Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Help...teenage advice needed!?

I think I am 100 percent straight as i have a boyfriend and I'm completely attracted to boys/men. However, there are two female teachers who I am extremely attracted to. I always find myself making up excuses with my friends to walk by their classroom so I can look in and I look forward to being in their classes. I get on well with both of them but I'm really confused, does this mean I'm gay?


I feel a bit stupid asking such a personal question online, but I'm really lost?Help...teenage advice needed!?
Not at all. There are people, sometimes of the same sex that you REALLY REALLY like and look forward to. It doesn't mean you're gay. It just means that there must be somethings you really admire and look up to in these teachers. Of course you're going to want to be around these people, especially if they make your learning enviornment fun. Don't worry, it's completely normal. You won't feel so strongly in the future, you'll still love them and talk to them once you move on, but this won't worry you forever. Bottom line: You're NORMAL. Don't listen to anything otherwise.Help...teenage advice needed!?
You are gay. All that pretence of liking males and having a boyfriend is a sham and a cover to fool your friends.


On the other hand, the teachers may have engaged your interest in their subjects.


Do you have cropped hair, like wearing overalls and making pots in a kiln?
No it doesn't ean you are gay, it is normal behaviour when you are young. have a good day.
Hey there! Ok you might be pleased to hear for about a year I had this problem too, and it sounds stupid but it made me feel quite sick and scared. But I realised I was very attracted to men and guys and realised that if I was worried about being gay, I probably wasn't (if this makes sense). I think teachers become attractive to students because they look out for you, can be friendly, and often treat us more like adults than people like our parents do. Don't forget we also spend a lot of our time with them and get to know them personally too. Now, as GCSEs are fast approaching, I've become pretty close to most of my teachers and have long realised that this feeling of 'affection' for them is only that of when you look up to someone as your role model. I know that I really like my teachers because they respect me as an equal (whereas other adults may look down upon me more) and know me quite well. It's an odd feeling and I've not explained it well here, I find it hard to explain lol. It's like sometimes even now I just want some of the male teachers to just talk to me and 'look after me' (ok that sounds really weird, I can't explain this at all!)


So seriously, I'm pretty sure you're not gay. Unless you like other girls/women and generally fancy them, this is just a normal feeling for teenage girls like us. I was talking to some of my friends about this a while ago and apparently a lot of us all felt the same, which made me feel loads better! Hope this helps! xxx
Ignore all the people who are saying you are gay.As a teenager you are getting used to new things and this is your time for experimentation.Anything you do now doesn't always mean you will be like that the rest of your life.
Put your feelings into the same box that collects other school


treasures, be sure to admire every collected item with equal passion, because it is that keepsake you want to keep with


original luster the longest. Respect school conventions, select realistic goals, and be remembered well.





Once you've put a summer past final graduation then consider renewing social connections to other adult women. They each have a private life. You can't connect with that at present but the box might store enough promise to reward continued attentions. Study hard. They will appreciate your best efforts to catch up to full maturity. You'll need them to view your affection as their pleasure.





Or not. It is your box that decides.
Bisexual?


You can't really say you're 100% straight, then say you are attracted to two female teachers.


Then again... is it like sexual attraction? You might just be attracted to them in a sort of looking-up-to-them sort of way?


Soz I didn't really help there at all :P


But I hope everything sorts itself out for you.


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your fine baby! you are just BI-CURIOUS





and if you are gay/lebian/curious.... THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT~!!!








-STR8 FEMALE
you're either bi or curious.


lol.


or maybe your teachers are really pretty?
Well, there could be a chance you may be bi or there just real pretty.


Sorry and i understande that your confused





Hope w/e answer you get helps!! but like i said you might have a slight chance of bein Bi but thats jus my opinion
its waht u think that makes you YOU.... i dont think your gay because you do say that you have a boyfriend and you like men
I say go for it. Teachers, epically hot ones, will usually do anything to please a student. Try it out. see if you like it. Hell, let your boyfriend join in. We all get an A+ in the end, right? =D
Not stupid.... You're just bi-curious. And nobody's is 100% straight.





Even if you are bi, so what? Even if you are gay, so what? Even if you are st8, so what?





Could you tell us more like.... what bout them (the teachers) that make you got attracted?
you are probobly bi-sexual.


nothing rong with that.


And if i were you.. Dont flirt with your teacher.


x
you cant be sure you have to find a GIRL YOU AGE and experiment
You said at the beginning that your 100 percent straight, surely thats all the advice you need.Your obviously not gay, you'd know if you were, these are just normal hormonal feelings, don't worry to much about them, its nothing.
Hey this is a perfectly normal situation for a teenager to find themselves in as many are attracted to the same sex even though they may have a partner and be perfectly happy in that relationship. I dont think that you liking two females makes you gay. Dont feel stupid for asking this online either! Even if it turns out your gay later down the line thats nothing to be ashamed of thats a part of who you are. But for now i wouldn't read too much into this. Your young so make sure you have lots of fun and im sure your feelings will change =) Xx.

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