So I have a friend that I become very into. I've liked her for almost 2 months now, and she liked me for the whole month of June. She broke up with her boyfriend after a year and a month in a relationship with him. We went to the movies as friends but we eventually held hands, kissed, and started making out. For the entire month of June, she told me ';i love you'; and passionately said the same thing at the movies that night. She also told me that she ';******* loves me'; when she rarely cusses at all. Around July 1st she said she didn't like me anymore like that, and she recently got a boyfriend on the 8th. I can't stop thinking about this girl. We talk literally all day with each other, and are BESTfriends. I feel that I don't like her anymore, but that I love her. I've tried everything at getting her back, but I've run out of anything to do. I tell her she's beautiful, I got her a teddy bear (that she sleeps with every night) and some other things. What should I do? I love this girl.Teenage advice? (age 15)?
how lame of her.
she used you as her rebound.
she has to realize that you're what
she wants,if you're what she wants.
but tell her exactly how you feel,not
the occasional ';you're beautiful.';,
that doesn't work.Spill your guts!Teenage advice? (age 15)?
Serzly, i think you should just tell her you love her and want a relationship with her, but not all of us out there is that brave so if your not up to that I would find myself another gf or talk about another girl you like to her and see if she gets jelous then you'll find out if she's really into you and was just playin hard to get or you were just a rebound for her.
good luck =]
You're supposed to go through this multiple times before you end up married. you need the practice. They say it takes 6 months of no contact in order to successfully change a relationship from romantic to only friends. good luck kiddo
oh young love............
it rarely lasts lol sorry kiddo. hard truth.
just keep being a friend to her. thats what she needs. maybe it will draw her back to you in time. but definately give it time.
it sounds like she just needed you to be a rebound. it SUCKS but it's true. that and 15 year old girls go through guys like corn through a goose!!!!
i really think it's best that you move on. if she's a good friend, keep her as a friend. who knows, she may come back around to you when you least expect it!!!!
I feel the same way about my ';girl';. Not quite love. I think she got kinda scared about being with her best friend. I don't think she would say that she loved you and then a couple days later get a bf.
Sounds like she likes you, but just as a friend. I suggest not talking to her for awhile so that you can get over her, and then slowly build your friendship up again.
I hate to tell you this, but she has probably told all her boyfriends she loves them. If she actually loved you she would not be able to move on to another guy so quickly.
Try and immerse yourself in a hobby so that you can get your mind off her and not drive yourself insnae in the process. Good luck!
be smart, and not let a girl wrap you around her fingers. dont give her any excuse to be choosing between guys. stay in school!
Maybe she missed having you as her best friend. After a month without one, she realizes how great you were. Give it time and maybe she'll try again. Just keep being nice, give the obsession a rest leave her alone for a while to think then she may come running back like in the movies lol
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