...i need to tell my mom%26amp;dad, but mm.. i just dont kno how to start the conversation off. i mean.. its not like i can go up to mama%26amp;say ';hey mom wats for dinner, oh by the way, i'm pregnant';.
if ur a/was a teenage mom.. can ya give me some advice?
how did u tell ur parents?
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Well, I think it depends one which parent your closer with... If its your mom just sit here down and explain to her the situation, and what your going to do (keep the baby, or give it away). Then both of you can tell your dad.
If it were me, my mom would be the person i told first, she would understand and be able to tell my dad in a way where he didnt kill me. :]Advice; Teenage Pregnancy ?
I find this interestin. I'm also a teenager who is pregnant. Though I've been tryin to get pregnant, but we have some stuff in common
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Hunny, I think the best thing you could do to tell your parents is to write them a note. I was never a teenage mother but I have known plenty who were. I think that is the best route to take when it comes to something like this. Your feelings would be al included in the note and you will be able to state everything that you want. When your face to face with someone you may tend to forget exactly what you mean to say and things could get nasty. Leaving a note for mom and dad would be the easiest way. It certaintly not going to take away the fact that your pregnant, but I know that it will probably make you feel more comfortable. I wish you all the luck in the world, because its going to be hard, you will get through it eventually, and they will happy grandparents!
My sister was a teenage mom. She told me first and we went together to tell mom. I started the conversation for her since it wasn't as hard for me. Mom was in the laundry room and we came in, I said ';Mom, Michelle and I need to talk to you.......'; Then my sis took over. By me starting the conversation, she couldn't back out and it was easier to get the dreaded words out. Of course, there were tears, a little yelling about how she's ruined her life and on and on, but within a few minutes we were all hugging and our parents were very supportive. Parents know their kids are going to make mistakes, they just hope for the best outcome of those mistakes. Good luck to you!
I just told my mom,I knew she was going to be disappointed at first just because she wouldn't want to see my life be difficult and watch me have to stuggle. I was scared to death and after I told her I was so glad I did because she was very supportive, and she went with me to my doctor appointments and she was there when my daughter was born! I was not scared knowing that my mom was there, to help me if and when I needed it!
Good luck to you!
well I am srry if any of this is mean I'm a bit opininated
k, are your parents gonna be mad? will they be happy or pised u had sex? if they will be mad then just ask them like... idk u just need to sit them down and say I'm pregnant. if you think they will be okay its more casual but u still just need to say it. but what I want to tell you is no matter what, please dnt have an abortion. its horrible and I just dnt like the idea. if u dnt want the baby give it up for adoption
good luck
i got pregnant from rape at 12 (i know, its young, but watev) and im 15 now... i actually never told my parents, just told my friends dad, and he took me to a clinic... but ya... how i told him was i had my friend help me tell hiim, so have a trusted friend help you... or even the guy! just have them there so if you find you can't speak or something, liek you choke up or cry... they can talk!
I just sat my mum down and told her straight out. She was shocked, but never angry. (I was almost 18) and at first she didnt believe me! Its going to be hard but the sooner you tell your parents the better - they will become the most important people in your life during your pregnancy.
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wow...that's a really big burden to carry...
there's no other way to do it but just blurt it out.
you need all the support that you can get at this time.
good luck.
just tell them the truth
i am 16 and have 2 kids i am a guy
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I got pregnant the weekend of my twentieth birthday ((...right...sweet surprise. -l0l-)) with my boyfriend of three months. I was so nervous to tell my parents... I had a true love waits ring, grew up in church, I've always been a good kid...
Since I was away at college I just called my mom one morning %26amp;%26amp; she could tell that something was wrong in my voice... %26amp;%26amp; I just said, ';I messed up... I'm going to have a baby.'; She was shocked but it was all okay... She was excited for us from the start. :) ...there were just a lot of details we had to figure out...
It's hard, but one of Cameron's ((my now husband)) friends told us that things are so different when a baby is involved. Like, yah--parents get pissed about drinking, staying out after curfew, etc... But the whole game changes when you're pregnant.... They might be shocked, but they'll come around. I would just tell them straight up. Blurt it out, don't beat around the bush-- I think that is easiest.
%26amp;%26amp; have a plan when you tell them. Like we were 11 weeks when we told, so we already had our ultrasound and were through our first trimester... We found out at 7 weeks and started figuring out how we were going to do things and how it was all going to work out...
We knew we would get married ((we had talked about marriage before the whole pregnancy--you know...you know when you have the right one)) %26amp;%26amp; transfer to a school closer to home. Everyone we told appreciated that we already had established a plan to make it all work so it helped reduce those kinds of questions and concerns...
%26amp;%26amp; even if you don't want to tell your parents face to face ((I couldn't--it's a hard thing...)) then you could always write a note...
Also, I don't know your parents, but I think it's respectful if you do it in person to have your baby's dad there too ((if you both are on good terms etc)) I also think this shows a lot of responsibility.
Good luck. Everything will work out perfectly, and like we were told ...things are totally different when a baby is involved. :)
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