I am happily married (yes at 17) We both have full time jobs. I'm still in school, last year YAY...I dont know im just looking for any advice.
ThanksHey, im 17 and have a 7 month old son. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for a teenage mom like myself.
Sounds like your doing a real good job so far.
Just stay in school and make sure your son has what he needs and go on to college to make a better life for all of you.
Always put your son's needs first and stay positive.
Congrats this is great news coming from such a young lady.
Keep your head on straight and you will do fine..Hey, im 17 and have a 7 month old son. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for a teenage mom like myself.
wow so u were 16 when u had ure baby!! n nothing wrong with that. it seems like ure a very mature woman n such a good mom and wife. i'm so proud of you!
just keep the good job and keep taking care of ure family. always show them love and ALWAYS keep them number one in ure life!!!
ure gonna face some very hard days n sometimes ure gonna feel like u cant do anything anymore but never give up, just remember that ure a strong woman n u can do it. keep ure husband in love with you so he can always be with u and help u... just always remember that making a happy family is always in the woman's hand, u do all the job!
good luck in ure life n have a nice day :)
i totally agree with Lisa_son she is right Hun you are doing so good for yourself,your son and your husband.not many young lady's out there can handle this life load if that makes sense so great job and keep doing the things that make you happy and your little family will make it through anything that life brings your way.you are such a roll model for all these young girls out there you need to just focus on your schooling and your son also your husband,and try not to take on to much what you got going now is enough for the time being.....................GREAT JOB KEEP IT UP.......................CONGRATS ON YOUR LITTLE FAMILY...
Stay strong, believe, and always have faith.
don't forget to work hard at your relationship. show your baby and your husband how much you love them everyday. just keep on the right track. ;)
you sound like you know what your doing. have patience and give him lots of love. have fun!
Just keep your head up. i'm sure that there are ignorant ppl around who still try to shame you for being a teen mom even though it sounds like you are doing better than a lot of adults. Compared to some of the stupid crap I've seen up here from teen mothers, you make me proud. Just be the kind of teen mom that helps change the world's misconceptions about teen moms. That's what I've tried to do since I had my daughter at 17.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
General advice for teenage girls?
hey im 13 (almost 14) and im going to be a freshman this year (go freshies!! :P) i just kind of want some general advice (guys, dating, school, life, etc.) for a girl my age. nothing in particular, just stuff that might be nice to know for the future :) please and thank you %26lt;3General advice for teenage girls?
Sex, drugs, and alcohol are not so distant anymore. Look out for stalkers.General advice for teenage girls?
IF YOU DON'T WANNA END UP LIKE SOME PEOPLE...: Don't have sex, don't try drugs (there'll be a lot of 'em in high school), don't get mixed up with the ';wrong'; people
IF YOU WANNA SUCCED ACADEMICALY AND SOCIALLY: don't slack off, don't be absent for more than 1 or 2 days because it will be really hard to make up and I mean hard, try to do all the assignments, try to make as many friends as you can coz if you miss something you can just copy of somebody or ask them to help you, try to get into clubs or sports, be nice to everybody
Good luck!
Pl avoid sex before marriage . be truthful to your lover and husband....
try your best not to get involved with drama. high school is full of it and you wont have fun if your in the middle of every situation. yes, obviously you wont be able to avoid EVERYTHING, but dont start **** that doeesnt need to be started, dont make things up. go with the flow and youll be okay(:
I am currently going into my senior year in high school, and my freshman year was pretty cool. Be a nice person, avoid people that are loud, don't talk about people behind their back, and don't be afraid to show people who you are because fake people just suck as friends :)
Hope i helped!
Sex, drugs, and alcohol are not so distant anymore. Look out for stalkers.General advice for teenage girls?
IF YOU DON'T WANNA END UP LIKE SOME PEOPLE...: Don't have sex, don't try drugs (there'll be a lot of 'em in high school), don't get mixed up with the ';wrong'; people
IF YOU WANNA SUCCED ACADEMICALY AND SOCIALLY: don't slack off, don't be absent for more than 1 or 2 days because it will be really hard to make up and I mean hard, try to do all the assignments, try to make as many friends as you can coz if you miss something you can just copy of somebody or ask them to help you, try to get into clubs or sports, be nice to everybody
Good luck!
Pl avoid sex before marriage . be truthful to your lover and husband....
try your best not to get involved with drama. high school is full of it and you wont have fun if your in the middle of every situation. yes, obviously you wont be able to avoid EVERYTHING, but dont start **** that doeesnt need to be started, dont make things up. go with the flow and youll be okay(:
I am currently going into my senior year in high school, and my freshman year was pretty cool. Be a nice person, avoid people that are loud, don't talk about people behind their back, and don't be afraid to show people who you are because fake people just suck as friends :)
Hope i helped!
How come teenage guys dont have any advice web-sites??
My girl-friend was grounded and i was on the phone with her and she asked me to get on my computer and check some web-sites like xanga, my space, and hi5 for her so i did...Then she asked me to check out this one web-site for her called Myjellybean %26amp; it was a really interesting sit also.. it gave advice and quizzes and answered questions and stuff, but it was for girls only.. I was just wondering if there were any sitets like myjellybean but instead for teenage girls for teenage guys.. So do you know of sites like that but for teenage guys?? Well if u do, can u plz tell me them?? I would greatly appreciate it.. Thx!!How come teenage guys dont have any advice web-sites??
Its the same as with magazines.
How many are for women?
Men (teen guys or older) dont tend to do the 'gossip' thing in quite the same way.How come teenage guys dont have any advice web-sites??
Guys generally dont talk about problems, they tend to try to resolve issues themselves. Girls are much more open and communicative with problems and dispensing/receiving advice. This would show weakness, which most guys are hesitant to admit to.
Cause guys have a way to deal with problems themselves? you seen the news...Serial Killers, Abusers, Molestors, Pedofiles! why need help sites when we have these perfect job oportunities
Cuz teenage guys usually only look for pron? LOL.
Hi5 is just as useless as Myspace.
Go find a site that you like, theres...well...just a few out there.
Why don't you start one yourself. Be the first and make a ton of money. Become an internet high flyer and spend the rest of your days living the life of Riley (who-ever he is?)
Its the same as with magazines.
How many are for women?
Men (teen guys or older) dont tend to do the 'gossip' thing in quite the same way.How come teenage guys dont have any advice web-sites??
Guys generally dont talk about problems, they tend to try to resolve issues themselves. Girls are much more open and communicative with problems and dispensing/receiving advice. This would show weakness, which most guys are hesitant to admit to.
Cause guys have a way to deal with problems themselves? you seen the news...Serial Killers, Abusers, Molestors, Pedofiles! why need help sites when we have these perfect job oportunities
Cuz teenage guys usually only look for pron? LOL.
Hi5 is just as useless as Myspace.
Go find a site that you like, theres...well...just a few out there.
Why don't you start one yourself. Be the first and make a ton of money. Become an internet high flyer and spend the rest of your days living the life of Riley (who-ever he is?)
What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
Hello, my son is 18 years old. Ever since he was able to talk he's dreamed of becoming a famous rapper. His idol is Eminem and he's been working on writing rap songs for about 8 years now.
He recently informed me and my wife that he was going to move to LA to finally fulfill his dream of becoming an internationally known rapper. But, he said before he does that, he is going to make it official by legally changing his name. You see, he beleives that his current name, the name my wife and I gave him, isn't ';gansta'; enough and that he needs a more tough-sounding name if he's ever going to be taken seriously in the rap community.
His name now is Erwin Q. McToolmeister. But he said that on Monday, he's going down to city hall and he's going to legally change it to Hercules J. Murder. I said that that name is completely ridiculous and suggested he try another name like maybe L.L. Tool-Jay, or something like that, but he has his heart set on Hercules J. Murder. My wife and I are just devastated. What should we do about this?What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
Let him go and dance naked in the living room knowing the house is now yours and you no longer have to run to the bedroom to bump uglies.
And change the locks on the door. When he fails and returns home hand him bus fare and a map to the nearest shelter. That'll give him a dose of reality.What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
i know that whenever im going to do something stupid and my parents are trying to convince me not to do it i want to do it more. so if i were you i would tell him its fine he wants to change his name for his career, but ask him to not do it legally. Dont many artists just use a fake name, but keep their original name?
Idk how it is in the USA but here, when you want to completely change your name, you need to have a LOT of cash.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it too much now....let him live his life...hopefully eventually he will become more mature and change it,
I got a good gangsta name for your son! He should call himself Troll Junior!
I had high hopes upon becoming a famous rapper, too. I went to all of the local hip hop clubs and unleashed my rap fury night after night. Eventually I knew it was time to move beyond the Philadelphia scene, because, like young Erwin, I knew that Southern California was the place where I could make it big. I whistled for a cab and when it came near, the license plate said ';Fresh';, and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare, but I thought man forget it, yo home to Bel-Air. I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8 and I yelled to the cabbie 'yo homes smell ya later'. Looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.
He recently informed me and my wife that he was going to move to LA to finally fulfill his dream of becoming an internationally known rapper. But, he said before he does that, he is going to make it official by legally changing his name. You see, he beleives that his current name, the name my wife and I gave him, isn't ';gansta'; enough and that he needs a more tough-sounding name if he's ever going to be taken seriously in the rap community.
His name now is Erwin Q. McToolmeister. But he said that on Monday, he's going down to city hall and he's going to legally change it to Hercules J. Murder. I said that that name is completely ridiculous and suggested he try another name like maybe L.L. Tool-Jay, or something like that, but he has his heart set on Hercules J. Murder. My wife and I are just devastated. What should we do about this?What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
Let him go and dance naked in the living room knowing the house is now yours and you no longer have to run to the bedroom to bump uglies.
And change the locks on the door. When he fails and returns home hand him bus fare and a map to the nearest shelter. That'll give him a dose of reality.What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
i know that whenever im going to do something stupid and my parents are trying to convince me not to do it i want to do it more. so if i were you i would tell him its fine he wants to change his name for his career, but ask him to not do it legally. Dont many artists just use a fake name, but keep their original name?
Idk how it is in the USA but here, when you want to completely change your name, you need to have a LOT of cash.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it too much now....let him live his life...hopefully eventually he will become more mature and change it,
I got a good gangsta name for your son! He should call himself Troll Junior!
I had high hopes upon becoming a famous rapper, too. I went to all of the local hip hop clubs and unleashed my rap fury night after night. Eventually I knew it was time to move beyond the Philadelphia scene, because, like young Erwin, I knew that Southern California was the place where I could make it big. I whistled for a cab and when it came near, the license plate said ';Fresh';, and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare, but I thought man forget it, yo home to Bel-Air. I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8 and I yelled to the cabbie 'yo homes smell ya later'. Looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.
Teenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
If a girl ( currently in a relationship with one of my close friends) starts asking me if i remember when i dated her a year ago and starts talking to me about the first time we met,does it necessarily mean that she likes me? She's dating my best friend.What should i do?Teenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
As her straight if she says yes say no bacuse hes like your mateTeenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
I don't know that I'd go as far as saying she liked you in that way...
Maybe she finds it awkward around you and that's the only thing she can talk about?
honestly you have to see what means more to you her or your close friend??
if you care about your friend ignore it
dont get involved because it will only ruin you and your friends relationship. you can still be friends will the girl but dont get too involved.
it means shes thinking about your relationship...so she might be interested, but you have to look out for more signs...just make sure you dont spend too much time with her and keep your distancemascara makeup
As her straight if she says yes say no bacuse hes like your mateTeenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
I don't know that I'd go as far as saying she liked you in that way...
Maybe she finds it awkward around you and that's the only thing she can talk about?
honestly you have to see what means more to you her or your close friend??
if you care about your friend ignore it
dont get involved because it will only ruin you and your friends relationship. you can still be friends will the girl but dont get too involved.
it means shes thinking about your relationship...so she might be interested, but you have to look out for more signs...just make sure you dont spend too much time with her and keep your distance
A little bit of teenage relationship advice?
I'm seventeen years old. Many say I'm way too young to be in love, but I know this is it. I know this is what I want for a very long time, if not the rest of my life. Well, I used to know. Time to give some background information..
A year ago a good friend of mine gave me this boys phone number. Not so much a boy, he's 21. His name is Mike. For the next month things were amazing, so amazing he asked me if I wanted to make it official. The next six months of our relationship was just too much for words, we were in love, there was no doubt about it. He used to date one of my friends about six years ago, they were both kids, right? One day he told me he thought he might have loved her. This hurt me. It shouldn't have, but it did. I didn't know what to do, I panicked, and I left him. The next week or two he was begging me to forgive him, I told his best friend that on the coming up Friday I was going to take him back, but I had told him I was going to this party just to see how he would react, to see how far I could push him, you know? That Friday, he gave up. I was the one begging for him back. Soo, a month or two goes by, and we've been back together for awhile now. But things have changed. He used to tell me how he wanted 'forever', when we're together he isn't always holding my hand or kissing me. We aren't as 'cute' as we used to be. I asked him earlier if he still wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, he said he didn't know. I'm hurt. My heart hurts. He works from daylight til it starts getting dark. That gives us two hours before we both fall asleep on weeknights. We don't talk as much as we used to. Things have really changed.
I know I shouldn't have told him I was going to that party, I shouldn't have left him- ever. I love him, he knows this, I tell him everyday. I keep telling myself things will get better in time, but will they?
Can you give me some advice?A little bit of teenage relationship advice?
Tell him exactly what you said here. Trust me.
A year ago a good friend of mine gave me this boys phone number. Not so much a boy, he's 21. His name is Mike. For the next month things were amazing, so amazing he asked me if I wanted to make it official. The next six months of our relationship was just too much for words, we were in love, there was no doubt about it. He used to date one of my friends about six years ago, they were both kids, right? One day he told me he thought he might have loved her. This hurt me. It shouldn't have, but it did. I didn't know what to do, I panicked, and I left him. The next week or two he was begging me to forgive him, I told his best friend that on the coming up Friday I was going to take him back, but I had told him I was going to this party just to see how he would react, to see how far I could push him, you know? That Friday, he gave up. I was the one begging for him back. Soo, a month or two goes by, and we've been back together for awhile now. But things have changed. He used to tell me how he wanted 'forever', when we're together he isn't always holding my hand or kissing me. We aren't as 'cute' as we used to be. I asked him earlier if he still wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, he said he didn't know. I'm hurt. My heart hurts. He works from daylight til it starts getting dark. That gives us two hours before we both fall asleep on weeknights. We don't talk as much as we used to. Things have really changed.
I know I shouldn't have told him I was going to that party, I shouldn't have left him- ever. I love him, he knows this, I tell him everyday. I keep telling myself things will get better in time, but will they?
Can you give me some advice?A little bit of teenage relationship advice?
Tell him exactly what you said here. Trust me.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
we are both teens (14) and i told this guy ( Jimmy) that i was starting school on this day and when it was that day, he sent me a text asking how school was and then we just kept talking about random stuff and i brought up this fair and i said, ';i'm going to this fair at _____ any chance i'd see you there?'; and he said he was working this booth.
much Later on when i asked him if he was nervous for his first day of school he said, '; no and i'm working at the raffle booth if youll be there (at the fair)'; The thing is, i like his brother who is one year younger than me, but i only have jimmy's phone number, not his brother's, and when i asked jimmy for his bros phone number, he seemed a little angry. When i asked him if his brother was quiet all the time, he said why do you ask, and i said because he always seemed a little quiet whenever ive seen him, and then he just said ';oh'; and wouldn't say anything else. Do both brothers like me? Jimmy is more outgoing than the younger brother just so you know, so jimmy's younger brother might think that i like jummy just because i talk to him more and hes more ooutgoing.
The youger brother (Dan) seems pretty shy and did not used to make eye contact, but then he did, and after a month of not seeing me, he didnt make eye contact again when he talks to me. he also smiles when he talks to me and he acts nervous around me and fumbles with his hands and sometimes gets this devilish smile when he looks at me, like the kind that spreads across your face slowly. wats up with them? Jimmy usually texts me first and i dont go to the same school with either of them.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
this couldve been much shorter.
youi're reading way too much into the whole thing, they're boys, they're kids and immature......thats all there is to it.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
it seems like both guys may like you. if you really care for one over the other try asking him out but his brother might not want to be friends with you. if it were me i would just stay friends with both of them... it would be to complicated!
lol u said jummy.
umm, im not so sure if the younger one likes you because this story is kinda confusing. but i think JIMMY likes you. because he was hesitant in talking about you and his brother.
it sounds to me that his younger brother is shy and may like you but his older brother is use to getting all the girls and may be a little jealous
Jimmy likes you I don't know about Dan I think you should go for jimmy he seems nice.
well next time u see Dan, ask him for his number. or give him urs on a piece of paper if hes too shy. he`ll get over his shyness eventually n text u if he likes u. texting will probably be more comfortable than talking in person if hes so shy. then what his bro does is not ur problem.
much Later on when i asked him if he was nervous for his first day of school he said, '; no and i'm working at the raffle booth if youll be there (at the fair)'; The thing is, i like his brother who is one year younger than me, but i only have jimmy's phone number, not his brother's, and when i asked jimmy for his bros phone number, he seemed a little angry. When i asked him if his brother was quiet all the time, he said why do you ask, and i said because he always seemed a little quiet whenever ive seen him, and then he just said ';oh'; and wouldn't say anything else. Do both brothers like me? Jimmy is more outgoing than the younger brother just so you know, so jimmy's younger brother might think that i like jummy just because i talk to him more and hes more ooutgoing.
The youger brother (Dan) seems pretty shy and did not used to make eye contact, but then he did, and after a month of not seeing me, he didnt make eye contact again when he talks to me. he also smiles when he talks to me and he acts nervous around me and fumbles with his hands and sometimes gets this devilish smile when he looks at me, like the kind that spreads across your face slowly. wats up with them? Jimmy usually texts me first and i dont go to the same school with either of them.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
this couldve been much shorter.
youi're reading way too much into the whole thing, they're boys, they're kids and immature......thats all there is to it.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
it seems like both guys may like you. if you really care for one over the other try asking him out but his brother might not want to be friends with you. if it were me i would just stay friends with both of them... it would be to complicated!
lol u said jummy.
umm, im not so sure if the younger one likes you because this story is kinda confusing. but i think JIMMY likes you. because he was hesitant in talking about you and his brother.
it sounds to me that his younger brother is shy and may like you but his older brother is use to getting all the girls and may be a little jealous
Jimmy likes you I don't know about Dan I think you should go for jimmy he seems nice.
well next time u see Dan, ask him for his number. or give him urs on a piece of paper if hes too shy. he`ll get over his shyness eventually n text u if he likes u. texting will probably be more comfortable than talking in person if hes so shy. then what his bro does is not ur problem.
I need some advice from teenage girls.?
I have a 1999 35th anniversary Mustang its really nice, i already got a stereo system, decal, dual exhaust, and custom chrome rims. what else do you GIRLS suggest for the next step for my car, what impress's you and what makes you think ';damn that cars nice';.I need some advice from teenage girls.?
I think it's nice already.I need some advice from teenage girls.?
You have to visualize Yourself in the middle of auto shop surround by 20 all swet, tough mechanics and You asking that question?
THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE DOING!!!! LMAO
it is not the car is YOU.
I asked my daughter about this one, here is what she had to say ';'; It would seem that even if I was impressed by your car, IT would be the only topic of conversation. What would impress me is a nice set of roses, a good dinner (where the menu is NOT on a sign) and some time talking about life and where you鈥檙e going in the future. If you spend all your time primping your car for the girls and no time primping yourself, what鈥檚 left for me? ';'; SO there you have it. I once thought the way you did and I found out that as nice as my cars where. It was not the car they wanted. I (Having been married for 18 years) would be more concerned about a girl who loved my car. That鈥檚 a high maintenance woman in my opinion and if I started to date her I would not have any money for anything else. So be careful what you wish for.
';'; OH yeah BTW its a Ford. Get a real car';';
Happy Revving
HAHAHAHA!!! Honey, I have an idea for you. Try focusing on, oh, I don't know...your personality. I'll bet it gets you a bit further. Good luck to you.
It needs to be shiny.
I don't think most teenage girls obsess about cars, as long as you take them where they want to go.
Im a teenage and girl....and most girls actually think......';damn that guy is just trippin'; sorry
Dude I can tell you , I am in my mid thirties ,and still attract the girls 18 - 21 , I do not go out with them because I am faithful to my girlfriend of 10 years , but I always get flirted with by the young ,and very attractive girls when I roll in , Here is my secret ....I treat them with courtesy , and respect , I offer them help with no strings attached , I even had one waitress at Hooters to pay for my lunch ,and she gave me the digits , she told me if things did not work out with my girl to call her ,and she would know how to take care of me , Because , I talked to her like she was a person , not a piece of *ss , I did not brag about what possessions I had , and I did not have to use a car as a penile extension to compensate for other private area short comings , which is exactly what you are doing , your car is not for fist buddy , and if you try to use either one no girl will look at you , but after reading your question , I highly recommend not using your intelligence either... your car can not impress anyone but you , it does not matter if is a ford mustang , or a Lamborghini ...they will both wrap around a tree very nicely with a dummy behind the wheel .
You're wasting your time with this question...
I think that guys who try to impress girls with their cars are pathetic. Most girls don't really care about what kind of car you drive; they are interested in you as a person.
I think it's nice already.I need some advice from teenage girls.?
You have to visualize Yourself in the middle of auto shop surround by 20 all swet, tough mechanics and You asking that question?
THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE DOING!!!! LMAO
it is not the car is YOU.
I asked my daughter about this one, here is what she had to say ';'; It would seem that even if I was impressed by your car, IT would be the only topic of conversation. What would impress me is a nice set of roses, a good dinner (where the menu is NOT on a sign) and some time talking about life and where you鈥檙e going in the future. If you spend all your time primping your car for the girls and no time primping yourself, what鈥檚 left for me? ';'; SO there you have it. I once thought the way you did and I found out that as nice as my cars where. It was not the car they wanted. I (Having been married for 18 years) would be more concerned about a girl who loved my car. That鈥檚 a high maintenance woman in my opinion and if I started to date her I would not have any money for anything else. So be careful what you wish for.
';'; OH yeah BTW its a Ford. Get a real car';';
Happy Revving
HAHAHAHA!!! Honey, I have an idea for you. Try focusing on, oh, I don't know...your personality. I'll bet it gets you a bit further. Good luck to you.
It needs to be shiny.
I don't think most teenage girls obsess about cars, as long as you take them where they want to go.
Im a teenage and girl....and most girls actually think......';damn that guy is just trippin'; sorry
Dude I can tell you , I am in my mid thirties ,and still attract the girls 18 - 21 , I do not go out with them because I am faithful to my girlfriend of 10 years , but I always get flirted with by the young ,and very attractive girls when I roll in , Here is my secret ....I treat them with courtesy , and respect , I offer them help with no strings attached , I even had one waitress at Hooters to pay for my lunch ,and she gave me the digits , she told me if things did not work out with my girl to call her ,and she would know how to take care of me , Because , I talked to her like she was a person , not a piece of *ss , I did not brag about what possessions I had , and I did not have to use a car as a penile extension to compensate for other private area short comings , which is exactly what you are doing , your car is not for fist buddy , and if you try to use either one no girl will look at you , but after reading your question , I highly recommend not using your intelligence either... your car can not impress anyone but you , it does not matter if is a ford mustang , or a Lamborghini ...they will both wrap around a tree very nicely with a dummy behind the wheel .
You're wasting your time with this question...
I think that guys who try to impress girls with their cars are pathetic. Most girls don't really care about what kind of car you drive; they are interested in you as a person.
Whats good advice to approach a teenage girl?
in what way?
if you're a peer looking for a date.
approach with confidence,sweetness and respectful attitude.compliments and encouragement are great.
if you're an adult..
proceed with caution.give her room.don't start with a comment about what she's doing wrong.approach in a calm,nice,casual way.don't be sharp or overbearing.just talk to them like a human being with respect and dignity.
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take care and remember what i said.
xoxo
~feriell~Whats good advice to approach a teenage girl?
well im a teenage girl.
just approach her!!!!!!!!!
seriously just go up and be like hey how are you?
say your name blahblahblah and if shes nice and smiles back and startss a conversation then she is worth talking if not and shes snobby and doesnt talk to you back then shes not the girl for you
and always ask questions about her..thats the best way to start a conversation bc girls love it when a guy seems truly interested and wants to know more about themWhats good advice to approach a teenage girl?
my advice is to just come up with something funny to talk about. if you're at a restaurant and see a cute girl, go up and ask her how her food was. at a movie theater, ask her what movie she recommends that you see. just creative things like that always do the trick. but you have to be nice, and don't be afraid to approach a girl.
dont pressure her. make things fun for her. a laugh can make her more comfortable with you than anyone else. dont seem to into her. if you keep telling her she is beautiful she might get freaked out and back away. joke around, smile alot. always bring something up to talk about. be a gentle man, pay for her the first time, bring her surprise roses open the car door. kiss her hand when you say your goodnights. dont ask for a kiss on the first date, tell her she is worth the wait
Some guy today out of nowhere was like:
';how are you?';
';Do you have a boyfriend';
seriously, wtf???
Don't do that. That's straight up weird. I don't have one but I was like ';yes';
Don't make it seem like you are ';approaching'; her. Make it seem like you happened to be near her and are making small talk
If you're not a teenager, then don't approach.
be safe and stay away from things that she might regret
Keep your self control and be yourself
if ya think she's interested i say ya why not.
if you're a peer looking for a date.
approach with confidence,sweetness and respectful attitude.compliments and encouragement are great.
if you're an adult..
proceed with caution.give her room.don't start with a comment about what she's doing wrong.approach in a calm,nice,casual way.don't be sharp or overbearing.just talk to them like a human being with respect and dignity.
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take care and remember what i said.
xoxo
~feriell~Whats good advice to approach a teenage girl?
well im a teenage girl.
just approach her!!!!!!!!!
seriously just go up and be like hey how are you?
say your name blahblahblah and if shes nice and smiles back and startss a conversation then she is worth talking if not and shes snobby and doesnt talk to you back then shes not the girl for you
and always ask questions about her..thats the best way to start a conversation bc girls love it when a guy seems truly interested and wants to know more about themWhats good advice to approach a teenage girl?
my advice is to just come up with something funny to talk about. if you're at a restaurant and see a cute girl, go up and ask her how her food was. at a movie theater, ask her what movie she recommends that you see. just creative things like that always do the trick. but you have to be nice, and don't be afraid to approach a girl.
dont pressure her. make things fun for her. a laugh can make her more comfortable with you than anyone else. dont seem to into her. if you keep telling her she is beautiful she might get freaked out and back away. joke around, smile alot. always bring something up to talk about. be a gentle man, pay for her the first time, bring her surprise roses open the car door. kiss her hand when you say your goodnights. dont ask for a kiss on the first date, tell her she is worth the wait
Some guy today out of nowhere was like:
';how are you?';
';Do you have a boyfriend';
seriously, wtf???
Don't do that. That's straight up weird. I don't have one but I was like ';yes';
Don't make it seem like you are ';approaching'; her. Make it seem like you happened to be near her and are making small talk
If you're not a teenager, then don't approach.
be safe and stay away from things that she might regret
Keep your self control and be yourself
if ya think she's interested i say ya why not.
Do you know any teenage mothers? Any advice?
Well the worse has finally happened. My fifteen year old sister in law is pregnant. We(the rest of the family) knew it wouldn't be long but my mother-in-law has been in denial and said that her daughter is still a virgin.(right before the doctor had confirmed the pregnancy). Any advice to make this time easier for everybody.Do you know any teenage mothers? Any advice?
Support her, be there for her but don't do it for her. Give her all the tools necessary to make any informed decision she chooses. If she chooses to keep the child with the right help she will be a terrific mother she just made things ten times more difficult but not impossible. She will need a lot of help but she also needs to know it is necessary to grow up and now. Just know their are some wonderful teen mothers out their that have been there and succeeded, know this is not the end of her life just a new chapter. She can do this you all can. Don't be judgemental either she is already doing that to herself no doubt. Good LuckDo you know any teenage mothers? Any advice?
Be there for her because it is a hard time for her and everyone else in the family, just help her make the right decision for her and the unborn child. Try and make sure that she gets her education it is the best way she can make things easier on her and the baby (if she decides she is keeping it). Start thinking ahead like nursery shopping and clothes shopping, all that is very fun and can be a family activity.
its hard for any mother to find out her wed daughter is sexually active, i would just be there for her and help her in anyway that i can and make sure that she learns her lesson. there's a lot of mothers now a days with teenage pregnant daughters who often just let her of the hook. she needs to learn how to be responsible.
I was a teenage mother. I got pregnant at seventeen, which was a little later than your sister-in-law, but I think I can still give you some advice. It's a hard time for everyone, but remember that it's hardest for the girl who's pregnant. She's only fifteen, she might be physically ready to have a baby but she's certainly not emotionally ready. It seems from your question that she's decided to keep the baby and if that's the case, you should acknowledge that it was a mature and responsible decision. Let her know that you're going to help. And let her mom know that too. But I can promise you that right now, what you're all feeling is just initial shock. It'll go away in no time, and before you know it, you'll all be excited about the new addition to your family.
My best friend is a teenage mommy.
It gets a lot easier as time goes on. Once people accept that its happened and theres nothing you can do about it it just becomes okay. Just give it time, talk to a counselor (family, her school counselor or whatever)
all i wanna say about that is .. what the hell is a 15 yr old havein sex for?? im not being mean but what is with it these days there getting younger by the min .. my friends sister got prego at 13 had her baby at 14.. im like what the hell.. im 21 n was married but not no more and i have 2 kids but my first was at 20.
word of advice to her .. shes gonna be learnin the hard way thats all.. she wont have no more freedom.. instead of going to friends house tell her to get a job cuz shes gonna need money to support this baby.
good luck
I know A LOT of teen mothers. Most of the girls in my family are, and I'll be one on july 24. I don't think you could nessecarily make it easier for most people because they choose to not accept it. Just explain to them that they will get past it and being difficult just makes things worse. Anyway, once they see the new baby, they'll forget about most of it.
Find a family to adopt the baby. That way, some good can be made out of this mess. Maybe both your sister in law and her mother will learn from this experience and change their behaviors. We can only hope for the best and pray for them
Everyone needs to be supportive and let her make her own decisions on what to do with the baby. Instead of things being easier for everyone, you guys need to find out whats going to make it easier for HER. Thats the main priority. When I got pregnant at 16, I though my life was over. But with my family and friends at my side supporting me, it turned out great and a wonderful experience. I know have a beautiful 3 year old daughter that I couldn't picture my life without... Things happen to people for a reason.
Not the worse--my mom was like that too. I had my daughter at 17 and now she is almost 19--full ride to college. I also went on to finish high school and earned two degrees. Things happen for a reason. Just give her love and support. You will love that baby when it is here as you mom-in-law will. It seems so hard at the time--but life works itself out. Stay positive and make sure your sis-in-law gets an education to take care of her child. Family support is what she needs--not put-downs, or told-you-so's. The child is coming--adoption is an option too.
Support her, be there for her but don't do it for her. Give her all the tools necessary to make any informed decision she chooses. If she chooses to keep the child with the right help she will be a terrific mother she just made things ten times more difficult but not impossible. She will need a lot of help but she also needs to know it is necessary to grow up and now. Just know their are some wonderful teen mothers out their that have been there and succeeded, know this is not the end of her life just a new chapter. She can do this you all can. Don't be judgemental either she is already doing that to herself no doubt. Good LuckDo you know any teenage mothers? Any advice?
Be there for her because it is a hard time for her and everyone else in the family, just help her make the right decision for her and the unborn child. Try and make sure that she gets her education it is the best way she can make things easier on her and the baby (if she decides she is keeping it). Start thinking ahead like nursery shopping and clothes shopping, all that is very fun and can be a family activity.
its hard for any mother to find out her wed daughter is sexually active, i would just be there for her and help her in anyway that i can and make sure that she learns her lesson. there's a lot of mothers now a days with teenage pregnant daughters who often just let her of the hook. she needs to learn how to be responsible.
I was a teenage mother. I got pregnant at seventeen, which was a little later than your sister-in-law, but I think I can still give you some advice. It's a hard time for everyone, but remember that it's hardest for the girl who's pregnant. She's only fifteen, she might be physically ready to have a baby but she's certainly not emotionally ready. It seems from your question that she's decided to keep the baby and if that's the case, you should acknowledge that it was a mature and responsible decision. Let her know that you're going to help. And let her mom know that too. But I can promise you that right now, what you're all feeling is just initial shock. It'll go away in no time, and before you know it, you'll all be excited about the new addition to your family.
My best friend is a teenage mommy.
It gets a lot easier as time goes on. Once people accept that its happened and theres nothing you can do about it it just becomes okay. Just give it time, talk to a counselor (family, her school counselor or whatever)
all i wanna say about that is .. what the hell is a 15 yr old havein sex for?? im not being mean but what is with it these days there getting younger by the min .. my friends sister got prego at 13 had her baby at 14.. im like what the hell.. im 21 n was married but not no more and i have 2 kids but my first was at 20.
word of advice to her .. shes gonna be learnin the hard way thats all.. she wont have no more freedom.. instead of going to friends house tell her to get a job cuz shes gonna need money to support this baby.
good luck
I know A LOT of teen mothers. Most of the girls in my family are, and I'll be one on july 24. I don't think you could nessecarily make it easier for most people because they choose to not accept it. Just explain to them that they will get past it and being difficult just makes things worse. Anyway, once they see the new baby, they'll forget about most of it.
Find a family to adopt the baby. That way, some good can be made out of this mess. Maybe both your sister in law and her mother will learn from this experience and change their behaviors. We can only hope for the best and pray for them
Everyone needs to be supportive and let her make her own decisions on what to do with the baby. Instead of things being easier for everyone, you guys need to find out whats going to make it easier for HER. Thats the main priority. When I got pregnant at 16, I though my life was over. But with my family and friends at my side supporting me, it turned out great and a wonderful experience. I know have a beautiful 3 year old daughter that I couldn't picture my life without... Things happen to people for a reason.
Not the worse--my mom was like that too. I had my daughter at 17 and now she is almost 19--full ride to college. I also went on to finish high school and earned two degrees. Things happen for a reason. Just give her love and support. You will love that baby when it is here as you mom-in-law will. It seems so hard at the time--but life works itself out. Stay positive and make sure your sis-in-law gets an education to take care of her child. Family support is what she needs--not put-downs, or told-you-so's. The child is coming--adoption is an option too.
We have taken in a stray female ';Teenage'; cat and need some advice please!?
We are keeping her in a spare room, seperate from our other cat because she has conjunctivitus. We are cleaning her eye with saline solution 2 times a day. In the beginning she was sneezing but now she seems to have just about stopped. I was wondering how long we should keep her seperate (we always wash and sterilize our hands after contact with her) from the other cat? She is a lovely friendly little thing and does love to eat, but what would be the best for her? She gets dried food, tuna fish and sometimes milk (not much milk, I heard it was not so good for them...it that ture or not? I would love some advice about all this as our kids love the new cat !We have taken in a stray female ';Teenage'; cat and need some advice please!?
Since the cat was a stray, definitely take her to the vet ASAP. When I took in two stray kittens, my vet freaked because they could have feline leukemia or FIV. Luckily they didn't, and plus like you I kept my other cat quarantined so that she was not at risk. Once you get the test results from the vet, you can start socializing your cats. As far as food, if you are giving her dry food and tuna that is fine. Tuna may not be an ideal food for cats, but as long as she is getting her vitamins and nutrients from her dry food it is safe to feed it to her every few days. My friend feeds her cat a can of tuna every day! I think that's a little excessive but they really do love it as a treat. I usually feed my cats dry food at all times and wet food for supper once a day (sometimes I give them tuna or even pink salmon). Also, my cat LOVES milk. I don't usually give her milk straight from the jug, but I will let her have what's left after I finish my cereal (no choice really, she annoys me and sticks her face in it anyway!!). I think that as long as it is not upsetting her stomach, every once in a while it is not a problem. You could also try the Whiskas Cat Milk, it removes what cats can't digest in cow's milk. My cat also goes crazy for that.We have taken in a stray female ';Teenage'; cat and need some advice please!?
I would check with the vet to make sure that it is ok to introduce the two cats, after all you don't want your other cat to get sick. Milk and tuna fish aren't really that good for cats. We keep our cats on dry food (they have it down all day) and in the evenings they get half of a can of wet food for a ';treat'; and they absolutely love it.
Tuna and cow's milk are THE big no-no's for cats. She really should be checked by a vet right away because you must rule out FIV or feline leukemia before exposing your other cat to her. If the conjunctivitis is causes by the herpes virus that is also contagious to your other cat. So the vet trip is imperative right now.
I do hope she checks out clear for all these things and she can become a permanent member of your loving family.
You need to wean her off the human food and start feeding her cat food. This will improve her health a lot. Baby animals cannot process the lactose found in cow's milk (cow's milk is for baby cows). This gives them diarrhea and bad tummy aches.
at least until a vet says it's safe... or her eyes clean up and she doesn't need the solution... but make sure she gets along with your other cats as well.
Your new kitty needs to be checked by a vet. If she has runny eyes and sneezes, she probably has a respiratory infection. Don't feed her milk! Cats cannot digest cow's milk properly and it will worsen her congestion now and contribute to kidney problems later on. My vet told me that tuna is not the best food for cats. Mine love it, but now they only get tuna as a special treat. Introduce the new one to your other cat gradually. Most cats get along after a few hisses and ';this is my house '; remarks. But do take her to a vet. She could pass a virus to another cat.mascara makeup
Since the cat was a stray, definitely take her to the vet ASAP. When I took in two stray kittens, my vet freaked because they could have feline leukemia or FIV. Luckily they didn't, and plus like you I kept my other cat quarantined so that she was not at risk. Once you get the test results from the vet, you can start socializing your cats. As far as food, if you are giving her dry food and tuna that is fine. Tuna may not be an ideal food for cats, but as long as she is getting her vitamins and nutrients from her dry food it is safe to feed it to her every few days. My friend feeds her cat a can of tuna every day! I think that's a little excessive but they really do love it as a treat. I usually feed my cats dry food at all times and wet food for supper once a day (sometimes I give them tuna or even pink salmon). Also, my cat LOVES milk. I don't usually give her milk straight from the jug, but I will let her have what's left after I finish my cereal (no choice really, she annoys me and sticks her face in it anyway!!). I think that as long as it is not upsetting her stomach, every once in a while it is not a problem. You could also try the Whiskas Cat Milk, it removes what cats can't digest in cow's milk. My cat also goes crazy for that.We have taken in a stray female ';Teenage'; cat and need some advice please!?
I would check with the vet to make sure that it is ok to introduce the two cats, after all you don't want your other cat to get sick. Milk and tuna fish aren't really that good for cats. We keep our cats on dry food (they have it down all day) and in the evenings they get half of a can of wet food for a ';treat'; and they absolutely love it.
Tuna and cow's milk are THE big no-no's for cats. She really should be checked by a vet right away because you must rule out FIV or feline leukemia before exposing your other cat to her. If the conjunctivitis is causes by the herpes virus that is also contagious to your other cat. So the vet trip is imperative right now.
I do hope she checks out clear for all these things and she can become a permanent member of your loving family.
You need to wean her off the human food and start feeding her cat food. This will improve her health a lot. Baby animals cannot process the lactose found in cow's milk (cow's milk is for baby cows). This gives them diarrhea and bad tummy aches.
at least until a vet says it's safe... or her eyes clean up and she doesn't need the solution... but make sure she gets along with your other cats as well.
Your new kitty needs to be checked by a vet. If she has runny eyes and sneezes, she probably has a respiratory infection. Don't feed her milk! Cats cannot digest cow's milk properly and it will worsen her congestion now and contribute to kidney problems later on. My vet told me that tuna is not the best food for cats. Mine love it, but now they only get tuna as a special treat. Introduce the new one to your other cat gradually. Most cats get along after a few hisses and ';this is my house '; remarks. But do take her to a vet. She could pass a virus to another cat.
I need some teenage guy advice! PLZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!?
Hey guys what are you interesed in. I mean I'm just a teen.
On a chat line I can pick up a guy like fish for fish in a full bucket
and it's going into a new year pf school I'm tring to impress this guy who is a major hotty. He dated like 6 of my friends and I'm nothing like them plus they got dumped by him! I went to the school dance and they put on low and I strted acting like a drunk hooker and he kept smiling at me. He is on the football team I know I'm not girly enough to make it but 'm tring out for the cheerleading squad. I've never actually had a back and forth conversation with him but nothing I tried worked he won't even look at me any more , I think he has forgoten all about me!
what do I do?I need some teenage guy advice! PLZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!?
hey i m a modeller i stay in dubai but i came recently to kolkata would u hav interest on meI need some teenage guy advice! PLZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!?
Acting like someone you're not is not gonna get you anywhere. Be yourself and for gods sake don't act like a drunk hooker, that's just attracting all the wrong guys. And that night you were acting all like that, he was smiling at you coz he wants something OFF you, in other words he doesn't love you for you he likes something non-existant. Try acting yourself next time and stop acting all s.l.u.t.ty.
Well, if he dumped 6 of your friends he may do the same to you even if you think you are a better candidate. I would think long and hard about going out with this guy but that's me and my experience. There are plenty of guys out there looking for a nice girl. Stop putting so much thought on what they look like and who they are. Mr. right might not be who you think he is.
he has dumped 6 of your friends? he is a loser!
anyway.... walk up to him and have a conversation with him ,if you dont let him know your interest then how should he know what is up? only thing you need to change is your approach.
please dont mold your self to him ,let him get to know you.
lol's very helpful.
Don't go after a guy who won't like you for you.
I know that advice sucks and it's not helpful, but it's the truth and it's what you need to do.
Good luck, happy hunting.
U should hang around him more but if u want to flirt wit him act lyke ur self just minus some of the normal u cuz maybe wat he saw in u at first is wat he wants! but if u want to flirt wit him slip your hair in front of him wear short shorts and short skirts! (he will defenantly fall for you)! :)
well gettin hes attention shouldnt be that hard u cud evan pass letas around make sure he gets it that ur dating som1 then maby he will get jellus and he will have the crush then u say uve broken up with this guy u wre dating then he will ask u out
PLAY HARD TO GET!
it'll eat him up!
if he's getting all the gals he wants.......he'll want the one who doesnt want him......
good luck...!!
PS:::: if ur gona get really hurt if he dumps u then dont listen to my advice......
sounds kinda like u think ur gona be different from the other 6 but thats probably what they thought also....
tell hm that u like him. if he dont like u bak become frends with him and become rlly close adn then hell learn to like u bak....or just forget about him it seems like if he takes no notice then hes not good enuf for u
hope i helped
I know who he is he was 1 of my gd friends. he is actually bi-sexual..he admitted it to me.
ha.... just smile at him or try and sit close to where hes sitting and ask him for some homework help or something ofthat sort. maybe you could look and smile at him.... or.... wear hot clothes or something.
hope i helped!
Play hard to get..if he talks to you just act like your to cool for him...He's probly uste to geting ny girl he want so if he can't get you...he'l be mad...whooppp...ha..gudluck wi it..
Sounds like the cinderella story.Go and ask him out..he hasn`t forgotten you.
lol
go out , have fun , forget him and he ll come back or u can finf someone else
IM him or message him on myspace or something if he has one. to be a cheerleader doesnt me you have to be girly. im a cheerleader and im like no where close to being girly im mostly tom boy but i do where fairly cute clothes nothing trashy ;; cheerleading just involves peepyness and you have to be able to interact with a crowd and be able to make them get out of there seats and cheer. and also a tip for trying out be tight and smile all the time even if you mess up and act like it never happened or its suppose to be like that.
In life, all creatures have one thing in common. The male chaces the female. The male notices every female that walks into his line of site - evaluates - eliminates or advances. Join the natural order of things, be yourself, continue doing what you do everyday without ga ga after some guy. If you're doing the chasing and he doesn't notice you - how can you expect him to notice when the natural order of things is that he should be checking YOU out? All of us have admirers - some are not up front because they are afraid of rejection. There is someone looking at you every day and thinking of you as you think of this ';hotty'; guy. Pay attention to your surroundings - you probably have a couple of dudes that would die to be yours - and you might see that they are hotties too - just not in cleats and a football helmet.
- take it slow -
On a chat line I can pick up a guy like fish for fish in a full bucket
and it's going into a new year pf school I'm tring to impress this guy who is a major hotty. He dated like 6 of my friends and I'm nothing like them plus they got dumped by him! I went to the school dance and they put on low and I strted acting like a drunk hooker and he kept smiling at me. He is on the football team I know I'm not girly enough to make it but 'm tring out for the cheerleading squad. I've never actually had a back and forth conversation with him but nothing I tried worked he won't even look at me any more , I think he has forgoten all about me!
what do I do?I need some teenage guy advice! PLZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!?
hey i m a modeller i stay in dubai but i came recently to kolkata would u hav interest on meI need some teenage guy advice! PLZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!?
Acting like someone you're not is not gonna get you anywhere. Be yourself and for gods sake don't act like a drunk hooker, that's just attracting all the wrong guys. And that night you were acting all like that, he was smiling at you coz he wants something OFF you, in other words he doesn't love you for you he likes something non-existant. Try acting yourself next time and stop acting all s.l.u.t.ty.
Well, if he dumped 6 of your friends he may do the same to you even if you think you are a better candidate. I would think long and hard about going out with this guy but that's me and my experience. There are plenty of guys out there looking for a nice girl. Stop putting so much thought on what they look like and who they are. Mr. right might not be who you think he is.
he has dumped 6 of your friends? he is a loser!
anyway.... walk up to him and have a conversation with him ,if you dont let him know your interest then how should he know what is up? only thing you need to change is your approach.
please dont mold your self to him ,let him get to know you.
lol's very helpful.
Don't go after a guy who won't like you for you.
I know that advice sucks and it's not helpful, but it's the truth and it's what you need to do.
Good luck, happy hunting.
U should hang around him more but if u want to flirt wit him act lyke ur self just minus some of the normal u cuz maybe wat he saw in u at first is wat he wants! but if u want to flirt wit him slip your hair in front of him wear short shorts and short skirts! (he will defenantly fall for you)! :)
well gettin hes attention shouldnt be that hard u cud evan pass letas around make sure he gets it that ur dating som1 then maby he will get jellus and he will have the crush then u say uve broken up with this guy u wre dating then he will ask u out
PLAY HARD TO GET!
it'll eat him up!
if he's getting all the gals he wants.......he'll want the one who doesnt want him......
good luck...!!
PS:::: if ur gona get really hurt if he dumps u then dont listen to my advice......
sounds kinda like u think ur gona be different from the other 6 but thats probably what they thought also....
tell hm that u like him. if he dont like u bak become frends with him and become rlly close adn then hell learn to like u bak....or just forget about him it seems like if he takes no notice then hes not good enuf for u
hope i helped
I know who he is he was 1 of my gd friends. he is actually bi-sexual..he admitted it to me.
ha.... just smile at him or try and sit close to where hes sitting and ask him for some homework help or something ofthat sort. maybe you could look and smile at him.... or.... wear hot clothes or something.
hope i helped!
Play hard to get..if he talks to you just act like your to cool for him...He's probly uste to geting ny girl he want so if he can't get you...he'l be mad...whooppp...ha..gudluck wi it..
Sounds like the cinderella story.Go and ask him out..he hasn`t forgotten you.
lol
go out , have fun , forget him and he ll come back or u can finf someone else
IM him or message him on myspace or something if he has one. to be a cheerleader doesnt me you have to be girly. im a cheerleader and im like no where close to being girly im mostly tom boy but i do where fairly cute clothes nothing trashy ;; cheerleading just involves peepyness and you have to be able to interact with a crowd and be able to make them get out of there seats and cheer. and also a tip for trying out be tight and smile all the time even if you mess up and act like it never happened or its suppose to be like that.
In life, all creatures have one thing in common. The male chaces the female. The male notices every female that walks into his line of site - evaluates - eliminates or advances. Join the natural order of things, be yourself, continue doing what you do everyday without ga ga after some guy. If you're doing the chasing and he doesn't notice you - how can you expect him to notice when the natural order of things is that he should be checking YOU out? All of us have admirers - some are not up front because they are afraid of rejection. There is someone looking at you every day and thinking of you as you think of this ';hotty'; guy. Pay attention to your surroundings - you probably have a couple of dudes that would die to be yours - and you might see that they are hotties too - just not in cleats and a football helmet.
- take it slow -
Feel helpless with teenage daughter - ADVICE!!!?
I have at my wit's end. My daughter, who has since turned 18 this past August, is going nowhere fast (I know that sounds blunt, and I mean no harm). Ever since she started high school, we have had a rather frustrating time dealing with her ';shortcomings';, for lack of a better word. She began skipping the majority of her classes early on, brought home poor grades, constantly broke household rules (in regards to curfew, chores, etc) and experimented with alcohol and marijuana (I know both of these things are relatively normal for teens to try, but she began to run with a fast crowd, and didn't seem to care about much else). She has had one job as a cashier at a store where I personally knew the owner and pulled strings to get her the gig. After a couple weeks, she no longer wanted to wake up in the morning and head to work - so she stopped showing up (mind you, this wasn't a formal two weeks notice, she just decided she would no longer be present for her shifts).Feel helpless with teenage daughter - ADVICE!!!?
You need to read tough love.
If she is 18, she need to follow the rules or eventually the consequences are that she will be out of the house, with enough money for food and rent for a couple of months.Feel helpless with teenage daughter - ADVICE!!!?
I am not particularly religious, but I would get on my knees and say ';god, I have done all I know to do, she is yours, please let me know what you want me to do and I will do my part.'; Then memorize that prayer and say it as many times as you need to do to be ok yourself...I've done that....OR...you could also do what I did once and told my daughter I could not live this way anymore, and then wait and see what she does, and if there is no change out the door she goes, if she is old enough to stay high half the time she is old enough to figure out how she wants to live. The sooner she loses you as an enabler the sooner she will have to take responsibility for her own actions....ALSO.....you could go to alanon, it helps people deal with addicted family and she is on her way...this is all given with love and a wish for alot of good in the future....
she has serious emotional problems that you cant understand tell her if she doesnt want be kicked out in 3 monthes time she needs to go start seeing a councilor %26amp; finish her education as well as get a part time job.
sign her up for the navy. that will get her out of the house lol.
Okay my daughter isn't a teen yet (I'm scared lol). But I was a pretty wild teen myself (now am ashamed to admit it funny how things change when you become a parent). And I come from a middle class home as well, my rebellious streak was a country mile wide lol.
My parents finally just had to kick me out, and I had to learn that mommy and daddy wouldn't always be there to bail me out. Trust me it gets old worry about where you are going to sleep and how you are going eat.
She wants to make grown up decisions but she is to immature to make good ones. I was the same way / my parents. They should never enabled me as you are doing w/ your grown woman. They fed me, clothed me, gave me a place to stay when I chose to be there. I had no responsibilities until I became pregnant at the age of 19. They let me stay in their home only until I was able to get a place of my own, and I only had 6 months to do it. The child and being kicked from the nest made me grow up quick. Is it going to take a baby or progressed addiction to make you see that it is time for her to leave? How long will you let her disrupt your lifestyle? The best thing you can do is tell her she has 6 months to get her own place or you will haul all her belongings to a storage facility and change the locks. I know, it is hard to imagine doing that to your baby. But she needs to get her priorities straight and she will not do it as long as you enable her. Read up about enabling and how to help yourself and the substance abuser.
part of this may be the marijuana. It is making her very complaicent. It is time for her to grow up. Either make her follow the rules. ie: a full time job, helping out etc. or it is time to get out. Give her two months to get it happening or else she has to leave. Tough love.
just remember that love isnt booting out a teen into the world helpless. the world is cruel and mean. never forget that, whatever you do
Hi,
I can really relate to your issue...my daughter is 17, will be 18 in 2 months. Does the EXACT same things your daughter is doing. 5 jobs in 3 months. Justs decides one day that she's just not going....quit school, we have offered her other alternatives, she says nah.....always out with friends, or as she likes to say ';chillin';....It is almost causing a divorce between my husband and myself because of it..She also steals. Anything left out money wise she will take. He says we need to throw her out on the street to let her see what it's like to make your way...but I feel that she is too young and it is also dangerous to do so. We have a son as well who is working and living on his own. I do suspect drugs though....suspect, let me clarify. i know:( just not sure as to what exactly but it is violent mood swings...
Sigh, thanks for listening.
Speaking from an 18 year old point of view I believe yall should just show her the responsibility that comes with living the life that she is living.....I'm not sayin dis-own her or anything but just let get a taste of this world.....if she decides to turn her life around then find her a drug rehab to put her in........or if all else fails give her that tuff love that parents have in them and send her to a rehab place...whether she goes willingly or not....
You need to read tough love.
If she is 18, she need to follow the rules or eventually the consequences are that she will be out of the house, with enough money for food and rent for a couple of months.Feel helpless with teenage daughter - ADVICE!!!?
I am not particularly religious, but I would get on my knees and say ';god, I have done all I know to do, she is yours, please let me know what you want me to do and I will do my part.'; Then memorize that prayer and say it as many times as you need to do to be ok yourself...I've done that....OR...you could also do what I did once and told my daughter I could not live this way anymore, and then wait and see what she does, and if there is no change out the door she goes, if she is old enough to stay high half the time she is old enough to figure out how she wants to live. The sooner she loses you as an enabler the sooner she will have to take responsibility for her own actions....ALSO.....you could go to alanon, it helps people deal with addicted family and she is on her way...this is all given with love and a wish for alot of good in the future....
she has serious emotional problems that you cant understand tell her if she doesnt want be kicked out in 3 monthes time she needs to go start seeing a councilor %26amp; finish her education as well as get a part time job.
sign her up for the navy. that will get her out of the house lol.
Okay my daughter isn't a teen yet (I'm scared lol). But I was a pretty wild teen myself (now am ashamed to admit it funny how things change when you become a parent). And I come from a middle class home as well, my rebellious streak was a country mile wide lol.
My parents finally just had to kick me out, and I had to learn that mommy and daddy wouldn't always be there to bail me out. Trust me it gets old worry about where you are going to sleep and how you are going eat.
She wants to make grown up decisions but she is to immature to make good ones. I was the same way / my parents. They should never enabled me as you are doing w/ your grown woman. They fed me, clothed me, gave me a place to stay when I chose to be there. I had no responsibilities until I became pregnant at the age of 19. They let me stay in their home only until I was able to get a place of my own, and I only had 6 months to do it. The child and being kicked from the nest made me grow up quick. Is it going to take a baby or progressed addiction to make you see that it is time for her to leave? How long will you let her disrupt your lifestyle? The best thing you can do is tell her she has 6 months to get her own place or you will haul all her belongings to a storage facility and change the locks. I know, it is hard to imagine doing that to your baby. But she needs to get her priorities straight and she will not do it as long as you enable her. Read up about enabling and how to help yourself and the substance abuser.
part of this may be the marijuana. It is making her very complaicent. It is time for her to grow up. Either make her follow the rules. ie: a full time job, helping out etc. or it is time to get out. Give her two months to get it happening or else she has to leave. Tough love.
just remember that love isnt booting out a teen into the world helpless. the world is cruel and mean. never forget that, whatever you do
Hi,
I can really relate to your issue...my daughter is 17, will be 18 in 2 months. Does the EXACT same things your daughter is doing. 5 jobs in 3 months. Justs decides one day that she's just not going....quit school, we have offered her other alternatives, she says nah.....always out with friends, or as she likes to say ';chillin';....It is almost causing a divorce between my husband and myself because of it..She also steals. Anything left out money wise she will take. He says we need to throw her out on the street to let her see what it's like to make your way...but I feel that she is too young and it is also dangerous to do so. We have a son as well who is working and living on his own. I do suspect drugs though....suspect, let me clarify. i know:( just not sure as to what exactly but it is violent mood swings...
Sigh, thanks for listening.
Speaking from an 18 year old point of view I believe yall should just show her the responsibility that comes with living the life that she is living.....I'm not sayin dis-own her or anything but just let get a taste of this world.....if she decides to turn her life around then find her a drug rehab to put her in........or if all else fails give her that tuff love that parents have in them and send her to a rehab place...whether she goes willingly or not....
What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
Hello, my son is 18 years old. Ever since he was able to talk he's dreamed of becoming a famous rapper. His idol is Eminem and he's been working on writing rap songs for about 8 years now.
He recently informed me and my wife that he was going to move to LA to finally fulfill his dream of becoming an internationally known rapper. But, he said before he does that, he is going to make it official by legally changing his name. You see, he beleives that his current name, the name my wife and I gave him, isn't ';gansta'; enough and that he needs a more tough-sounding name if he's ever going to be taken seriously in the rap community.
His name now is Erwin Q. McToolmeister. But he said that on Monday, he's going down to city hall and he's going to legally change it to Hercules J. Murder. I said that that name is completely ridiculous and suggested he try another name like maybe L.L. Tool-Jay, or something like that, but he has his heart set on Hercules J. Murder. My wife and I are just devastated. What should we do about this?What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
watch the movie malibus most wanted and have him watch it. it is very hard to get in the music business and if he does get a foot in the door they can help him come up with a better name. so ask him to hold off on legally changing it for now.What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
I honestly can understand him not wanting to be a rapper named ';erwin';. Just tell him to use a ';rapper name'; while he's rapping or whatever but don't legally change his name. Have people just call him hercules like a nickname...
oh Lord. You have got to be kidding me, you named your kid Erwin? Nice fantasy land dream world he lives in, as if he will be a famous ';gangsta wanna be rapper';.
Tell him to change his name.
He recently informed me and my wife that he was going to move to LA to finally fulfill his dream of becoming an internationally known rapper. But, he said before he does that, he is going to make it official by legally changing his name. You see, he beleives that his current name, the name my wife and I gave him, isn't ';gansta'; enough and that he needs a more tough-sounding name if he's ever going to be taken seriously in the rap community.
His name now is Erwin Q. McToolmeister. But he said that on Monday, he's going down to city hall and he's going to legally change it to Hercules J. Murder. I said that that name is completely ridiculous and suggested he try another name like maybe L.L. Tool-Jay, or something like that, but he has his heart set on Hercules J. Murder. My wife and I are just devastated. What should we do about this?What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
watch the movie malibus most wanted and have him watch it. it is very hard to get in the music business and if he does get a foot in the door they can help him come up with a better name. so ask him to hold off on legally changing it for now.What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
I honestly can understand him not wanting to be a rapper named ';erwin';. Just tell him to use a ';rapper name'; while he's rapping or whatever but don't legally change his name. Have people just call him hercules like a nickname...
oh Lord. You have got to be kidding me, you named your kid Erwin? Nice fantasy land dream world he lives in, as if he will be a famous ';gangsta wanna be rapper';.
Tell him to change his name.
How accurate are ';gut feelings?';/a little teenage romance advice? PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!?
okay so i practice soccer at the same park my boyfriend runs cross country. Today is our one month anniversary, but since we're two years apart we go to diff schools and he lives like40 min away from me. my whole soccer team noticed him looking at me but the minute i turned around and looked i just froze i was soo nervous! my best friend waved to him and he gave her a weird look but i just couldn't bring myself to ';un-freeze'; i was so nervous. When i got home i texted him and then he called but i messed it and i called back but he didn't answer. Now here I am waiting for him to call back
now i have this awful feeling he is going to break up with me for it
i dont know why, and does anything from my short story tell you he is?I have no clue, just this gut feeling
PLEASE HELP!How accurate are ';gut feelings?';/a little teenage romance advice? PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!?
poems come to ones rescue
here r some
........ON THE BEACH....
I saw them running around hand in hand ,
They were two boys,
On the other side I saw,
Two teenagers,in their bikinis,
Ilooked at other signs of their associations,
Alas sad to say, I found none.
I moved on and took mine along,
to the other side.
When this one did a smile fling
I looked around she was a thing,
Then I saw what I thought I did,
The two boys clasped, yes not gasped,
They moved away and so did we.
We ran into the water and did not care,
The twins did at us stare,
We blushed and smiled as they smiled back,
We were in our jeans and they without,
We wondered why they laughed at us.
Guess what we were at the wrong beach,
It was only for the nudist youth,
We were out of sync I came to know,
We were out far into the sandy waters,
And there we thought of stripping so,
But shy as we felt we could not do,
Can you guess,who was by then,who with who?
FROM THE COFFEE SHOP
As I sat alone having coffee ,
I saw her passing by swiftly.
I ran out,for I thought it is now or never,
To make a new friend on a coldest morning ever.
I called her from far and yelled,
'HELLO HELLO'
There was no response, so I did her follow.
Once gain I called at her,
She was unmindful.
What the hell I said to myself ,
I ran ahead of her to stop her,
She smiled and smiled without response,
I wondered what she wanted to say,
'Hello' I said once more,
She was deaf for sure.
I waived and returned back to my coffee shop,
My coffee, as she had, was also gone,
Alas I, she and coffee guy,
All to each other had to say,
Bye,bye,good bye.
DESPAIR
My Love I wake up for your love dear,
I go to sleep,as dreams make me feel near,
And make me gain confidence that you're close,
In an imperfect world, we all unwantedly chose,
Yet when I awake I miss,the warmth I craved,
My fantasy and imagination I so honestly braved,
And I fall back again from the stair,
My dear I'm utterly miserable, oh this, despair.
My innate desire to spend a whole life,
As your dear lovelingly and only wife.
Perhaps that was what you did always desire,
And the flame of fire in me, you did fire.
I miss your warmth and loving embrace,
I do not know when and how, I fell from grace.
Your lovely look,your eyes, and beautiful smile,
I always possessed and will possess all the while.
What made you think I was just a playful toy,
Just to hold for a while and enjoy,
What made you think of me that so low,
Say it all was just not said ,let my heart glow.
Come back to me my life, my breath,my love ,
There is nothing left for me on earth or heaven above,
And come back to my arms once again,
My life, my very being, please do not leave me in vain.
''HELLO CANADA''
INVENTIONS
I invent when I need to,
Now is the time which has come my way
Very soon, yes today or tomorrow,
Every one will come to know what,do you
Never mind I know can never guess,
Tomorrow when you read the newspapers,
I will be in picture, a full page
Only then will you learn of my invention,
Now till the day arrives yes the morn,
Shall ye see, what to my mind was born
PANAMA
Pamela, Pamela where are you?
All are anxiously here, that's true,
Now is the time to cut the cake,
All are awaiting for the one you did make,
Mama dear, where have you hidden it,
All of us want a slice of cake ,a bit.
LIBRA HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Libran's are from a world of a kind,
Of those who have a beautiful mind.
They are very methodical and enchanting,
Their smile is very, very charming.
Libras is a world to earn name and fame,
Their glances win hearts all the same,
Of those who reward them with a Rose,
My dear Libras are, to whom the universe,
The lovers' the classic winners,
Would all love to propose.
My Dear...............................
HAPPY BIRTHDAY.................
From....................
With a bunch of roses to you.
How accurate are ';gut feelings?';/a little teenage romance advice? PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!?
Well if he breaks up with you for that then hes not worth your time.
now i have this awful feeling he is going to break up with me for it
i dont know why, and does anything from my short story tell you he is?I have no clue, just this gut feeling
PLEASE HELP!How accurate are ';gut feelings?';/a little teenage romance advice? PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!?
poems come to ones rescue
here r some
........ON THE BEACH....
I saw them running around hand in hand ,
They were two boys,
On the other side I saw,
Two teenagers,in their bikinis,
Ilooked at other signs of their associations,
Alas sad to say, I found none.
I moved on and took mine along,
to the other side.
When this one did a smile fling
I looked around she was a thing,
Then I saw what I thought I did,
The two boys clasped, yes not gasped,
They moved away and so did we.
We ran into the water and did not care,
The twins did at us stare,
We blushed and smiled as they smiled back,
We were in our jeans and they without,
We wondered why they laughed at us.
Guess what we were at the wrong beach,
It was only for the nudist youth,
We were out of sync I came to know,
We were out far into the sandy waters,
And there we thought of stripping so,
But shy as we felt we could not do,
Can you guess,who was by then,who with who?
FROM THE COFFEE SHOP
As I sat alone having coffee ,
I saw her passing by swiftly.
I ran out,for I thought it is now or never,
To make a new friend on a coldest morning ever.
I called her from far and yelled,
'HELLO HELLO'
There was no response, so I did her follow.
Once gain I called at her,
She was unmindful.
What the hell I said to myself ,
I ran ahead of her to stop her,
She smiled and smiled without response,
I wondered what she wanted to say,
'Hello' I said once more,
She was deaf for sure.
I waived and returned back to my coffee shop,
My coffee, as she had, was also gone,
Alas I, she and coffee guy,
All to each other had to say,
Bye,bye,good bye.
DESPAIR
My Love I wake up for your love dear,
I go to sleep,as dreams make me feel near,
And make me gain confidence that you're close,
In an imperfect world, we all unwantedly chose,
Yet when I awake I miss,the warmth I craved,
My fantasy and imagination I so honestly braved,
And I fall back again from the stair,
My dear I'm utterly miserable, oh this, despair.
My innate desire to spend a whole life,
As your dear lovelingly and only wife.
Perhaps that was what you did always desire,
And the flame of fire in me, you did fire.
I miss your warmth and loving embrace,
I do not know when and how, I fell from grace.
Your lovely look,your eyes, and beautiful smile,
I always possessed and will possess all the while.
What made you think I was just a playful toy,
Just to hold for a while and enjoy,
What made you think of me that so low,
Say it all was just not said ,let my heart glow.
Come back to me my life, my breath,my love ,
There is nothing left for me on earth or heaven above,
And come back to my arms once again,
My life, my very being, please do not leave me in vain.
''HELLO CANADA''
INVENTIONS
I invent when I need to,
Now is the time which has come my way
Very soon, yes today or tomorrow,
Every one will come to know what,do you
Never mind I know can never guess,
Tomorrow when you read the newspapers,
I will be in picture, a full page
Only then will you learn of my invention,
Now till the day arrives yes the morn,
Shall ye see, what to my mind was born
PANAMA
Pamela, Pamela where are you?
All are anxiously here, that's true,
Now is the time to cut the cake,
All are awaiting for the one you did make,
Mama dear, where have you hidden it,
All of us want a slice of cake ,a bit.
LIBRA HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Libran's are from a world of a kind,
Of those who have a beautiful mind.
They are very methodical and enchanting,
Their smile is very, very charming.
Libras is a world to earn name and fame,
Their glances win hearts all the same,
Of those who reward them with a Rose,
My dear Libras are, to whom the universe,
The lovers' the classic winners,
Would all love to propose.
My Dear...............................
HAPPY BIRTHDAY.................
From....................
With a bunch of roses to you.
How accurate are ';gut feelings?';/a little teenage romance advice? PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!?
Well if he breaks up with you for that then hes not worth your time.
Please help, I really need some teenage *schooling* advice?
Hi, ok so i'm in the 10th about one semester in the grade.. and i feel like i havent been really studying through the knowledge given to me for the past 10 years -- the right way..
I Really really want to have another fresh start at high school. I Thought that if i leave the school b4 christmas vacation .. maybe i could enroll in a different school as a grade 9er ?
Now i'm positive i can do that ...
but my real question is, would it say in my records that i've failed a grade even though it was my decision to redo to take the full advntage of my 4 years in high school?
and if not would there be other downsides into doing this?
should there be some , can someone tell me what they are?
Also, would it be better if i finish the 10th year first then .. try to enroll as a 9er the next year?
(P.S I've decided i really want to go to university)
..Please be nice, i just need to know the downsides of doing this if there are any, and i promise you guys my motives are good (I'm pretty sure they are to help me ameliorate not to slack off)
.. Also, i live in Ontario, Canada.Please help, I really need some teenage *schooling* advice?
I think that you should talk to a school counselor . Redoing high school would take a lot of effort. If you are failing then just redo the current year that you are in.That would seem like a better option .Talk to the teachers. Find out what you need for the subjects that you need to do.Lots of courses require certain subjects to be studied within the higher certificate. Do your homework with unis.Ask the advice of the career couselor.Good luck.There is a light at the end of the tunnel.Please help, I really need some teenage *schooling* advice?
I will answer your question about the triangles here.
the yahoo email let me write only 400 characters.
this is your question:
What's the coordinates of the centroid P of triangle with vertices of
A (12,18), B (18,6) and C (3,12)?
.
First of all . a little definition:
A median of a triangle is a straight line through a vertex and the midpoint of the opposite side, and divides the triangle into two equal areas. The three medians intersect in a single point, the triangle's centroid.
you have to find de equation for 2 (out of 3) median.
the point where they intersect is the centroid
here we go.
1)find the midooint in each side
** midpoint point for side AB A(12,18) B(18,6) will be ([12+18]/2, [18+6]/2) = (15,12)
**midpoint for side AC A(12,18) C(3,12) will be ( [12+3]/2, [18+12]/2) = (15/2,15)
**midpoint for side BC B(18,6) C(3,12) will be ( ( 18+3)/2 , (6+12),2 ) = (21/2, 9 )
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now you have :
2 points for median A (from vertex A to the midpoint of side BC)
(12,18) and (21/2 , 9)
2 points for median B (from vertex B to midpoint side AC)
(18,6) and (15/2, 15)
2 points for median C (from vertex C to midpoint of side AB)
(3,12) (15,12)
now use the lineal equation : y = mx + b
y=(y1-y0)/(x1-x0) +b
for median A (12,18) and (21/2 , 9)
m=(18-9)/(12-21/2) = 9/(3/2) = 6
b= y-mx
b= 18- 6*12 = -54
the equation for median A is : y=6x - 54
for median B ( (18,6) and (7.5, 15) m= (6-15)/(18-15/2) = -9/(21/2) = - 18/21 = - 6/7
......................................鈥?y-mx
b=6 +(6/7)*18 = (42+6*18)/7=150/7
the equation for median B is : y= - (6/7)x+ 150/7
now to find the centroid solve the system: y=6x - 54
........................................鈥? y= - (6/7)x+ 150/7
x=11 y= 12
the centroid is (11,12)
just to check we'll find the median C: (3,12) (15,12)
......................................鈥?(12-12)/2, (3-15),2) = 0
......................................鈥?12
now using median A and C, we'll find the centroid.
y = 12
y=6x - 54
y=12 x=11
centroid is (11,12)
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mmmm I think I took the long way
this is the easy way..I just remember it..it's been a long time since I don't play with triangles
centroid fo a triangle is( [x1+x2+x3]/3 , [y1+y2+y3]/3 )
................... ( [12+18+3]/3 , [18+6+12]/3)
........................(11,12)
good luck
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It does seem pretty silly to redo high school all over again.
I'm not FULLY understanding what you're saying...but if what you're saying is that you feel you haven't given it your all in school...then here's my opinion....
Just start giving it your all now. You're only in 10th grade. Your marks matter THE MOST in grade 11 and 12 because those are the years Universities/Colleges look at. And those are the years when the courses get more specific (like Science get split into Bio., Chem., Physics...etc..).
I'm in 12th grade now and high school wasn't easy. And it isn't. For anybody. So you aren't alone. Everybody struggles. I've struggled also. Last year, 11th grade, I came extremely close to failing a course. This year, I swore to myself that I would actually study for the tests and do the best that I can.
Sooo, all in all, just try your hardest and concentrate on your school work (since I can tell it's very important to you, which is good!). Don't worry too much on your marks in your 10th grade year. It's still the first semester and only half of it has gone by. You still have the chance to boost up your marks (depending on how many assignments/tests you get). If they don't, then you have the next semester to get high marks! And then you have the next two years of high school to acheive marks that you will be proud of!
So good luck to you. High school life isn't easy (nobody said it was). Just like how nobody said life was easy/fair.
Remember, a rainbow always follows a storm.
It may be a storm for you right now...but just think...you'll be seeing a rainbow any time soon :) So look forward to that moment.
You're also in my prayers.
Ok. I guess I get what you're saying, but you should not go back to redo a whole entire grade level, if you passed it. If you were meant to redo the ninth grade, you would have failed and be held back. Feel proud about yourself.
I am an 11th grader this year and went through a slightly similar situation, maybe worse. 9th grade, I was an all A student in honors courses. 10th grade, I slacked off because I was not given special or enough recognition for putting my best effort into all my work. it may seem silly, but i thought that i shouldn't have to try so hard to do a simple assignment when others BSed it or copied off of me and got the same grade. well, in the long run, all of those slackers ended up passing every class beautifully, while i almost failed English and pissed off all my teachers in the process. last year i went to a very stressful school for performers, but now i'm going to a regular school. and for this first quarter, i already have all A's again. i thought that i could never be an all A student again, but it just goes to show that you have to have that determination. that mindset.
i absolutely felt like a failure and for the first time my parents were breathing all up and down my throat. i needed to change to regain my independence and trust, so i felt it necessary to change my surroundings by transferring to a new school. this would force me to not know that many people and without the distraction of friends in a classroom, i could once again land all my focus to academics and the SAT and PSAT. also, if you are planning to go to a university or college, now, it is extremely competition; i'm still freaking out cause i'm gonna be a senior next year! it is not wise to redo a grade level with such competition. you will be lower in the spectrum of the university's view. they'll say, ';hey, he passed 9th grade, but went back to do it again. that shows that he's unsure of himself and unpredictable. we don't want him here at our school; he'll cause too much trouble...';
don't make decisions that stand out to college's in a bad way. it was just your 9th grade, and colleges/ universities love it when an individual shows progress throughout the four high school years rather than a repetition of everything that the individual felt that they could do better on. ***11th grade is actually the most important year; that's when you're not allowed to screw up. THAT'S WHY I'M SO TENSE! but you're still good, just as teachers for help in the way you study or ask them any other questions. i say keep going and the work that you're doing now, pick up the slack. you also gotta show colleges that you're ready to take on a college work load.
good luck in all that you do, and always keep God first. God bless. I'll have you in my prayers tonight. :)
I Really really want to have another fresh start at high school. I Thought that if i leave the school b4 christmas vacation .. maybe i could enroll in a different school as a grade 9er ?
Now i'm positive i can do that ...
but my real question is, would it say in my records that i've failed a grade even though it was my decision to redo to take the full advntage of my 4 years in high school?
and if not would there be other downsides into doing this?
should there be some , can someone tell me what they are?
Also, would it be better if i finish the 10th year first then .. try to enroll as a 9er the next year?
(P.S I've decided i really want to go to university)
..Please be nice, i just need to know the downsides of doing this if there are any, and i promise you guys my motives are good (I'm pretty sure they are to help me ameliorate not to slack off)
.. Also, i live in Ontario, Canada.Please help, I really need some teenage *schooling* advice?
I think that you should talk to a school counselor . Redoing high school would take a lot of effort. If you are failing then just redo the current year that you are in.That would seem like a better option .Talk to the teachers. Find out what you need for the subjects that you need to do.Lots of courses require certain subjects to be studied within the higher certificate. Do your homework with unis.Ask the advice of the career couselor.Good luck.There is a light at the end of the tunnel.Please help, I really need some teenage *schooling* advice?
I will answer your question about the triangles here.
the yahoo email let me write only 400 characters.
this is your question:
What's the coordinates of the centroid P of triangle with vertices of
A (12,18), B (18,6) and C (3,12)?
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First of all . a little definition:
A median of a triangle is a straight line through a vertex and the midpoint of the opposite side, and divides the triangle into two equal areas. The three medians intersect in a single point, the triangle's centroid.
you have to find de equation for 2 (out of 3) median.
the point where they intersect is the centroid
here we go.
1)find the midooint in each side
** midpoint point for side AB A(12,18) B(18,6) will be ([12+18]/2, [18+6]/2) = (15,12)
**midpoint for side AC A(12,18) C(3,12) will be ( [12+3]/2, [18+12]/2) = (15/2,15)
**midpoint for side BC B(18,6) C(3,12) will be ( ( 18+3)/2 , (6+12),2 ) = (21/2, 9 )
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now you have :
2 points for median A (from vertex A to the midpoint of side BC)
(12,18) and (21/2 , 9)
2 points for median B (from vertex B to midpoint side AC)
(18,6) and (15/2, 15)
2 points for median C (from vertex C to midpoint of side AB)
(3,12) (15,12)
now use the lineal equation : y = mx + b
y=(y1-y0)/(x1-x0) +b
for median A (12,18) and (21/2 , 9)
m=(18-9)/(12-21/2) = 9/(3/2) = 6
b= y-mx
b= 18- 6*12 = -54
the equation for median A is : y=6x - 54
for median B ( (18,6) and (7.5, 15) m= (6-15)/(18-15/2) = -9/(21/2) = - 18/21 = - 6/7
......................................鈥?y-mx
b=6 +(6/7)*18 = (42+6*18)/7=150/7
the equation for median B is : y= - (6/7)x+ 150/7
now to find the centroid solve the system: y=6x - 54
........................................鈥? y= - (6/7)x+ 150/7
x=11 y= 12
the centroid is (11,12)
just to check we'll find the median C: (3,12) (15,12)
......................................鈥?(12-12)/2, (3-15),2) = 0
......................................鈥?12
now using median A and C, we'll find the centroid.
y = 12
y=6x - 54
y=12 x=11
centroid is (11,12)
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mmmm I think I took the long way
this is the easy way..I just remember it..it's been a long time since I don't play with triangles
centroid fo a triangle is( [x1+x2+x3]/3 , [y1+y2+y3]/3 )
................... ( [12+18+3]/3 , [18+6+12]/3)
........................(11,12)
good luck
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It does seem pretty silly to redo high school all over again.
I'm not FULLY understanding what you're saying...but if what you're saying is that you feel you haven't given it your all in school...then here's my opinion....
Just start giving it your all now. You're only in 10th grade. Your marks matter THE MOST in grade 11 and 12 because those are the years Universities/Colleges look at. And those are the years when the courses get more specific (like Science get split into Bio., Chem., Physics...etc..).
I'm in 12th grade now and high school wasn't easy. And it isn't. For anybody. So you aren't alone. Everybody struggles. I've struggled also. Last year, 11th grade, I came extremely close to failing a course. This year, I swore to myself that I would actually study for the tests and do the best that I can.
Sooo, all in all, just try your hardest and concentrate on your school work (since I can tell it's very important to you, which is good!). Don't worry too much on your marks in your 10th grade year. It's still the first semester and only half of it has gone by. You still have the chance to boost up your marks (depending on how many assignments/tests you get). If they don't, then you have the next semester to get high marks! And then you have the next two years of high school to acheive marks that you will be proud of!
So good luck to you. High school life isn't easy (nobody said it was). Just like how nobody said life was easy/fair.
Remember, a rainbow always follows a storm.
It may be a storm for you right now...but just think...you'll be seeing a rainbow any time soon :) So look forward to that moment.
You're also in my prayers.
Ok. I guess I get what you're saying, but you should not go back to redo a whole entire grade level, if you passed it. If you were meant to redo the ninth grade, you would have failed and be held back. Feel proud about yourself.
I am an 11th grader this year and went through a slightly similar situation, maybe worse. 9th grade, I was an all A student in honors courses. 10th grade, I slacked off because I was not given special or enough recognition for putting my best effort into all my work. it may seem silly, but i thought that i shouldn't have to try so hard to do a simple assignment when others BSed it or copied off of me and got the same grade. well, in the long run, all of those slackers ended up passing every class beautifully, while i almost failed English and pissed off all my teachers in the process. last year i went to a very stressful school for performers, but now i'm going to a regular school. and for this first quarter, i already have all A's again. i thought that i could never be an all A student again, but it just goes to show that you have to have that determination. that mindset.
i absolutely felt like a failure and for the first time my parents were breathing all up and down my throat. i needed to change to regain my independence and trust, so i felt it necessary to change my surroundings by transferring to a new school. this would force me to not know that many people and without the distraction of friends in a classroom, i could once again land all my focus to academics and the SAT and PSAT. also, if you are planning to go to a university or college, now, it is extremely competition; i'm still freaking out cause i'm gonna be a senior next year! it is not wise to redo a grade level with such competition. you will be lower in the spectrum of the university's view. they'll say, ';hey, he passed 9th grade, but went back to do it again. that shows that he's unsure of himself and unpredictable. we don't want him here at our school; he'll cause too much trouble...';
don't make decisions that stand out to college's in a bad way. it was just your 9th grade, and colleges/ universities love it when an individual shows progress throughout the four high school years rather than a repetition of everything that the individual felt that they could do better on. ***11th grade is actually the most important year; that's when you're not allowed to screw up. THAT'S WHY I'M SO TENSE! but you're still good, just as teachers for help in the way you study or ask them any other questions. i say keep going and the work that you're doing now, pick up the slack. you also gotta show colleges that you're ready to take on a college work load.
good luck in all that you do, and always keep God first. God bless. I'll have you in my prayers tonight. :)
Am i making the wrong choice? (Teenage pregnancy, advice please..?)?
I turned 16 in June, and my boyfriend (who is gonna be 18 in may) and I had sex a while ago, and I'm pregnant (we did use protection but...sadly it fails :l )
I know it is my fault, and I am gonna take complete responisbility for my actions and he is gonna do it too, and we decided to keep it...
Are we making the wrong choice?
Im like...really scared and nervous. I know my mom won't kick me out, but I know she will be really pissed. Me and my boyfriend have the ';emo/scene'; look, and I know she is gonna give me hell for it just because of his appearance and bringing in a whole bunch of stereotypes.
He and his family are really rich, and he has a job himself along with going to school....
Should we consider abortion/adoption? or should we keep it?
Normally, I'm a person who is Pro-Choice and i remember thinking to myself a loongg time ago that if I ever got preg I'd abort it, but now...I don't really think I could..i feel as though it'd break my heart...
Any advice? My boyfriend and I could reallyy use it
ThanksAm i making the wrong choice? (Teenage pregnancy, advice please..?)?
You can't trust anyone else's opinions with something like this. This is a big decision, it can and will effect the rest of your life. You need to do what you and your boyfriend think is right. If you feel ready for a baby, and able to juggle school, work, and looking after a family, then go for it, but if you're not ready for all of that then don't keep it.
You can't let anyone else make this decision for you. And it is selfish to have a baby that you're not ready for; it ruins the baby's life. And keeping it just because you think abortion is wrong is not brave, or right. You need to do what YOU are ABLE to do. If you're able to give the baby everything that it needs, including your time and attention, and lots of money, then go for it.Am i making the wrong choice? (Teenage pregnancy, advice please..?)?
i think that you should keep it. you can do it :D
and its good that you think you will have good support on both sides.
also
just stay in school.
oh and when you tell your mom, expect her to be angry so let her blow off some steam by using the whole emo/scene thing as an excuse. she will get over it. just be mature and dont yell at her or anything :D
good luck!!!!!!!
Definitely go with either adoption or abortion, whatever you feel is right. However, I highly suggest not keeping it. Even if you have the monetary means you still haven't fully experienced life. Also, just because his family is rich doesn't mean that they'll support him or the baby.
sgtshamy fyi a 5 year old cannot have a baby. unless they magically got there period when they were five.
i think you sound responcible to have it, and if your boyfriend is supporting you then i dont see why not.
my parents had me and my sister young and we turned out just fine.
i think you should have the baby, reading this, it sounds like you want it. and can actually care for it. :) good luck
and for that person who thinks 5 year olds cannot have babies...here is a link to prove you wrong mister. http://www.oddee.com/item_90966.aspx
I'd give it up to a family who wants a child and is prepared for taking care of a child.
A family with a stable income and one that can give your child the best life possible.
Do what YOU want to do.
I decided to keep my baby. I couldn't go through an abortion and adoption was not an option cuz I wanted my baby.
Keep the baby. You certainly have the financial ability to raise it.
I REALLY wonder how abortion isnt murder??
Listen to me. You are 16. This could possibly decide the outcome of the rest of your life. I think you should abort.
It's not up to me, is it?
I will just say this, if you already have doubts about getting an abortion you will regret it for the rest of your life. Every woman has the right to make the decision for their selff and I judge no one, that is whomever you pray to / believe in's choice, but i will say this, women all the time say they regret having an abortion, regret giving their child up, but you could never have your baby, see your child and regret having them.
Your not anembarrassmentt to anyone do not let people on here sway your decision in anyway, you need to look in your heart and no what you can live with on yourconsciencee.I got pregnant at 15, moved out at 15 with my boyfriend because I couldnt handle all the family fighting, I ended up having another baby at 17 and they are now 11 %26amp; 9 and I wouldnt change it for the world. Things are a little backwards yes, im finishing college now to become an RN, we had some tuff times, i did miss out on my teen years but i love them and wouldnt change it for the world, i promise you are strong enough to do whatever your heart tells you is right for you, we all are. And if you EVER need advice or to talk to someone who has been through it feel free to message me.
Blessings to you and your baby.
This is not a question anyone but you can answer, You should consider all the options and you can take the advice of your boyfriend, family, friends and others but at the end of the day you are the one who will have to live with the choice you make.
All the advice I would give is for you to realise that being a parent changes everything in your life and even though others may help and your boyfriend may always be with you to help it is a life changing experience being responsible for another human being.
There is no right or wrong answer only what is right for you.
Some of you people are weird.. your life is NOT over when you have a baby, it is just different. Being 16 doesn't mean you can't be a good mom nor does it mean that ';you haven't experienced anything yet..'; You have clearly experienced sex... what else is there to experience that you can't do with a child..? Drugs.. ? Alcohol...? Sleeping with more than one person...? Things you shouldn't be doing anyway. Good for you for at least loving your child enough to try to make an informed decision based in your child's well-being instead of your own selfish desires. With the support of family, you can be a wonderful mommy. I wouldn't want to do it at 16 myself.. I am 21 and have a 7-week-old... but I would have done it if I had to. Don't have an abortion. I will take your baby if you plan to do that. :) Adoption isn't a horrible route either if you think you can give him/her up. Adopted kids do not end up being abused or left on the streets... those would be foster children. Plus.. if you chose adoption.. YOU would get to choose his/her family. The choice is obviously up to you...if he/she were mine, I would keep him/her without question. Don't let anyone tell you you can't do it because you are young. Good luck to you.
I hope I am not too late in answering this :)
You seem in this question as though you want this little baby in your life. I mean, from the type of question you asked, to defending the fact that your boyfriend and you are ready for this to me shows that you want to have this baby. Your parents would help out, and he is making his own money. Honestly, consider keeping him/her :) You seem like you want to, and as they grow older you'll know you made the right choice. Because from the looks, you're already attached :)
Talk to your mom, and his parents. :)
teen pregnancy is one of the toughest decisions a person makes.
i'm personally against abortion, so this may be biased :|
if you do have the baby, when the child is 6, 10, 18, i'm sure that you will be completely happy and you will be glad that you didn't choose to give it away.
however, haveing a baby is a HUGE responsibility, and if it just is to much, than putting it up for adoption is the only choice. of course, if you do choose to put your child up for adoption, there is always the chance later in life to meet your child.
my friend is adopted and she often meets up with her biological parents :)
goodluck times a thousand xx
If you are more than three months pregnant, i wouldn't advise an abortion. I think it would be traumatic for you -- not sure. These days abortion clinics aren't that easy to find, and when we do find one, we get counseling before we have the procedure.
You and your boyfriend really need to decide what you feel is best in your personal situation. Unfortunately, i just don't know.
As for your emo look, i'm sure you won't be looking this way for the rest of your life (we all change our minds about 100 times about style through the course of a life time, believe me, im old!). Your style has nothing to do with your character or your common sense.
But i can say i wish you all the best, and i hope things work out well for you. Do the right thing for YOU.
sending all best wishes and a few hugs too.
Personally I am against abortion, but whatever you choose is your choice. I am a teen mother of two, I am only 19yrs old my son was born when I was 15. You just need to sit down and think it over, it is very hard to take care of a baby so young. But if you put your mind to it you will be okay. If you ever need to talk just e-mail me. I know we don't know each other but I have been in your shoes before. It can be done just sit and talk with your boyfriend.
Best of luck
sounds like you know what you want and killing a person and giving it away dont sound like its something you will live with so just keep it and be there for your kid. your mom already did her part and now its your turn to do yours as a mother so be a good mom and forget about what people might think and focus in that Lil one that lives inside of you when you hold them for the first time or when they call you mommy for te first time you will see every hell is worth living. good luck to you hun,
who cares how you guys dress or look like youll see that wont matter to your baby he/she will love you two just the same.
I say keep it or give it to a family you know wants a baby but cant have one themselves.
Im pro-choice, but abortion is a very hard thing to go through. Dont let someone push you to it, or do it because your afraid. You'll never forgive yourself for it.
It sounds like you have all the resources to atleast have it and give it to a family.
A lot of churches have files of families that would like a baby, they will let you go through the files and pick what family you want to give the baby to. Thats how my cousins were adopted.
Email me if you want. If you need someone to talk to.
I got pregnant at 17...then 19. I kept both. Sit down with your mom and talk to her. She wont be *pissed* shell be disappointed. Shes your mom. Youve got to give her time to accept it. If you think abortion would break your heart. Dont do it. Im glad to hear you AND your b.f want to take responsibility for your actions. Ok back to the emo thing. There are really some great maternity clothes out there. You never know. Let her help you pick out some pregnancy clothes. After shes done freakin out or if she says something about the way you dress ask her if she can help you because shes been there.
Do what you feel is right. But think about Can you live knowing you killed one of your children knowing you made the choice to have sex and knowing sex might bring a baby? And can you live with the fact of knowing one of your kids is out there there somewhere and you don't know how they are doing or how life turned out for them? I think you made an adult choice before you could handle it and a now there's a child mixed into it and it's not fair to punish him/her because you made a bad choice. Tell your mom and go from there. Good luck.
I think you sound like a very responsible and smart young girl. I can tell that you have given this a lot of thought and I think you should keep the baby. You should be able to have the baby and still finish school. I mean as long as you boyfriend stays in the picture to support the baby and your parents support you then I think you will be fine =)
Good luck with whatever you chose. If you want to talk more just click my advtar and message me.mascara makeup
I know it is my fault, and I am gonna take complete responisbility for my actions and he is gonna do it too, and we decided to keep it...
Are we making the wrong choice?
Im like...really scared and nervous. I know my mom won't kick me out, but I know she will be really pissed. Me and my boyfriend have the ';emo/scene'; look, and I know she is gonna give me hell for it just because of his appearance and bringing in a whole bunch of stereotypes.
He and his family are really rich, and he has a job himself along with going to school....
Should we consider abortion/adoption? or should we keep it?
Normally, I'm a person who is Pro-Choice and i remember thinking to myself a loongg time ago that if I ever got preg I'd abort it, but now...I don't really think I could..i feel as though it'd break my heart...
Any advice? My boyfriend and I could reallyy use it
ThanksAm i making the wrong choice? (Teenage pregnancy, advice please..?)?
You can't trust anyone else's opinions with something like this. This is a big decision, it can and will effect the rest of your life. You need to do what you and your boyfriend think is right. If you feel ready for a baby, and able to juggle school, work, and looking after a family, then go for it, but if you're not ready for all of that then don't keep it.
You can't let anyone else make this decision for you. And it is selfish to have a baby that you're not ready for; it ruins the baby's life. And keeping it just because you think abortion is wrong is not brave, or right. You need to do what YOU are ABLE to do. If you're able to give the baby everything that it needs, including your time and attention, and lots of money, then go for it.Am i making the wrong choice? (Teenage pregnancy, advice please..?)?
i think that you should keep it. you can do it :D
and its good that you think you will have good support on both sides.
also
just stay in school.
oh and when you tell your mom, expect her to be angry so let her blow off some steam by using the whole emo/scene thing as an excuse. she will get over it. just be mature and dont yell at her or anything :D
good luck!!!!!!!
Definitely go with either adoption or abortion, whatever you feel is right. However, I highly suggest not keeping it. Even if you have the monetary means you still haven't fully experienced life. Also, just because his family is rich doesn't mean that they'll support him or the baby.
sgtshamy fyi a 5 year old cannot have a baby. unless they magically got there period when they were five.
i think you sound responcible to have it, and if your boyfriend is supporting you then i dont see why not.
my parents had me and my sister young and we turned out just fine.
i think you should have the baby, reading this, it sounds like you want it. and can actually care for it. :) good luck
and for that person who thinks 5 year olds cannot have babies...here is a link to prove you wrong mister. http://www.oddee.com/item_90966.aspx
I'd give it up to a family who wants a child and is prepared for taking care of a child.
A family with a stable income and one that can give your child the best life possible.
Do what YOU want to do.
I decided to keep my baby. I couldn't go through an abortion and adoption was not an option cuz I wanted my baby.
Keep the baby. You certainly have the financial ability to raise it.
I REALLY wonder how abortion isnt murder??
Listen to me. You are 16. This could possibly decide the outcome of the rest of your life. I think you should abort.
It's not up to me, is it?
I will just say this, if you already have doubts about getting an abortion you will regret it for the rest of your life. Every woman has the right to make the decision for their selff and I judge no one, that is whomever you pray to / believe in's choice, but i will say this, women all the time say they regret having an abortion, regret giving their child up, but you could never have your baby, see your child and regret having them.
Your not anembarrassmentt to anyone do not let people on here sway your decision in anyway, you need to look in your heart and no what you can live with on yourconsciencee.I got pregnant at 15, moved out at 15 with my boyfriend because I couldnt handle all the family fighting, I ended up having another baby at 17 and they are now 11 %26amp; 9 and I wouldnt change it for the world. Things are a little backwards yes, im finishing college now to become an RN, we had some tuff times, i did miss out on my teen years but i love them and wouldnt change it for the world, i promise you are strong enough to do whatever your heart tells you is right for you, we all are. And if you EVER need advice or to talk to someone who has been through it feel free to message me.
Blessings to you and your baby.
This is not a question anyone but you can answer, You should consider all the options and you can take the advice of your boyfriend, family, friends and others but at the end of the day you are the one who will have to live with the choice you make.
All the advice I would give is for you to realise that being a parent changes everything in your life and even though others may help and your boyfriend may always be with you to help it is a life changing experience being responsible for another human being.
There is no right or wrong answer only what is right for you.
Some of you people are weird.. your life is NOT over when you have a baby, it is just different. Being 16 doesn't mean you can't be a good mom nor does it mean that ';you haven't experienced anything yet..'; You have clearly experienced sex... what else is there to experience that you can't do with a child..? Drugs.. ? Alcohol...? Sleeping with more than one person...? Things you shouldn't be doing anyway. Good for you for at least loving your child enough to try to make an informed decision based in your child's well-being instead of your own selfish desires. With the support of family, you can be a wonderful mommy. I wouldn't want to do it at 16 myself.. I am 21 and have a 7-week-old... but I would have done it if I had to. Don't have an abortion. I will take your baby if you plan to do that. :) Adoption isn't a horrible route either if you think you can give him/her up. Adopted kids do not end up being abused or left on the streets... those would be foster children. Plus.. if you chose adoption.. YOU would get to choose his/her family. The choice is obviously up to you...if he/she were mine, I would keep him/her without question. Don't let anyone tell you you can't do it because you are young. Good luck to you.
I hope I am not too late in answering this :)
You seem in this question as though you want this little baby in your life. I mean, from the type of question you asked, to defending the fact that your boyfriend and you are ready for this to me shows that you want to have this baby. Your parents would help out, and he is making his own money. Honestly, consider keeping him/her :) You seem like you want to, and as they grow older you'll know you made the right choice. Because from the looks, you're already attached :)
Talk to your mom, and his parents. :)
teen pregnancy is one of the toughest decisions a person makes.
i'm personally against abortion, so this may be biased :|
if you do have the baby, when the child is 6, 10, 18, i'm sure that you will be completely happy and you will be glad that you didn't choose to give it away.
however, haveing a baby is a HUGE responsibility, and if it just is to much, than putting it up for adoption is the only choice. of course, if you do choose to put your child up for adoption, there is always the chance later in life to meet your child.
my friend is adopted and she often meets up with her biological parents :)
goodluck times a thousand xx
If you are more than three months pregnant, i wouldn't advise an abortion. I think it would be traumatic for you -- not sure. These days abortion clinics aren't that easy to find, and when we do find one, we get counseling before we have the procedure.
You and your boyfriend really need to decide what you feel is best in your personal situation. Unfortunately, i just don't know.
As for your emo look, i'm sure you won't be looking this way for the rest of your life (we all change our minds about 100 times about style through the course of a life time, believe me, im old!). Your style has nothing to do with your character or your common sense.
But i can say i wish you all the best, and i hope things work out well for you. Do the right thing for YOU.
sending all best wishes and a few hugs too.
Personally I am against abortion, but whatever you choose is your choice. I am a teen mother of two, I am only 19yrs old my son was born when I was 15. You just need to sit down and think it over, it is very hard to take care of a baby so young. But if you put your mind to it you will be okay. If you ever need to talk just e-mail me. I know we don't know each other but I have been in your shoes before. It can be done just sit and talk with your boyfriend.
Best of luck
sounds like you know what you want and killing a person and giving it away dont sound like its something you will live with so just keep it and be there for your kid. your mom already did her part and now its your turn to do yours as a mother so be a good mom and forget about what people might think and focus in that Lil one that lives inside of you when you hold them for the first time or when they call you mommy for te first time you will see every hell is worth living. good luck to you hun,
who cares how you guys dress or look like youll see that wont matter to your baby he/she will love you two just the same.
I say keep it or give it to a family you know wants a baby but cant have one themselves.
Im pro-choice, but abortion is a very hard thing to go through. Dont let someone push you to it, or do it because your afraid. You'll never forgive yourself for it.
It sounds like you have all the resources to atleast have it and give it to a family.
A lot of churches have files of families that would like a baby, they will let you go through the files and pick what family you want to give the baby to. Thats how my cousins were adopted.
Email me if you want. If you need someone to talk to.
I got pregnant at 17...then 19. I kept both. Sit down with your mom and talk to her. She wont be *pissed* shell be disappointed. Shes your mom. Youve got to give her time to accept it. If you think abortion would break your heart. Dont do it. Im glad to hear you AND your b.f want to take responsibility for your actions. Ok back to the emo thing. There are really some great maternity clothes out there. You never know. Let her help you pick out some pregnancy clothes. After shes done freakin out or if she says something about the way you dress ask her if she can help you because shes been there.
Do what you feel is right. But think about Can you live knowing you killed one of your children knowing you made the choice to have sex and knowing sex might bring a baby? And can you live with the fact of knowing one of your kids is out there there somewhere and you don't know how they are doing or how life turned out for them? I think you made an adult choice before you could handle it and a now there's a child mixed into it and it's not fair to punish him/her because you made a bad choice. Tell your mom and go from there. Good luck.
I think you sound like a very responsible and smart young girl. I can tell that you have given this a lot of thought and I think you should keep the baby. You should be able to have the baby and still finish school. I mean as long as you boyfriend stays in the picture to support the baby and your parents support you then I think you will be fine =)
Good luck with whatever you chose. If you want to talk more just click my advtar and message me.
***Can anyone please give me some teenage relationship advice?***?
On my grad week for 8th grade I have an upcoming Harbor Cruise to go to and I wanted to ask this girl to come with me, but when the discussion came up with my friends about who was asking who one of my close friends said that he is gonna ask her!!!! And when they asked me who I was gonna ask I just shut up and flat out told them I had no one in mind.. Really like pissed me off cause I've been spitting game to this girl for sucha long *** time.. idk if I should like wait until he asks her or should I go first.. and if I go first he might like say ohh your trying to jock me and what not.. soo I meann good advice givers plzz help me out :)***Can anyone please give me some teenage relationship advice?***?
go ask her as soon as you can if she says no well you go on an smile an keep cool good luck
go ask her as soon as you can if she says no well you go on an smile an keep cool good luck
Girls... who are good at giving teenage things advice?
i dont want boys answering this.... i have two questionss.
one about periods.... i know this is really embarresing and disgusting but the blood when i have my period usually comes out in lumps.. sometimes black. what is it? is it normal? any suggestions?
question 2 is about matees and lads kindov.... one of my mates at my dancing class is really nice but is a total pervert and wont leave me alone.. i dont think shes a lesbian... just a pervert.. i dont want to tell her because im not best best friends with her but i want to keep away from her coz i dont like it what she does.. any ideas?Girls... who are good at giving teenage things advice?
1. It is normal, unless it doesn't hurt you too much. If your cramps are too painful or when the lumps (clots) come ut, they come to the point to be HURTful, then you should go visit a doctor. Otherwise, if it is only ';disgusting'; to look at it, then try wearing tampons.
2. Just ignore her; tell your mom someone is molesting you at dance class, also tell your teacher. If she's not your friend, tell on her, that's not nice, shes harrassing you.
Good luckGirls... who are good at giving teenage things advice?
Question 1: I don't know how old you are, but usually when people first start their period, it is really funky like that. The lumps may be the lining of your uterus. I would talk to your mom about it or schedule an appointment with an OB GYN. That really helped me out because I ended being diagnosed with some painful conditions that are now controlled because of medication.
Question 2: I would talk to your teacher and explain you are feeling uncomfortable. You don't have to give specifics, but see if there is a way you can be moved or something so you aren't in so many awkward situations.
First of all, don't ever refer to your period as gross or disgusting, and don't ever let a guy make you think that way either. You're going to have it for the better part of your life, and you're going to get over it, so you might as well start now.
When you first start, and even later on, you sometimes start out w/ brown-looking menstrual blood. Sometimes lumps look black because they're just thick. It's all normal.
Just because someone has interest in sex doesn't make them a pervert. Maybe I don't know your friend...?
Your period is quite normal. Don't worry.
Not sure what you mean by ';pervert'; but if it bothers you that much, try to brush it off. If you've been doing that and it doesn't work, totally ignore it. If THAT doesn't work, you need to speak with her about it and tell her that you'd appreciate her toning it down around you.
its normal. i think that happens to ever girl. just punch her in the face right in the nose. body build and get strong for your own self defence. also tell the teacher but seriously hit her in the nose really hard. and punch her in the face. let others see you do it too. then they will finally get the idea that you dont like her. kick her really hard in the face, knock her down and beat her up.. now this wont be possible if shes strong and no one might take you seriouslly, that why u gota be strong too. also tell your friends to help u beat her up , im sure you've alredy told her to stop, once she dont lisetn this is the next step.
About the period thing, it's totally normal. The first time I had it I was a bit worried but yeah it's normal.
About the lesbian thing, why don't you try talking about guys and see what her response is? However if this doesn't work just politly ask her to back off.
Good Luck!
x
Hey when i have my period too i get those ';clumps'; too. i perfectly normal. But i only really feel them when i'm using pads. If i were you and didn't like that and thought it was disgusting maybe trying using tampons if you don't already. It dosen't make them go away, but you can feel them when they come out with other bloody dishcarge and you don't have to see them when you're changing your pad or wiping when you pee.
And about that girl if i were you i'd pull her aside and tell her she's making you uncomfortable, that's what i would do because you're not making a big deal about it or embarassing her infront of other people.
good luck!!! = )
one about periods.... i know this is really embarresing and disgusting but the blood when i have my period usually comes out in lumps.. sometimes black. what is it? is it normal? any suggestions?
question 2 is about matees and lads kindov.... one of my mates at my dancing class is really nice but is a total pervert and wont leave me alone.. i dont think shes a lesbian... just a pervert.. i dont want to tell her because im not best best friends with her but i want to keep away from her coz i dont like it what she does.. any ideas?Girls... who are good at giving teenage things advice?
1. It is normal, unless it doesn't hurt you too much. If your cramps are too painful or when the lumps (clots) come ut, they come to the point to be HURTful, then you should go visit a doctor. Otherwise, if it is only ';disgusting'; to look at it, then try wearing tampons.
2. Just ignore her; tell your mom someone is molesting you at dance class, also tell your teacher. If she's not your friend, tell on her, that's not nice, shes harrassing you.
Good luckGirls... who are good at giving teenage things advice?
Question 1: I don't know how old you are, but usually when people first start their period, it is really funky like that. The lumps may be the lining of your uterus. I would talk to your mom about it or schedule an appointment with an OB GYN. That really helped me out because I ended being diagnosed with some painful conditions that are now controlled because of medication.
Question 2: I would talk to your teacher and explain you are feeling uncomfortable. You don't have to give specifics, but see if there is a way you can be moved or something so you aren't in so many awkward situations.
First of all, don't ever refer to your period as gross or disgusting, and don't ever let a guy make you think that way either. You're going to have it for the better part of your life, and you're going to get over it, so you might as well start now.
When you first start, and even later on, you sometimes start out w/ brown-looking menstrual blood. Sometimes lumps look black because they're just thick. It's all normal.
Just because someone has interest in sex doesn't make them a pervert. Maybe I don't know your friend...?
Your period is quite normal. Don't worry.
Not sure what you mean by ';pervert'; but if it bothers you that much, try to brush it off. If you've been doing that and it doesn't work, totally ignore it. If THAT doesn't work, you need to speak with her about it and tell her that you'd appreciate her toning it down around you.
its normal. i think that happens to ever girl. just punch her in the face right in the nose. body build and get strong for your own self defence. also tell the teacher but seriously hit her in the nose really hard. and punch her in the face. let others see you do it too. then they will finally get the idea that you dont like her. kick her really hard in the face, knock her down and beat her up.. now this wont be possible if shes strong and no one might take you seriouslly, that why u gota be strong too. also tell your friends to help u beat her up , im sure you've alredy told her to stop, once she dont lisetn this is the next step.
About the period thing, it's totally normal. The first time I had it I was a bit worried but yeah it's normal.
About the lesbian thing, why don't you try talking about guys and see what her response is? However if this doesn't work just politly ask her to back off.
Good Luck!
x
Hey when i have my period too i get those ';clumps'; too. i perfectly normal. But i only really feel them when i'm using pads. If i were you and didn't like that and thought it was disgusting maybe trying using tampons if you don't already. It dosen't make them go away, but you can feel them when they come out with other bloody dishcarge and you don't have to see them when you're changing your pad or wiping when you pee.
And about that girl if i were you i'd pull her aside and tell her she's making you uncomfortable, that's what i would do because you're not making a big deal about it or embarassing her infront of other people.
good luck!!! = )
What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
Hello, my son is 18 years old. Ever since he was able to talk he's dreamed of becoming a famous rapper. His idol is Eminem and he's been working on writing rap songs for about 8 years now.
He recently informed me and my wife that he was going to move to LA to finally fulfill his dream of becoming an internationally known rapper. But, he said before he does that, he is going to make it official by legally changing his name. You see, he beleives that his current name, the name my wife and I gave him, isn't ';gansta'; enough and that he needs a more tough-sounding name if he's ever going to be taken seriously in the rap community.
His name now is Erwin Q. McToolmeister. But he said that on Monday, he's going down to city hall and he's going to legally change it to Hercules J. Murder. I said that that name is completely ridiculous and suggested he try another name like maybe L.L. Tool-Jay, or something like that, but he has his heart set on Hercules J. Murder. My wife and I are just devastated. What should we do about this?What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
Let him go and dance naked in the living room knowing the house is now yours and you no longer have to run to the bedroom to bump uglies.
And change the locks on the door. When he fails and returns home hand him bus fare and a map to the nearest shelter. That'll give him a dose of reality.What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
i know that whenever im going to do something stupid and my parents are trying to convince me not to do it i want to do it more. so if i were you i would tell him its fine he wants to change his name for his career, but ask him to not do it legally. Dont many artists just use a fake name, but keep their original name?
Idk how it is in the USA but here, when you want to completely change your name, you need to have a LOT of cash.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it too much now....let him live his life...hopefully eventually he will become more mature and change it,
I got a good gangsta name for your son! He should call himself Troll Junior!
I had high hopes upon becoming a famous rapper, too. I went to all of the local hip hop clubs and unleashed my rap fury night after night. Eventually I knew it was time to move beyond the Philadelphia scene, because, like young Erwin, I knew that Southern California was the place where I could make it big. I whistled for a cab and when it came near, the license plate said ';Fresh';, and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare, but I thought man forget it, yo home to Bel-Air. I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8 and I yelled to the cabbie 'yo homes smell ya later'. Looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.
He recently informed me and my wife that he was going to move to LA to finally fulfill his dream of becoming an internationally known rapper. But, he said before he does that, he is going to make it official by legally changing his name. You see, he beleives that his current name, the name my wife and I gave him, isn't ';gansta'; enough and that he needs a more tough-sounding name if he's ever going to be taken seriously in the rap community.
His name now is Erwin Q. McToolmeister. But he said that on Monday, he's going down to city hall and he's going to legally change it to Hercules J. Murder. I said that that name is completely ridiculous and suggested he try another name like maybe L.L. Tool-Jay, or something like that, but he has his heart set on Hercules J. Murder. My wife and I are just devastated. What should we do about this?What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
Let him go and dance naked in the living room knowing the house is now yours and you no longer have to run to the bedroom to bump uglies.
And change the locks on the door. When he fails and returns home hand him bus fare and a map to the nearest shelter. That'll give him a dose of reality.What should I do about my teenage son....advice needed please!!!!?
i know that whenever im going to do something stupid and my parents are trying to convince me not to do it i want to do it more. so if i were you i would tell him its fine he wants to change his name for his career, but ask him to not do it legally. Dont many artists just use a fake name, but keep their original name?
Idk how it is in the USA but here, when you want to completely change your name, you need to have a LOT of cash.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it too much now....let him live his life...hopefully eventually he will become more mature and change it,
I got a good gangsta name for your son! He should call himself Troll Junior!
I had high hopes upon becoming a famous rapper, too. I went to all of the local hip hop clubs and unleashed my rap fury night after night. Eventually I knew it was time to move beyond the Philadelphia scene, because, like young Erwin, I knew that Southern California was the place where I could make it big. I whistled for a cab and when it came near, the license plate said ';Fresh';, and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare, but I thought man forget it, yo home to Bel-Air. I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8 and I yelled to the cabbie 'yo homes smell ya later'. Looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel-Air.
Teenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
If a girl ( currently in a relationship with one of my close friends) starts asking me if i remember when i dated her a year ago and starts talking to me about the first time we met,does it necessarily mean that she likes me? She's dating my best friend.What should i do?Teenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
As her straight if she says yes say no bacuse hes like your mateTeenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
it means shes thinking about your relationship...so she might be interested, but you have to look out for more signs...just make sure you dont spend too much time with her and keep your distance
honestly you have to see what means more to you her or your close friend??
if you care about your friend ignore it
I don't know that I'd go as far as saying she liked you in that way...
Maybe she finds it awkward around you and that's the only thing she can talk about?
dont get involved because it will only ruin you and your friends relationship. you can still be friends will the girl but dont get too involved.
As her straight if she says yes say no bacuse hes like your mateTeenage Love. Need advice on what to do please.?
it means shes thinking about your relationship...so she might be interested, but you have to look out for more signs...just make sure you dont spend too much time with her and keep your distance
honestly you have to see what means more to you her or your close friend??
if you care about your friend ignore it
I don't know that I'd go as far as saying she liked you in that way...
Maybe she finds it awkward around you and that's the only thing she can talk about?
dont get involved because it will only ruin you and your friends relationship. you can still be friends will the girl but dont get too involved.
A little bit of teenage relationship advice?
I'm seventeen years old. Many say I'm way too young to be in love, but I know this is it. I know this is what I want for a very long time, if not the rest of my life. Well, I used to know. Time to give some background information..
A year ago a good friend of mine gave me this boys phone number. Not so much a boy, he's 21. His name is Mike. For the next month things were amazing, so amazing he asked me if I wanted to make it official. The next six months of our relationship was just too much for words, we were in love, there was no doubt about it. He used to date one of my friends about six years ago, they were both kids, right? One day he told me he thought he might have loved her. This hurt me. It shouldn't have, but it did. I didn't know what to do, I panicked, and I left him. The next week or two he was begging me to forgive him, I told his best friend that on the coming up Friday I was going to take him back, but I had told him I was going to this party just to see how he would react, to see how far I could push him, you know? That Friday, he gave up. I was the one begging for him back. Soo, a month or two goes by, and we've been back together for awhile now. But things have changed. He used to tell me how he wanted 'forever', when we're together he isn't always holding my hand or kissing me. We aren't as 'cute' as we used to be. I asked him earlier if he still wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, he said he didn't know. I'm hurt. My heart hurts. He works from daylight til it starts getting dark. That gives us two hours before we both fall asleep on weeknights. We don't talk as much as we used to. Things have really changed.
I know I shouldn't have told him I was going to that party, I shouldn't have left him- ever. I love him, he knows this, I tell him everyday. I keep telling myself things will get better in time, but will they?
Can you give me some advice?A little bit of teenage relationship advice?
Tell him exactly what you said here. Trust me.
A year ago a good friend of mine gave me this boys phone number. Not so much a boy, he's 21. His name is Mike. For the next month things were amazing, so amazing he asked me if I wanted to make it official. The next six months of our relationship was just too much for words, we were in love, there was no doubt about it. He used to date one of my friends about six years ago, they were both kids, right? One day he told me he thought he might have loved her. This hurt me. It shouldn't have, but it did. I didn't know what to do, I panicked, and I left him. The next week or two he was begging me to forgive him, I told his best friend that on the coming up Friday I was going to take him back, but I had told him I was going to this party just to see how he would react, to see how far I could push him, you know? That Friday, he gave up. I was the one begging for him back. Soo, a month or two goes by, and we've been back together for awhile now. But things have changed. He used to tell me how he wanted 'forever', when we're together he isn't always holding my hand or kissing me. We aren't as 'cute' as we used to be. I asked him earlier if he still wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, he said he didn't know. I'm hurt. My heart hurts. He works from daylight til it starts getting dark. That gives us two hours before we both fall asleep on weeknights. We don't talk as much as we used to. Things have really changed.
I know I shouldn't have told him I was going to that party, I shouldn't have left him- ever. I love him, he knows this, I tell him everyday. I keep telling myself things will get better in time, but will they?
Can you give me some advice?A little bit of teenage relationship advice?
Tell him exactly what you said here. Trust me.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
we are both teens (14) and i told this guy ( Jimmy) that i was starting school on this day and when it was that day, he sent me a text asking how school was and then we just kept talking about random stuff and i brought up this fair and i said, ';i'm going to this fair at _____ any chance i'd see you there?'; and he said he was working this booth.
much Later on when i asked him if he was nervous for his first day of school he said, '; no and i'm working at the raffle booth if youll be there (at the fair)'; The thing is, i like his brother who is one year younger than me, but i only have jimmy's phone number, not his brother's, and when i asked jimmy for his bros phone number, he seemed a little angry. When i asked him if his brother was quiet all the time, he said why do you ask, and i said because he always seemed a little quiet whenever ive seen him, and then he just said ';oh'; and wouldn't say anything else. Do both brothers like me? Jimmy is more outgoing than the younger brother just so you know, so jimmy's younger brother might think that i like jummy just because i talk to him more and hes more ooutgoing.
The youger brother (Dan) seems pretty shy and did not used to make eye contact, but then he did, and after a month of not seeing me, he didnt make eye contact again when he talks to me. he also smiles when he talks to me and he acts nervous around me and fumbles with his hands and sometimes gets this devilish smile when he looks at me, like the kind that spreads across your face slowly. wats up with them? Jimmy usually texts me first and i dont go to the same school with either of them.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
this couldve been much shorter.
youi're reading way too much into the whole thing, they're boys, they're kids and immature......thats all there is to it.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
it seems like both guys may like you. if you really care for one over the other try asking him out but his brother might not want to be friends with you. if it were me i would just stay friends with both of them... it would be to complicated!
lol u said jummy.
umm, im not so sure if the younger one likes you because this story is kinda confusing. but i think JIMMY likes you. because he was hesitant in talking about you and his brother.
it sounds to me that his younger brother is shy and may like you but his older brother is use to getting all the girls and may be a little jealous
Jimmy likes you I don't know about Dan I think you should go for jimmy he seems nice.
well next time u see Dan, ask him for his number. or give him urs on a piece of paper if hes too shy. he`ll get over his shyness eventually n text u if he likes u. texting will probably be more comfortable than talking in person if hes so shy. then what his bro does is not ur problem.mascara makeup
much Later on when i asked him if he was nervous for his first day of school he said, '; no and i'm working at the raffle booth if youll be there (at the fair)'; The thing is, i like his brother who is one year younger than me, but i only have jimmy's phone number, not his brother's, and when i asked jimmy for his bros phone number, he seemed a little angry. When i asked him if his brother was quiet all the time, he said why do you ask, and i said because he always seemed a little quiet whenever ive seen him, and then he just said ';oh'; and wouldn't say anything else. Do both brothers like me? Jimmy is more outgoing than the younger brother just so you know, so jimmy's younger brother might think that i like jummy just because i talk to him more and hes more ooutgoing.
The youger brother (Dan) seems pretty shy and did not used to make eye contact, but then he did, and after a month of not seeing me, he didnt make eye contact again when he talks to me. he also smiles when he talks to me and he acts nervous around me and fumbles with his hands and sometimes gets this devilish smile when he looks at me, like the kind that spreads across your face slowly. wats up with them? Jimmy usually texts me first and i dont go to the same school with either of them.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
this couldve been much shorter.
youi're reading way too much into the whole thing, they're boys, they're kids and immature......thats all there is to it.
Help!!!! i need some teenage boy advice!?
it seems like both guys may like you. if you really care for one over the other try asking him out but his brother might not want to be friends with you. if it were me i would just stay friends with both of them... it would be to complicated!
lol u said jummy.
umm, im not so sure if the younger one likes you because this story is kinda confusing. but i think JIMMY likes you. because he was hesitant in talking about you and his brother.
it sounds to me that his younger brother is shy and may like you but his older brother is use to getting all the girls and may be a little jealous
Jimmy likes you I don't know about Dan I think you should go for jimmy he seems nice.
well next time u see Dan, ask him for his number. or give him urs on a piece of paper if hes too shy. he`ll get over his shyness eventually n text u if he likes u. texting will probably be more comfortable than talking in person if hes so shy. then what his bro does is not ur problem.
Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
At my school's homecoming dance I met this guy. He asked for my number and we started texting. This dance was exactly a month ago and I I have texted this certain guy for at least a little bit eveyrday. About a week ago he kinda asked me out. I refused(even though I like him), because at this point of my life I am struggling with my walk with God and I had come to a point where I was wanting to actually talk to God and read the Bible. Then also I needed to focus on school work and all. So that's what I told this guy and he respeted me for my answer. We are just friends. However, I have been feeling lately that I have been craving a relationship with him. But, I know refusing going out with him was a good thing. But this craving is little out of control. I am not sure what to do. Any suggestions?
Few facts about situation:
I am 15 years old.
I have never dated any guy yet.
This guy is amazing, but I don't need another thing in society distracting me from God.
Help? :) Thanks ya'll!Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
There is no reason why you cant have a relationship with him if you like him, Your a christain, so keep your morals in line, And at the same time you can have a relationship with God. And make sure he respects your morals and thats about it.Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
if you keep your morals in line, maybe he can help you in your walk with god.
if he is a christian too that is.
Paul tells us in 1st Corinthians 25;28:
Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are. Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
The proto-orthodox position was to never marry unless absolutely necessary, as the end was too near. Keep in mind that Paul told his followers this nearly 2000 years ago, and the official position of at least the Catholic Church, but most Christian denominations as well, is that the end is too near to worry with something as trivial as marriage. If you want to get closer to God according to the Bible, stop doing anything remotely productive and wait for the end.
Few facts about situation:
I am 15 years old.
I have never dated any guy yet.
This guy is amazing, but I don't need another thing in society distracting me from God.
Help? :) Thanks ya'll!Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
There is no reason why you cant have a relationship with him if you like him, Your a christain, so keep your morals in line, And at the same time you can have a relationship with God. And make sure he respects your morals and thats about it.Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
if you keep your morals in line, maybe he can help you in your walk with god.
if he is a christian too that is.
Paul tells us in 1st Corinthians 25;28:
Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are. Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
The proto-orthodox position was to never marry unless absolutely necessary, as the end was too near. Keep in mind that Paul told his followers this nearly 2000 years ago, and the official position of at least the Catholic Church, but most Christian denominations as well, is that the end is too near to worry with something as trivial as marriage. If you want to get closer to God according to the Bible, stop doing anything remotely productive and wait for the end.
Help!!Teenage parenting advice please?
Okay im going to try to make a long long story short. My boyfriend is 22 and i am 19 and we have been taking care of his 15 almost 16 year old nephew and its been hell. Um his mom just picked up and left one day. His dad who isn't his biological father doesn't want him. My boyfriend sister who's in her 30s took him in for less then two years and gave him up. So my boyfriend took him in because it was either that or give him to the government. Grandparents aren't so healthy so that's out of the question. But anyways he always has that i am the victim attitude. Hes gone out and gotten drunk in public. And my boyfriends parents are pastors of the strict Pentecostal church and its a small town every one knows every one. Yea you can only imagine what that was like. I know hes a teenager but is there any advice on what to do when he acts up because my boyfriend and i don't know what to do any more. A 22 and a 19 year old shouldn't have to be taking care of a 15 year old. it would greatly be appreciatedHelp!!Teenage parenting advice please?
the only things really that you can do is give it to God and pray without ceasing for Gods will to e done. sometimes we look to the world to give us answers when we dont know what to do. it sounds to me that he is trying to get attention and he is going to get it good or bad. i can empathize with you as i have worked with troubled youth (teens) before and it is not easy. sometimes the only way that they are going to learn is by making enough bad mistakes, to learn from them so they dont repeat. being a parent is difficult enough but where he is so close to your age, it is possible that he doesn't respect the situation enough to care what you and you bf think. tough love is probly the best thing for him, and hopefully he will learn from his mistakes. i will pray for you and your situation.
best of luck to you all.Help!!Teenage parenting advice please?
Be strict with him. ignoring his attitude and issues may be easier but it makes things harder in the long run. Ground him set boundrys enforce them. Sounds like everyone else just tries to do things the easy way then gives up. He expects you to do the same and so thinks he can do what he wants. Explain to him that your home is his last refuge against the system. Find information on the worst of the worst when it comes to that sort of thing. When he acts up too bad. if you're in a small town you can probably get a cop to come scare the crap out of him or possibly even lock him in a holding cell for 24 hours. They can do that without charging him with anything. Make him realize the world can be harsh and suck and that you're trying to help him but don't let him think you're his friend or that you're going to shelter him.
I used to be a massive screw up.. so were a lot of my friends, and one of my ex's .. I'm always on IM .. im good at being a ***** and know how to get inside people's head's if you want detailed Ideas on how to show him tough love I'm happy to help.
the only things really that you can do is give it to God and pray without ceasing for Gods will to e done. sometimes we look to the world to give us answers when we dont know what to do. it sounds to me that he is trying to get attention and he is going to get it good or bad. i can empathize with you as i have worked with troubled youth (teens) before and it is not easy. sometimes the only way that they are going to learn is by making enough bad mistakes, to learn from them so they dont repeat. being a parent is difficult enough but where he is so close to your age, it is possible that he doesn't respect the situation enough to care what you and you bf think. tough love is probly the best thing for him, and hopefully he will learn from his mistakes. i will pray for you and your situation.
best of luck to you all.Help!!Teenage parenting advice please?
Be strict with him. ignoring his attitude and issues may be easier but it makes things harder in the long run. Ground him set boundrys enforce them. Sounds like everyone else just tries to do things the easy way then gives up. He expects you to do the same and so thinks he can do what he wants. Explain to him that your home is his last refuge against the system. Find information on the worst of the worst when it comes to that sort of thing. When he acts up too bad. if you're in a small town you can probably get a cop to come scare the crap out of him or possibly even lock him in a holding cell for 24 hours. They can do that without charging him with anything. Make him realize the world can be harsh and suck and that you're trying to help him but don't let him think you're his friend or that you're going to shelter him.
I used to be a massive screw up.. so were a lot of my friends, and one of my ex's .. I'm always on IM .. im good at being a ***** and know how to get inside people's head's if you want detailed Ideas on how to show him tough love I'm happy to help.
Typical teenage angst...advice?
I'm really broken up about this, I wish I could forget but I can't stop dwelling.
There was this girl I've always liked somewhat but only recently did she show signs of liking me back. She asked for email. She always approached me to talk to me. We'd walk home. Etc. But I never asked her, even though I planned to many times. I'm just a shy *******.
Now she's moved on, I'm trying to step up but it's too little too late. Rejection is bad enough, but I failed in my personal goal to get a girlfriend by the year's end. I'm 17 and this it seems pathetic that I've never had a girlfriend.
At school I have enough friends to keep me preoccupied, but once alone the shame springs back up.
I know I sound like a piece of poetry but I need advice on how to get over it. I'm not moping around all over the place, but I'm still broken up inside. Advice?Typical teenage angst...advice?
Just tell the girl how you feel I mean Valentines day is coming up and I'm sure she'd like you if you stepped up and tell her.
There was this girl I've always liked somewhat but only recently did she show signs of liking me back. She asked for email. She always approached me to talk to me. We'd walk home. Etc. But I never asked her, even though I planned to many times. I'm just a shy *******.
Now she's moved on, I'm trying to step up but it's too little too late. Rejection is bad enough, but I failed in my personal goal to get a girlfriend by the year's end. I'm 17 and this it seems pathetic that I've never had a girlfriend.
At school I have enough friends to keep me preoccupied, but once alone the shame springs back up.
I know I sound like a piece of poetry but I need advice on how to get over it. I'm not moping around all over the place, but I'm still broken up inside. Advice?Typical teenage angst...advice?
Just tell the girl how you feel I mean Valentines day is coming up and I'm sure she'd like you if you stepped up and tell her.
FOR ADULTS: if you could go back in time and give your teenage self some advice, what would you say?
just curious:)FOR ADULTS: if you could go back in time and give your teenage self some advice, what would you say?
Good Question!
Things I would tell the teen me...
#1 Care a whole lot less about what people think. Don't worry about it...just enjoy yourself.
#2 Rubber Rubber Rubber...USE A GODDAMN RUBBER.
#3 Pot IS a ';stepping stone drug'; ...so when you go to that party and that first joint comes around...just say no.FOR ADULTS: if you could go back in time and give your teenage self some advice, what would you say?
I'm not an adult, but I kind of regret how I've been isolating myself from my family, and in particular my parents and brother for the last year or two.
I don't think I'm going to be as close as I'd like to when I'm older, but yet I still find it incredibly hard to talk to them about anything other than I need to.
Also, I regret holding back, a lot of times. I had a lot to say at certain points, but never managed to say it when I needed to.
For the most part, im glad that i had fun. I did have a brain in my head for the most part and didn't drink and experiment with other popular vice.
But will urge myself to STAY THE **** AWAY from Jeff. And to take academics a little more seriously cuz i was so much smarter than i gave myself credit fore.
I would say don't have sex until your out of high school at least, get better grades (mine weren't bad but I could have made honor roll every semester if I had tried, I knew the material), go to college. That's about it. I wasn't wild or into trouble when I was a teen.
';Buy stock in AT%26amp;T and Wendy's now, and the first time you see the words ';Compaq Computers';, buy that too. Do not sell AT%26amp;T before 1984, no matter what.';
';Don't go out with ____, he's going to waste like a year of your time.';
I'm not an adult, but I'd go back to last year and tell myself NOT to let my dad pressure me into ';dating'; this one disgusting hillbilly. It sounds so stupid, but it's a long story and the biggest regret of my life.
Have some respect for yourself. No is also an answer. Enjoy this, you will miss it one day. And I would have also kissed that one guy just one more time, I still miss him.
I would tell myself to work harder, get better grades %26amp; for sure go to college right out of high school...OR enter the military. There is plenty of time for boys...so don't focus on them so much.
I wouldn't say anything.
I'm still a teen, but people have to learn from their mistakes.
And a lot of mistakes are made when we're young =]
i wish i could kick the crap out of the teenage me for not listening to mom and for being such a dumbass
i would tell myself to study law instead of astrophysics
oh well, dark matter is still pretty fun
Value yourself and be more selective with the men you choose.
Don't take things so seriously!! Let loose and have some fun, before its too late and you HAVE to be serious!!!
I will say to myself ';Damn it Joe don't smoke weed in the schools bathroom you're gonna get caught';
I'm sorry, I'm not an adult.
But i would tell my twelve year old self to not transfer schools.
Good Question!
Things I would tell the teen me...
#1 Care a whole lot less about what people think. Don't worry about it...just enjoy yourself.
#2 Rubber Rubber Rubber...USE A GODDAMN RUBBER.
#3 Pot IS a ';stepping stone drug'; ...so when you go to that party and that first joint comes around...just say no.FOR ADULTS: if you could go back in time and give your teenage self some advice, what would you say?
I'm not an adult, but I kind of regret how I've been isolating myself from my family, and in particular my parents and brother for the last year or two.
I don't think I'm going to be as close as I'd like to when I'm older, but yet I still find it incredibly hard to talk to them about anything other than I need to.
Also, I regret holding back, a lot of times. I had a lot to say at certain points, but never managed to say it when I needed to.
For the most part, im glad that i had fun. I did have a brain in my head for the most part and didn't drink and experiment with other popular vice.
But will urge myself to STAY THE **** AWAY from Jeff. And to take academics a little more seriously cuz i was so much smarter than i gave myself credit fore.
I would say don't have sex until your out of high school at least, get better grades (mine weren't bad but I could have made honor roll every semester if I had tried, I knew the material), go to college. That's about it. I wasn't wild or into trouble when I was a teen.
';Buy stock in AT%26amp;T and Wendy's now, and the first time you see the words ';Compaq Computers';, buy that too. Do not sell AT%26amp;T before 1984, no matter what.';
';Don't go out with ____, he's going to waste like a year of your time.';
I'm not an adult, but I'd go back to last year and tell myself NOT to let my dad pressure me into ';dating'; this one disgusting hillbilly. It sounds so stupid, but it's a long story and the biggest regret of my life.
Have some respect for yourself. No is also an answer. Enjoy this, you will miss it one day. And I would have also kissed that one guy just one more time, I still miss him.
I would tell myself to work harder, get better grades %26amp; for sure go to college right out of high school...OR enter the military. There is plenty of time for boys...so don't focus on them so much.
I wouldn't say anything.
I'm still a teen, but people have to learn from their mistakes.
And a lot of mistakes are made when we're young =]
i wish i could kick the crap out of the teenage me for not listening to mom and for being such a dumbass
i would tell myself to study law instead of astrophysics
oh well, dark matter is still pretty fun
Value yourself and be more selective with the men you choose.
Don't take things so seriously!! Let loose and have some fun, before its too late and you HAVE to be serious!!!
I will say to myself ';Damn it Joe don't smoke weed in the schools bathroom you're gonna get caught';
I'm sorry, I'm not an adult.
But i would tell my twelve year old self to not transfer schools.
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