Need advice. teenage drama. plz help.?

ok. so there is this boy. lets call him nick. so me n nick started dating n the only prob was this other girl kim who was his best friend be4 me. so i told him i was supposed 2 be his best friend n made him stop tlking 2 her. but he didnt he cont. 2 tlk to her behind my back. maybe even seen her? idk. so for two months i thought we were doing good till the night before he has 2 leave the country for 2 weeks he tells me that he isnt a virgin anymore. n that he has been tlking to kim. that hurt really bad mostly cus one night i told him something i've never said to anyone and i thought was special. we were tlking about sex n i said that i wasnt ready but when i was i wanted it 2 be w/ him. he said that he wanted his first time 2 be w/ me. but that was a lie. i asked him about when it was n he was drunk-out-of-his mind n didnt remember most of it. i jst wanted to lose it w/ him together. so that when someone asked about my first time or his we could both say that it was w/ some1 special.Need advice. teenage drama. plz help.?
you've only been dating 2 months... sex usually creates an attachment.. why would you want a permanent attachment to someone you can't even trust?Need advice. teenage drama. plz help.?
Just remember what glitters is not always gold.. He may have seemed perfect enough to open up too but now your seeing his true side... Trust me as you get older, some man way better then Nick will come into your life and sweep you off your feet... You may not see it yet but it will happen and you will be so grateful that you got rid of the baggage like nick that was weighing you down at one time and saved yourself for the hero that a waits in your future... Good luck hun... Take care...
ok, i didnt even read the whole thing and i know ur problem... NEVER TELL A GUY WHO HE CAN AND CANT TALK TO! YOUR JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE!
well, i dont think its right for u to tell him who he can/cannot talk to. thats unfair, he should be able to talk to whoever he wants to. i do think its wrong that he lied to you and you should really confront him, and tell him how u feel.
Well, it wasn't very nice of you to make him not talk to his best friend.
so the guy cheated on you.





why are you still with him? hes obviously not the right guy to lose ur virginity to and if u do, you will regret it for a long time. break up with him and find someone better = )
First of all, that's horrible. Almost the same thing happened to me with the guy I'm with, only he lost his before we started going out.


If you want to stay with him and make it work, I definitely think you should tell him how you feel and don't hold anything back.


But I'll be honest, if that happened to me, I'd dump him. If he gets drunk so much he has sex and can't remember it, who knows the next time he'll be at a party without you and have sex with another girl WHILE you and him are together??

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