one. I learned respect on my own at Army Cadets, and later in Jail, but ended up living a life of alcoholism, drugs, and lies,lies,lies, until I finally found the truth at 41 years old, and changed my life for the better. I am now 44. I have what seems like many lifetimes of experience in what is wrong and I'm finally realizing what led me there. I say this not to shock you, but to share my experience, so that you may have a better chance of helping your son, and not having to live the anguish my mother went through with me.
I pray you find the causes of your sons behavior.
God Bless.Need advice about my teenage son. He's 13 and rude, unsociable and lazy....any thoughts on boarding school?
beat his @ss
Boarding school is no place for a kid.I was sent to Boarding School(Mills School Ft.Lauderdale Fla).
The place was a hell hole.I got bullied by the kids and staff
and My parents refused to listen.I had no where to turn.
I still have emotional wounds today from Mills School(closed 1978).If anyone from Mills is reading this bring it on.jjflash59@hotmail.com
tell him that cute girls ony like guys who can take charge and what not!!!
it's true ya know!
I think it's time for you to start parenting! Sounds as though you were lackadaisical in this area when he was younger, so he has grown into what you molded him into. Can still be changed. Maybe take some teen parenting classes to give you some ideas.
I went to a boarding school. Not because of a behavior problem; it was for gifted children.
However, there were a few gifted kids with behavior problems there. It didn't help. They just slacked off more and were eventually kicked out. What you're looking for is more of a tough-love type thing where someone will MAKE him do things.
But really, a lot of 13-year-olds are like that. They talk back to test your limits. Set them and stick with them. Taking away privileges is a good approach as long as it's consistent. However, in order to take away privileges, he has to earn some in the first place!
I turned out all right without a lot of guidance, but my sister at that age wasn't doing well. She couldn't do anything but be sarcastic and mope around. Well, eventually my dad had to put his foot down. He wants to play video games? Fine. But he has to do one chore for every fifteen minutes of playing. Take away the computer and game console until he does. Make a list ... wash dishes, take out trash, do one homework assignment, sweep floors, clean bathtub, etc. Ask him to come tell you when he does one, and you can inspect it. If it's done well he gets 15 minutes' worth of playing time. Add them up at the end of the day, and that's how long he can play before bed. Of course you have to do this early in the evening so it doesn't conflict with bedtime ... but that approach worked pretty well with my sister. Except she wanted to watch TV instead of playing games. Same thing, really.
If that gets him motivated, great. Problem solved. Take away the computer and console during the day, give him ONE for the specified amount of time during the evening. It might take a few days, but he will eventually get tired of doing NOTHING and be willing to barter for the privilege of doing fun things.
Once he earns some of those privileges, it's time to start taking them away. He talks back? Fine. Subtract that 15 minutes he just earned. He tells you ';I'll do it later'; when he's not doing anything? All right. Now he's 15 minutes in the NEGATIVE. He'd better make that up quick if he wants to play at all.
After a few weeks of this he might be able to rejoin that running group. Doing something he can feel proud of will also be motivating and help his self-esteem so he doesn't feel the need to be so bossy with his friends and backtalk so often to you. But for the moment focus on doing chores and finishing his homework.
Good luck. Don't give up on him. He's too young for that! My sister seemed worse off than he sounds and she's a fine young lady now, at the top of her class.
No one wants to go to boarding school, besides hes your son, you are in charge. If his grades are bad, ride him hard about his school work. If he wont do stuff around the house, make him, you are in charge. If he plays too much video games, make him ask before playing. He is sure to get upset if you do these things, but if you love him, you will show him whats right and wrong.
boarding school could make everything worse.
take charge band everything until he starts to show improvement
a tour in Iraq will do him good.
Ever try spanking ?
if that don't work whip his bunns
well he is your son and you raised him like that. i went to boarding school, and although he might hate the idea, it was great being with my friends 24 hours a day, and not having to see my parents, what more could a kid want. you will get no improvement in school work, in fact the opposite, as i say he will be friends the whole time, that will be 5 years of talking to freinds which includes zero hours of any work outside of classes. the main thing he will learn is independence from you which could be a good thing andhe will realise that the attitude will have to go when he is constantly among his peers.
Teenage girl seeking relationship advice?
Im in the 8th grade and a couple m onths ago i lost one of the most special guys i have ever had. All i think about is him anymore. All i dream about is him. I'm never hungry and i can't sleep that well anymore. I barely talk to anyone anymore and im usually listening to sad, slow music. I cry alot and the worst part is..i have cut my wrist twice. I know my friends are worried about me but i don't want them to worry about me and i don't want to go to an adult about this. I just can't help being depressed becuase all i think about is him. I can't stop listening to our song and i can't stop writing depressing poetry.
does anyone know whats wrong with me?...how can i help myself...?Teenage girl seeking relationship advice?
Hey.. i hope your doing okay.. i know the feeling, the same thing happened to me when i was your age,, (im36 now) i met the one and only true love of my life and i was an idiot and screwed it up... but thats how we learn.. through the years ive never forgotten about him.. i have dated lots of other men and am seeing a fabulous man right now. .but there is always something about first love that is so heart breaking when it ends.. but you know dont try and cut your wrists or anything like that.. no man is worth THAT... listen to music, cry if you have to, and write about it not just in poetry, but try journalling .. it really helps.. write for 20 minutes every day.. just about all of your feelings. .and as you slowly start to heal you will look back and see how far youve come .. and how much better you are feeling... (you can just use a regular school notebook) i still use journalling in my daily life to help me figure out and really know what s going on ..and it often helps me to find solutions to my own problems as if i see it in writing its easier to understand... Also try talking to a counsellor at school.. if you dont want to tell them about the wrist cutting thing you dont have to.. but i too am concerned about you.. ..you can talk to your doctor too and maybe he can prescribe you something for depression, but i think you just need time to heal and get over your first heart break.. it does get easier.. trust me.. ive been there... good luck and god bless you .. if youd like to chat email me.....Teenage girl seeking relationship advice?
Hey this stuff happens and it might take you a long time to get over it just don't hurt yourself and beleive he's in a better place now and also beleive that he loved you!I'm so sorry about your loss, when I was young(1/2 a day old) I lost both my parents.
try tellin him what you just told all of us...
There is truly nothing worse than to go through the pain of a broken heart. The only true cure for it is time - not sure it that's comforting to you, but it's the truth. And rest assured that you're not alone - right now, right this minute, there are literally thousands of people who are suffering through broken hearts, just like you. So you're not all by yourself in this. Try to stop hurting yourself if you can, but don't put too much pressure on yourself to simply 'feel better'. You definitely will get through this, and get over that guy, but it's going to take time.
First of all stop killing yourself, Why did you lose him? Was it something you did? Right now when you finish reading this I really want you to get something to eat. And try to cheer up alittle okay? Whatever you did wrong try to talk it out with him if things dont come out right then I think its time that you move on. How can you love someone eles when you cant love yourself? Just chill out, eat, get some sleep, and stop THE CUTTING! Tell him how you feel and maybe he still likes you.. As for your friends tell them what happened and they''ll understand.
Gurl goodluck please feel better and get well soon
p.s. GO EAT! LOL
Even though you don't want to go to an adult, you need to. They have classes and therapy for things like this. If you miss him that much and REALLY REALLY don't want to go to an adult, ask him out again, if you don't think you could handle rejection start being friends again. Get a huge group of people and go to a movie or something, that way its not a date but you'll be with him and a few friends.
hey, ,listen,. . just tell me one thing . ..
Did not eating. . .brought him back , ,
did not sleeping . . brought himback. . .
Or cutting ur wrist . . .brought him back. . . .
Just imagine, , Wht would he feel when he will come to know about this,that u are doing all this coz of him, , ,it will be hi turn to shed his blood. . .
Listen dear,these things wont help, ,i can understand ur feelings,but,True love doesnt means to be loved, , it means to love more. .thats it, , ,.
And u are in 8th grade,its not the end of ur life dear, ,,common , , ,get up..u have ur whole life ahead of you,, , ,wht the hell are u doing, , ,common dear, , u r more brave than this, ur life is cetainly more better than this, , , how can u waste ur life ike this.. . .
Do u know how much ur friends and ur parents love u . .did u ever thought about them, , , . .U felt this way when u lost some one u loved, , just imagine how would ur parents feel when they will lose u , , ,
U r ready to die for few mnths love,, but , ,Ur parents love u so much, , cant u live for them , , , and they will loveu fo rest of ur life,is that not enough for u, , ,...think over it, ,no one else can say u wht to do,,,its your call
Listen! You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself, and get a hobby! find something you used to enjoy doing, before he came along, and start that up again. make some friends, ditch the music. stop cutting, and talk to your parents.
You'll are just ';love'; sick. Please ! too young for a relationship and you cannot handle the failure. Thus, please focus on something good, like studies and don't think of that. You'll have plenty of times for relationship since you'll are very young and move on with life, just treat this as an expensive lesson that money cannot buy.
it sounds like you are depressed. I am sorry the guy left but you need to be strong. You will find someone else. Stop listening to your song...throw it in the trash!!! And I know you don't want to go to adults about the cutting...but that is a serious problem and you are hurting yourself physically but it is your emtions you need to deal with. Talk to a school counsler or someone you trust to help you. Your parents are probably more understanding than you think. If you believe in God pray for his help also...Please stop the cutting you can truly make yourself very ill with that!
I used to be in your same situation, except for the wrist cutting thing, mine was pills. Later on in life I was diagnosed with depression, duh, I take medicine now and all is good.
Who cares if you cut lotsa people do that
have you tried talkin to him? boys arent that hard to tlak to
just tell him how u feel and if hes not ok with it then move on
avoid sad music.listen to upbeat songs like hilary duff or fergie.also never give urself free time.get ur mind off him. do sports, dance, make new friends and go to a movie with them. whatever u have 2 do to not be bored and think about that guy
first you need to STOP cutting yourself and realze that there are other guys in thye world and you are good anough for all of them. and stop being afraid at talk to a conslor they will help you with this stuff.
Play some on-line games! Down load war rock at war rock.net and look for michaelp... It's a shooting games.. We need more girls to play. Anyways, it helped me out. Now my grades are going down and I play almost all day some days skipping school. Wow...I totally forgot about any one I once love but war rock. Good luck and hope to see u.
You are in crush with that fellow
you have a WHOLE entire life to live and wollowing in your sorrow isn't helping. don't think about him, keep yourself busy with other activities. spend alot of time with your friends. 8th grade is no time to get depressed over a breakup. right now, go out side and go for a jog. and you'll feel better. try and keep a friendship relationship with him...good luuck!!
It is called a broken heart. Talk to a trusted person or a counseller about how you are feeling. They can help you overcome it and help you move on with your life.
Best of luck to you!
UGH!!!
You got it bad girly.
Me have something like that many years ago when I was a young pup.
Crazy in love with cute little girl. Her move away. Me get the blues real bad. But, in time me decide life is too short to waste being sad. Lots of people out there having fun, doing great things. Me just decide to join life and have more fun.
So, you stop being like a hermit. Get happy fun music, turn on lots of lights and dance, jump around, go for walk in park on sunny day. You will meet some one you can love again someday and the world WILL seem alright again.
It happened to me, it happened to a bunch of my friends and it can happen to you.
NOw stop whining like little 3rd grader, feeling sorry for yourself. Get going and enjoy life.
teardrop, you are suffering from depression. You should seek a positive person in your life to speak with. Your feelings are real, so don't someone tell you they are not. I think you have extremely strong feelings about your old boyfriend. Seek help. Speak to your girlfriends about your deep feelings.
Probably falling into a state of depression. I did the same thing after my uncle died. Tell your mom you feel sick, have her take you to the doctor, don't let her go in the room, and tell the doctor what's really going on. He or she can help you, they really can.
You can never get help for the problems people dont know you have. So find someone you can really talk to and just tell them exactly how you feel. Than you'll feel much better and much more secure
Buy a funny hat. Talk to a friend. Troll Yahoo Answers.
Well first of all, MOVE ON. Even if you still miss him, its not the end of the world. You can't be held down because of one guy. If you do, then you'll roll through life full of depression and you will miss having a fun life. So my advice would be to just move on and find something else to occupy your time. As for cutting your wrists, please don't do that. That not only damages you mentally but also physically. You will be scarred for life if you do that. Just find an outlet to focus on and then move on and live your life without being held downgreat makeup
does anyone know whats wrong with me?...how can i help myself...?Teenage girl seeking relationship advice?
Hey.. i hope your doing okay.. i know the feeling, the same thing happened to me when i was your age,, (im36 now) i met the one and only true love of my life and i was an idiot and screwed it up... but thats how we learn.. through the years ive never forgotten about him.. i have dated lots of other men and am seeing a fabulous man right now. .but there is always something about first love that is so heart breaking when it ends.. but you know dont try and cut your wrists or anything like that.. no man is worth THAT... listen to music, cry if you have to, and write about it not just in poetry, but try journalling .. it really helps.. write for 20 minutes every day.. just about all of your feelings. .and as you slowly start to heal you will look back and see how far youve come .. and how much better you are feeling... (you can just use a regular school notebook) i still use journalling in my daily life to help me figure out and really know what s going on ..and it often helps me to find solutions to my own problems as if i see it in writing its easier to understand... Also try talking to a counsellor at school.. if you dont want to tell them about the wrist cutting thing you dont have to.. but i too am concerned about you.. ..you can talk to your doctor too and maybe he can prescribe you something for depression, but i think you just need time to heal and get over your first heart break.. it does get easier.. trust me.. ive been there... good luck and god bless you .. if youd like to chat email me.....Teenage girl seeking relationship advice?
Hey this stuff happens and it might take you a long time to get over it just don't hurt yourself and beleive he's in a better place now and also beleive that he loved you!I'm so sorry about your loss, when I was young(1/2 a day old) I lost both my parents.
try tellin him what you just told all of us...
There is truly nothing worse than to go through the pain of a broken heart. The only true cure for it is time - not sure it that's comforting to you, but it's the truth. And rest assured that you're not alone - right now, right this minute, there are literally thousands of people who are suffering through broken hearts, just like you. So you're not all by yourself in this. Try to stop hurting yourself if you can, but don't put too much pressure on yourself to simply 'feel better'. You definitely will get through this, and get over that guy, but it's going to take time.
First of all stop killing yourself, Why did you lose him? Was it something you did? Right now when you finish reading this I really want you to get something to eat. And try to cheer up alittle okay? Whatever you did wrong try to talk it out with him if things dont come out right then I think its time that you move on. How can you love someone eles when you cant love yourself? Just chill out, eat, get some sleep, and stop THE CUTTING! Tell him how you feel and maybe he still likes you.. As for your friends tell them what happened and they''ll understand.
Gurl goodluck please feel better and get well soon
p.s. GO EAT! LOL
Even though you don't want to go to an adult, you need to. They have classes and therapy for things like this. If you miss him that much and REALLY REALLY don't want to go to an adult, ask him out again, if you don't think you could handle rejection start being friends again. Get a huge group of people and go to a movie or something, that way its not a date but you'll be with him and a few friends.
hey, ,listen,. . just tell me one thing . ..
Did not eating. . .brought him back , ,
did not sleeping . . brought himback. . .
Or cutting ur wrist . . .brought him back. . . .
Just imagine, , Wht would he feel when he will come to know about this,that u are doing all this coz of him, , ,it will be hi turn to shed his blood. . .
Listen dear,these things wont help, ,i can understand ur feelings,but,True love doesnt means to be loved, , it means to love more. .thats it, , ,.
And u are in 8th grade,its not the end of ur life dear, ,,common , , ,get up..u have ur whole life ahead of you,, , ,wht the hell are u doing, , ,common dear, , u r more brave than this, ur life is cetainly more better than this, , , how can u waste ur life ike this.. . .
Do u know how much ur friends and ur parents love u . .did u ever thought about them, , , . .U felt this way when u lost some one u loved, , just imagine how would ur parents feel when they will lose u , , ,
U r ready to die for few mnths love,, but , ,Ur parents love u so much, , cant u live for them , , , and they will loveu fo rest of ur life,is that not enough for u, , ,...think over it, ,no one else can say u wht to do,,,its your call
Listen! You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself, and get a hobby! find something you used to enjoy doing, before he came along, and start that up again. make some friends, ditch the music. stop cutting, and talk to your parents.
You'll are just ';love'; sick. Please ! too young for a relationship and you cannot handle the failure. Thus, please focus on something good, like studies and don't think of that. You'll have plenty of times for relationship since you'll are very young and move on with life, just treat this as an expensive lesson that money cannot buy.
it sounds like you are depressed. I am sorry the guy left but you need to be strong. You will find someone else. Stop listening to your song...throw it in the trash!!! And I know you don't want to go to adults about the cutting...but that is a serious problem and you are hurting yourself physically but it is your emtions you need to deal with. Talk to a school counsler or someone you trust to help you. Your parents are probably more understanding than you think. If you believe in God pray for his help also...Please stop the cutting you can truly make yourself very ill with that!
I used to be in your same situation, except for the wrist cutting thing, mine was pills. Later on in life I was diagnosed with depression, duh, I take medicine now and all is good.
Who cares if you cut lotsa people do that
have you tried talkin to him? boys arent that hard to tlak to
just tell him how u feel and if hes not ok with it then move on
avoid sad music.listen to upbeat songs like hilary duff or fergie.also never give urself free time.get ur mind off him. do sports, dance, make new friends and go to a movie with them. whatever u have 2 do to not be bored and think about that guy
first you need to STOP cutting yourself and realze that there are other guys in thye world and you are good anough for all of them. and stop being afraid at talk to a conslor they will help you with this stuff.
Play some on-line games! Down load war rock at war rock.net and look for michaelp... It's a shooting games.. We need more girls to play. Anyways, it helped me out. Now my grades are going down and I play almost all day some days skipping school. Wow...I totally forgot about any one I once love but war rock. Good luck and hope to see u.
You are in crush with that fellow
you have a WHOLE entire life to live and wollowing in your sorrow isn't helping. don't think about him, keep yourself busy with other activities. spend alot of time with your friends. 8th grade is no time to get depressed over a breakup. right now, go out side and go for a jog. and you'll feel better. try and keep a friendship relationship with him...good luuck!!
It is called a broken heart. Talk to a trusted person or a counseller about how you are feeling. They can help you overcome it and help you move on with your life.
Best of luck to you!
UGH!!!
You got it bad girly.
Me have something like that many years ago when I was a young pup.
Crazy in love with cute little girl. Her move away. Me get the blues real bad. But, in time me decide life is too short to waste being sad. Lots of people out there having fun, doing great things. Me just decide to join life and have more fun.
So, you stop being like a hermit. Get happy fun music, turn on lots of lights and dance, jump around, go for walk in park on sunny day. You will meet some one you can love again someday and the world WILL seem alright again.
It happened to me, it happened to a bunch of my friends and it can happen to you.
NOw stop whining like little 3rd grader, feeling sorry for yourself. Get going and enjoy life.
teardrop, you are suffering from depression. You should seek a positive person in your life to speak with. Your feelings are real, so don't someone tell you they are not. I think you have extremely strong feelings about your old boyfriend. Seek help. Speak to your girlfriends about your deep feelings.
Probably falling into a state of depression. I did the same thing after my uncle died. Tell your mom you feel sick, have her take you to the doctor, don't let her go in the room, and tell the doctor what's really going on. He or she can help you, they really can.
You can never get help for the problems people dont know you have. So find someone you can really talk to and just tell them exactly how you feel. Than you'll feel much better and much more secure
Buy a funny hat. Talk to a friend. Troll Yahoo Answers.
Well first of all, MOVE ON. Even if you still miss him, its not the end of the world. You can't be held down because of one guy. If you do, then you'll roll through life full of depression and you will miss having a fun life. So my advice would be to just move on and find something else to occupy your time. As for cutting your wrists, please don't do that. That not only damages you mentally but also physically. You will be scarred for life if you do that. Just find an outlet to focus on and then move on and live your life without being held down
Advice needed from teenage girls??
I am 16 and I plan to ask a girl out, but I am not sure where I should take her. I know everybody always says to go to the movies, but is there any other experiences you have had on a first date that you found very fun or whatever, or anything you think is a good idea. Any ideas would be much appreciated. ThanxAdvice needed from teenage girls??
go mini golfing ..
alright i have a plan ..
ask her to go mini golfing with you ..
before you pick her up .. go to the mini golf place %26amp; ask them if you can buy a pink ball off of them, b.c you wanna ask a girl out ..
when they give you the ball get a sharpie %26amp; write on it ..
';(name here) will you go out with me?
or just buy a pretty ball %26amp; write on it ..
%26amp; bring it to the mini golf placve before hand
then ask them to, hold it there for you, untill you get there ..
then have them give you the ball %26amp; another one (for you)
take the ball %26amp; on the first hole hand her the ball ..
soo cute right?!Advice needed from teenage girls??
I don't suggest going to the movies. If you want to talk, communicate, and get to know this girl, why would you go to somewhere that forbids you to chat for an hour and a half? I suggest doing outdoor mini golf. It is so fun and you can talk, have drinks, and have a good time. I've done it multiple times on first dates and it is inexpensive as well as convenient and fun. Then I would say afterward, depending on your intentions, take ehr to dinner, or out for a drink, or a walk in the park, or a movie at your house. All depends on your intentions with this girl and how well you want to get to know her or if she is just a fling.
If you drive, the drive in is always fun aswell. Movie and you can talk and get to know eachother.
She'd be really impressed too if you gave her the option of where to go. Ask her what she likes and where she would prefer to go and take her, she'll be impressed that you listen and care for her opinion. Good luck!
You're first date should be casual but romantic at the same time. Take her to the mall or something. You could buy her lunch at the food court and walk around and get to know each other without it being to private and intimate, because you don't want to crowd her or anything, since it is just a first date. You get to know the girl better and see if you are really interested in dating her.
yea i think taking a girl to the movies is REALLY getting old and predictable. i know that when my boyfriend took me out once he took me to a private spot to look at the stars and stuff, and i thought that was REALLY cute and something different, but i dont know if that would be good for a first date bc you dont want her to think ur taking out into the woods for something else haha. but i know there is going to be a meteor shower on aug. 11th or something. but i think that taking her out to dinner, while not that different would be a good first date. but i think it just depends on where you are from and whats around i know i live in the blue ridge mountains and we have the blue ridge parkway here and theres not a whole lot else to do so we go out to the parkway alot but i think it just really depends on where u are from and whats around. but dont do a movie!!
good luck!!
I'm not a teen but close enough! ha
Well i think if you want a better experience try an amusement park.
Roller blading in the park with a picnic. get creative!
Its summer, maybe go to the beach or the lake or something.
ask her is she would like to do something or find out her favorite hobby.
i like to go bowling, or to an arcade, hang out at the mall. i don't know there is so much to do!!
have fun and good luck!
Even though I have never been out (parents won't let me) , here is something that might make it a night out worth dreaming about:
If you live close to the beach, try walking barefoot [at night] holding hands where the waves meet the sand; also when the moon is shining...
take her to a nice restaurant and have a nice conversation with her. ask her somethings about her and let her know that you are listening to her. then take her to the park at night where the moon is big and bright... then take her home and kiss her on the lips but if you don't want to move to fast then kiss her on the cheek
take her out for a walk in some beautiful countryside, just you and your sweetheart, that would just be really special especially if it is a remote hill with a gorgeous view where the two of you can just sit and... enjoy the view(: i wont take it any further(;
I went on a picnic :) It was crazy fun, because we went to a park, and even though there were little kids all around, we climbed around on the jungle gym.
Or mini-golf. Really, any thing that AVOIDS that awkward silence where no one is doing or saying anything is great!
Good luck!
some place fun. bowling. mini golf. skating. just any place you can think of that sounds like fun. trust me i had the best time bowling with one of my boyfriends.. and if she's real into you she might fake not knowing what to do so you can show her..
take her to a arcade like dave and busters...
or take her to your favorite spot but take some tyme to do what she wants to do there....take her out to her favorite restaraunt...or if thats to expensive have a picnic with foods that she loves or whatever...make it all about her
bowling,minni golf,the zoo,arcade, or something like a family fun center where they have minni golf arcade games bumper cars and the ones you race and food.
If you live near mountains, get take-out, drive to the top, and picnic. Especially at night, you can see for miles and the view of all the lights in the cities beneath you is AMAZING.. Best date I've ever had.
i wouldnt go to the movies.. cuz for the first time she might not ant you to make a move on her. And going to the movies is normally when ppl try to make a move. Take her to icetime or something. =]
A picnic at the park
It's cheap, cute, and really fun
:-)
(Movies are boring and you cant talk)
Try a beach? Go to a park, somewhere? Or maybe just to the mall or something.
Don't suggest going to the movies until the second date...she may think that you're trying to put moves on her :)
go mini golfing and out to pizza something fun and comfortable for her.
Bowling Is Okay..
The Mall is fun.
if you have a place like celebration station
or something where you can act immature.
-go out to eat in a good restuarant
-talk a walk with her outside
-go to the amusement park.
-arcade
mini golfing is always fun, even though it sounds lame, most girls enjoy it, i no i do =D
bowling, crazy golf, day at the beach, day at the mall
amusement park,maybe to like a quite place near a lake or something and bring like a picnic etc
TO. THE MALL THEN U CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT SHE LIKE, THEN U MAYB ABLE TOO BUY HER SUMTHING SHE WANTS...AND IT'LL BE FUN
Arcades or bowling is also fun. Just ask her what she would like to do.
Try a park,maybe some type of a nature walk.
Go to a fair or like Six Flags that was always
FUN!!!
Mini golf!!!! Me and my Bf always have loads of fun there!
go somewhere that is active like bowling or mini golf
Gor for a picnic or a walk
the fair or an amusement park if she and u like that stuff
on a romantic walk through a park that has a lot of flowers
go mini golfing ..
alright i have a plan ..
ask her to go mini golfing with you ..
before you pick her up .. go to the mini golf place %26amp; ask them if you can buy a pink ball off of them, b.c you wanna ask a girl out ..
when they give you the ball get a sharpie %26amp; write on it ..
';(name here) will you go out with me?
or just buy a pretty ball %26amp; write on it ..
%26amp; bring it to the mini golf placve before hand
then ask them to, hold it there for you, untill you get there ..
then have them give you the ball %26amp; another one (for you)
take the ball %26amp; on the first hole hand her the ball ..
soo cute right?!Advice needed from teenage girls??
I don't suggest going to the movies. If you want to talk, communicate, and get to know this girl, why would you go to somewhere that forbids you to chat for an hour and a half? I suggest doing outdoor mini golf. It is so fun and you can talk, have drinks, and have a good time. I've done it multiple times on first dates and it is inexpensive as well as convenient and fun. Then I would say afterward, depending on your intentions, take ehr to dinner, or out for a drink, or a walk in the park, or a movie at your house. All depends on your intentions with this girl and how well you want to get to know her or if she is just a fling.
If you drive, the drive in is always fun aswell. Movie and you can talk and get to know eachother.
She'd be really impressed too if you gave her the option of where to go. Ask her what she likes and where she would prefer to go and take her, she'll be impressed that you listen and care for her opinion. Good luck!
You're first date should be casual but romantic at the same time. Take her to the mall or something. You could buy her lunch at the food court and walk around and get to know each other without it being to private and intimate, because you don't want to crowd her or anything, since it is just a first date. You get to know the girl better and see if you are really interested in dating her.
yea i think taking a girl to the movies is REALLY getting old and predictable. i know that when my boyfriend took me out once he took me to a private spot to look at the stars and stuff, and i thought that was REALLY cute and something different, but i dont know if that would be good for a first date bc you dont want her to think ur taking out into the woods for something else haha. but i know there is going to be a meteor shower on aug. 11th or something. but i think that taking her out to dinner, while not that different would be a good first date. but i think it just depends on where you are from and whats around i know i live in the blue ridge mountains and we have the blue ridge parkway here and theres not a whole lot else to do so we go out to the parkway alot but i think it just really depends on where u are from and whats around. but dont do a movie!!
good luck!!
I'm not a teen but close enough! ha
Well i think if you want a better experience try an amusement park.
Roller blading in the park with a picnic. get creative!
Its summer, maybe go to the beach or the lake or something.
ask her is she would like to do something or find out her favorite hobby.
i like to go bowling, or to an arcade, hang out at the mall. i don't know there is so much to do!!
have fun and good luck!
Even though I have never been out (parents won't let me) , here is something that might make it a night out worth dreaming about:
If you live close to the beach, try walking barefoot [at night] holding hands where the waves meet the sand; also when the moon is shining...
take her to a nice restaurant and have a nice conversation with her. ask her somethings about her and let her know that you are listening to her. then take her to the park at night where the moon is big and bright... then take her home and kiss her on the lips but if you don't want to move to fast then kiss her on the cheek
take her out for a walk in some beautiful countryside, just you and your sweetheart, that would just be really special especially if it is a remote hill with a gorgeous view where the two of you can just sit and... enjoy the view(: i wont take it any further(;
I went on a picnic :) It was crazy fun, because we went to a park, and even though there were little kids all around, we climbed around on the jungle gym.
Or mini-golf. Really, any thing that AVOIDS that awkward silence where no one is doing or saying anything is great!
Good luck!
some place fun. bowling. mini golf. skating. just any place you can think of that sounds like fun. trust me i had the best time bowling with one of my boyfriends.. and if she's real into you she might fake not knowing what to do so you can show her..
take her to a arcade like dave and busters...
or take her to your favorite spot but take some tyme to do what she wants to do there....take her out to her favorite restaraunt...or if thats to expensive have a picnic with foods that she loves or whatever...make it all about her
bowling,minni golf,the zoo,arcade, or something like a family fun center where they have minni golf arcade games bumper cars and the ones you race and food.
If you live near mountains, get take-out, drive to the top, and picnic. Especially at night, you can see for miles and the view of all the lights in the cities beneath you is AMAZING.. Best date I've ever had.
i wouldnt go to the movies.. cuz for the first time she might not ant you to make a move on her. And going to the movies is normally when ppl try to make a move. Take her to icetime or something. =]
A picnic at the park
It's cheap, cute, and really fun
:-)
(Movies are boring and you cant talk)
Try a beach? Go to a park, somewhere? Or maybe just to the mall or something.
Don't suggest going to the movies until the second date...she may think that you're trying to put moves on her :)
go mini golfing and out to pizza something fun and comfortable for her.
Bowling Is Okay..
The Mall is fun.
if you have a place like celebration station
or something where you can act immature.
-go out to eat in a good restuarant
-talk a walk with her outside
-go to the amusement park.
-arcade
mini golfing is always fun, even though it sounds lame, most girls enjoy it, i no i do =D
bowling, crazy golf, day at the beach, day at the mall
amusement park,maybe to like a quite place near a lake or something and bring like a picnic etc
TO. THE MALL THEN U CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT SHE LIKE, THEN U MAYB ABLE TOO BUY HER SUMTHING SHE WANTS...AND IT'LL BE FUN
Arcades or bowling is also fun. Just ask her what she would like to do.
Try a park,maybe some type of a nature walk.
Go to a fair or like Six Flags that was always
FUN!!!
Mini golf!!!! Me and my Bf always have loads of fun there!
go somewhere that is active like bowling or mini golf
Gor for a picnic or a walk
the fair or an amusement park if she and u like that stuff
on a romantic walk through a park that has a lot of flowers
Teenage Ladies...I need advice?
ok there is this that i have been planning on asking out for a while but i dont know how. i see her every day at cross country practice, but there is never any time alone so i dont see how to ask her then and we dont have any classes together. i was thinking about texting her telling her to get out of class to talk, then telling her how amazing i think she is and all that good stuff. what should i do?
and also what are some good first dates besides the usual dinner or movie?Teenage Ladies...I need advice?
just say ';hey we should hang out sometime'; and see what she says. if ';yea'; say cool and follow up on it tomorrow to make it seem like your not to forwardTeenage Ladies...I need advice?
Do exactly that call her away from her friends and talk to her then ask if she'd like to go bowling, mini golfing, anything like that or even just to hang out at a local event, concert, play, school musical, ballet... i would stick with something simple like bowling or billiards, maybe arcade gaming that's fun too.
hay i think the best way to ask her i to walk up to her when she is alone and ask her straight out i mean thats what guys do to me and the best first date may to go to maybe take her to the beach and have an nicr romantic dinner that always works to get a good night kiss believe me i know been there done that
that is a good idea but just go up to her and ask for a secound and ask.
P.S usally what is nice a night picnic (under the stars is beautiful)
and also what are some good first dates besides the usual dinner or movie?Teenage Ladies...I need advice?
just say ';hey we should hang out sometime'; and see what she says. if ';yea'; say cool and follow up on it tomorrow to make it seem like your not to forwardTeenage Ladies...I need advice?
Do exactly that call her away from her friends and talk to her then ask if she'd like to go bowling, mini golfing, anything like that or even just to hang out at a local event, concert, play, school musical, ballet... i would stick with something simple like bowling or billiards, maybe arcade gaming that's fun too.
hay i think the best way to ask her i to walk up to her when she is alone and ask her straight out i mean thats what guys do to me and the best first date may to go to maybe take her to the beach and have an nicr romantic dinner that always works to get a good night kiss believe me i know been there done that
that is a good idea but just go up to her and ask for a secound and ask.
P.S usally what is nice a night picnic (under the stars is beautiful)
Teenage Plus Size fashion advice?
I'm a plus size teen and it sucks to go cloths shopping because almost nothing looks good on me. I need help!!!Teenage Plus Size fashion advice?
Wear jeans that FIT rather than make rolls at the waist lol Don't worry about what size your clothes are, find the clothes that fit. I wear from a 14 to a 20! Many times womens size clothing fits awkwardly and it's best to find junior plus sizes, or just extended misses or juniors sizes. Women's sizes put extra fabric in all the wrong places. I like L.E.I.'s juniors extended sizes, though the sizing is very strange. One size may fit me in a certain jean and I may need two sizes up in another cut of the same brand jean. Shirts, though...I can't help you much. I can't find a lot that looks good either. I don't know what size you are, but Lerners/New York %26amp; Co. has some cute stuff that goes up to XL, and Calvin Klein has some absolutely beautiful clothes that do go up to size 16 and XL. I got a CK velvet cropped jacket last year that was GORGEOUS. Play up your features hon. If you've got a nice chest, a waist, and pretty hips, wear those hip hugger jeans and a shirt long enough to cover to at least the belt loops. Heels :-) always. Keep the dark colors in one place or the other (either top or bottom, best bottom for the majority of us). Low cut/V-neck shirts look best, as do longer short sleeves or 3/4 sleeves. Cropped pants are pretty awful on everyone (even the thin people), as are the pants that are so tight on the thighs a person can see the cellulite. Blah.
lolTeenage Plus Size fashion advice?
www.alight.com
www.torrid.com
www.colorinstyle.com
www.hottopic.com
http://www.jelasemporium.com/
First, never try on clothes after eating, always wear a flattering bra and good looking comfortable shoes(all to make you more self confident). Beisides Torrid try www.lanebryant.com
join the club, hun.
Torrid is a totally awesome plus size store!
www.torrid.com
Wear jeans that FIT rather than make rolls at the waist lol Don't worry about what size your clothes are, find the clothes that fit. I wear from a 14 to a 20! Many times womens size clothing fits awkwardly and it's best to find junior plus sizes, or just extended misses or juniors sizes. Women's sizes put extra fabric in all the wrong places. I like L.E.I.'s juniors extended sizes, though the sizing is very strange. One size may fit me in a certain jean and I may need two sizes up in another cut of the same brand jean. Shirts, though...I can't help you much. I can't find a lot that looks good either. I don't know what size you are, but Lerners/New York %26amp; Co. has some cute stuff that goes up to XL, and Calvin Klein has some absolutely beautiful clothes that do go up to size 16 and XL. I got a CK velvet cropped jacket last year that was GORGEOUS. Play up your features hon. If you've got a nice chest, a waist, and pretty hips, wear those hip hugger jeans and a shirt long enough to cover to at least the belt loops. Heels :-) always. Keep the dark colors in one place or the other (either top or bottom, best bottom for the majority of us). Low cut/V-neck shirts look best, as do longer short sleeves or 3/4 sleeves. Cropped pants are pretty awful on everyone (even the thin people), as are the pants that are so tight on the thighs a person can see the cellulite. Blah.
lolTeenage Plus Size fashion advice?
www.alight.com
www.torrid.com
www.colorinstyle.com
www.hottopic.com
http://www.jelasemporium.com/
First, never try on clothes after eating, always wear a flattering bra and good looking comfortable shoes(all to make you more self confident). Beisides Torrid try www.lanebryant.com
join the club, hun.
Torrid is a totally awesome plus size store!
www.torrid.com
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