I need teenage advice to tell my mo to get over it?

Last night i told mom i was moving when i graduate in May. Well then she tried to tell me she didn't want me moving to that town. Omg why is she on my back. I yelled at her last night telling her I'll be 18 and will move where i want. She gets on my nerves about it! Why does my mom do this?





She knows that I'm not coming back to her house. I have had a bad childhood with my step dad and don't like him and as long as his there I'm not coming back. Yes i love my mom to death, shes my mom nobody will replace her. I just don't like staying in my house. I go to school from 8-3 and work from 4-8 and when i come home i usually go to my aunts across the street. Plz tell me why does she do this? She acts like she cares but when it comes to my step dad she puts him first ALL THE TIME.








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I need teenage advice to tell my mo to get over it?
Parents sometimes aren't ready to turn loose of their children just because they turn 18 and graduate. She may also have a sense that there are things she still needs to accomplish towards doing for you, since there is this hostility towards your stepdad, and she wants things to be right between the two of you. Yes' she sides with the stepdad and puts him first because it may be things you can't see that they are thinking are for your own good. And don't just think you'll be an immediate success when you first move out on your own. You may need some support from her or you may have to move back home at some time in case things go badly.I need teenage advice to tell my mo to get over it?
That sucks. She probably does care about you very much and is going to miss you greatly but she is probably also torn and doesn't want to argue with your step dad which is why it might seem that she takes his side. Regardless, it is your life and you have to follow your own path. Do what you have to do and if you're responsible with it, eventually she should come to respect your decision.
Just move out because your older and she would have to understand that ya see some parents talk about someday you would have to move out of the house and take care of yourself but when you finally ready and willing to move out they want to stop you. so just do what you have to do because knowone should have to come home fustrated everyday because it make no sense.
Just move and try not to discuss it too much with her. Thats how parents are, some have a hard time letting go. It happens a lot. My mom got mad after my brother moved out, even though she had been threatening to kick him out. Doesn't make a whole lot of sense. She got over it though. After you move she'll also get over it pretty quickly.
haha. yes my mother puts my stpdad first all the time as well. its always about wat he wants. well i learned that YOU COME FIRST. she does care but she has a strage way of showing it. she's a mother she cannot help it. However some mothers just do not know how to get their priorityes straight
Tell her just that.





Mom, I love you, I really do but I dont like living her with ____ (yourstepdad). Therefore Im moving when I turn 18 and you are free to visit me anytime you like. Please dont yell or scream because it wont change anything.





Then be done with it.
She loves you and doesn't want anything thing to me. As soon as I couldn't fit in her lap any more she grabbed my little brother and said he'll always be her baby.