Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Help....... Teenage advice needed!!?

I think I am 100 percent straight as i have a boyfriend and I'm completely attracted to boys/men. However, there are two female teachers who I am extremely attracted to. I always find myself making up excuses with my friends to walk by their classroom so I can look in and I look forward to being in their classes. I get on well with both of them but I'm really confused, does this mean I'm gay?


I feel a bit stupid asking such a personal question online, but I'm really lost?





Both the teachers are very pretty. One of them looks like the actress Mia Kirshner(i know)!I get on extremely well with both of them, almost just like they are one of my teenage friends. They are always hugging me and stopping me in the corridor for a chat about the weekend and how drunk me and my friends got!





I have already asked this question and thanks so much for all the answers, but I would really appreciate some more views.


Thanks..Help....... Teenage advice needed!!?
I would say bisexual. Sounds like they might have intrest in you , but don't quote me on that.Help....... Teenage advice needed!!?
Maybe you not ';ATTRACTED'; to your teachers....maybe your just ';ADMIRING'; THEM! If their ';parts'; turn you on....you may like both sexes!
It doesn't mean that you are gay. You are just curious about it, but thats normal because a lot of people go through that. You can explore how you feel and see what happens.
no, i think your just admiring them
Is is normal to question your sexuality. It does not mean you are gay/lesbian.





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You maybe Bi-curious. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but just make sure it doesn't leak into the student body or you'll become the new subject of gossip.
Its totally normal to have a crush on a teacher, of either sex, during your teens.





Same sex crushes do not necessarily mean you are gay or bi. They generally mean that you just really admire these ladies, you look up to them.





I don't think you need to worry about your sexuality. Just think about what it is about these teachers which you like so much. I think you'll find that they are just inspirational people to you. And because in your teens everything is so mixed up with hormones etc, this sort of admiration tends to manifest itself as a ';crush';.
If you are attracted to those two female teachers then you are NOT completely attracted to ';boys/men';!





If I were you I would get it out of my head before anything goes out of hand. Because two or three teacher (both female) in my school district, one being from my school, had sex with a student and got arrested, charged, and fired. Also making front page headlines.





I do not think you are gay/lesbian. Maybe curious, it happens to teens all the time. And sometimes teaches give you a vibe, I think it is teachers' pheromone. They are so nice to you, and and seems as if they care about you more than their other students. It had happen to be, and it is still happening to this day, I try to ignore it.
You may just like them because they sound like they're popular and charismatic. We all like to be around people like that. Maybe you subconsciously wish you were like them.
I dont necessarily think that means your gay unless you start feeling like you want to make out with them lol.then its time to worry i guess..they are romodels more or less and its not bad to obsess all the time..i am 100 percent straight as well but i check out girls all the time...we all do it


hope everything works out
It means you're bi-curious. If you're still attracted to men and you love those 2 teachers. It wouldn't mean you're gay/lesbian.





Your teachers hug you?! Wish the hot teacher in my school hugged me. xD
HON JUST GO WIYH YOUR HEART IT IS OK IF U LIKE THEM LIKE THAT I LOVE SOME TEACHERS BUT never act on it
No, I'd say not. I think you appriciate the beauty in people. I'm due to get married am attracted to women, but I do appriciate that other males can be attractive to look at, but I don't feel sexually attracted to them.
I'm also a straight female, but i find my self being attracted to other females. I've kissed other females, and stuff like that. But that doesn't make me gay, or you, possibly bisexual, but either way I couldn't see my self in 10 years married to another lady. I want to be with a man, but right now there is nothing wrong with being curious, or just having fun! If you find another female attractive thats 100% ok!
probably just hormones, and curiosity..
Bi, maybe? don't be ashamed of it, it's fine.
i am straight and completely love some women...i don't think that makes you gay...if you wanted them in bed would be a different story, if you just love them/like them a lot, they're great, your awe inspired by them then thats just a great female bond
No that does not mean your Gay. Its ok to like to look at other women, we are beautiful!! Especially if they are women that you wish you could look like. and also if you are in their classes and find them to be friendly and helpful people thats why you may be confusing this feeling for attraction. you can be attracted to a person in many different ways that doesnt mean your gay but just live you live and be true to yourself your feelings will all sort themselves out eventually! just give it time!
Um...I don't think you are gay unless it is a sexual attraction...Maybe you idolize these women and would like to be like them...
You sound like a pretty normal average teenage girl to me, it doesn't make you gay or bi at all.
Bisexual
bisexual perhaps?
It's normal happens to alot of people. It's because they're nice and pretty and in a position of authority. Doesn't make you Gya or anything.
You are the only one who knows what you are feeling....so you are the only one who can truly answer that question....I've had teachers and I admired their beauty...but I was never had any sexual feelings for them..........sorry to say it sweetie...but no yahoo answer can tell you what you feel on the inside!!!
Dont worry about it, maybe because they are attractive you like to look at them and admire them ? I know that i am 100% straight but when i see an attractive woman i still look because it sort of gives you something to compare to and omeone to look up too.





If you do think of them a sexual or relationship way then you may be bi but it might take time to figure out what sexuality you really are.
i think ur curious. i dont kno if i would go as far as to say u a r bi or even a lesbian. but ur curious.

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