Teenage advice on sex.?

Recently I have been hanging out with a guy and I have major feelings for him. He is older than me and he has experienced sex about three times. I have never. I don't know how to tell him that I have feelings for him and I don't know how he would react. We hung out a couple of days ago and he couldn't have sex because I was on my period. So I told him maybe eventually we may. I want to have sex with him because I like him but I am aware of the emotions that come with it, I don't know his feelings towards me. I need to know if I should have sex with him and how I should tell him what I am feeling, I don't want to just get used by him. Please help...! :/Teenage advice on sex.?
GIRL....YOU SHOULDN'T...


after you do it....nobody will take you serious after that...you should be aware of the consequences AND you dont know if he is using you...


when you are a teenager..thats all what guys want and after they use you they get rid of you....he will never take you serious again because of what you did..


though you have feelings for her that is just teenage love...you should wait till you findthe right person AND MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL...you have the age to be responsible of your actions!


BELIVE ME!Teenage advice on sex.?
well first find out if he feels the same way about you. %26amp; i think you should have intercourse with someone you love a lot not like but love.that's just my opion.also you sometimes regret having sex with someone so make sure your emotionally ready.
You should wait till your dating him for a WHILE then think about sex. but you have to be emotionaly, physicaly, mentally. And make sure your prtected!!!
Advice? Dont have sex...
So you dont know if he even likes you and you where going to have sex?...





Edit: Hah i agree with Mitch
you should see if he wants to have sex first.
you are hanging out with a guy?





and you're going to have sex..?





does ANYONE else hear what's wrong with that?
if your one of those girls that just wants to get bangged and go.....dont do it.


Think about it...


do you really want to loose the thing thats more valuable in the world to you to a guy that wants to bang you and BOOM its over, and your not even sure if he like you or not..


and its not about 'likeing' one another


NO! its about 'loving' one another...


yes you will have many 'love's' as you would call them in your terms when in reality their just crushes...its not really love...its being sprung.


wait until you are in lve and until you feel its the RIGHT TIME to do it not just because you want to get the feeling. no dont because then your going to hurt your self emotionaly, but you dont realize it until you stop, sit and actually think about it. wait until you found the right one. he'll come to YOU, NOT you To him.





trust me wait!!!





what grade are you in? 8th-10th maybe?? am i right?
Well you shouldn't have sex with him just because you like him. You should have sex after you've really gotten to know him and maybe fall in love...? I mean, you will probably be just another notch on his belt if you give it up easily. Guys don't usually like girls that are easy, except for sex. They think that if you give it up easy to them, you give it up easy to every other guy trying, even if that's not true. Make him work for you. Tell him that you like him and would like to hang out to see where things could go. Maybe he is different than you think and after hanging out with him, you realize this. How would you feel if you did have sex with him and then he stops talking to you all together? Would you be able to deal with that? Take your time, your young still. And you said you are aware of the emotions that come with having sex, but what about the physical? It may hurt a lot. And have you thought about protection i you do have sex? Even with protection, pregnancy and STDs are not 100% guaranteed to be prevented. What would you do if you ended up pregnant? What would he do? These are all things you have to consider.
first of all, how old are you ?


since i dont know that ill tell you what happened with me lol.


just after i turned 16 i lost my virginity to a guy who was a about a year and a half older then me. i didnt know him very well, i mean like we talked and stuff but we werent exactly friends. i wasnt one of those people who like felt like sex was ment to be kept for the right person or for someone who your in a relationship with, but ive never been so good at like hooking up with no feelings and stuff, like i always get emotionally involved which pretty much always just ends up with me getting hurt.


but i thought that id be okay with losing my vs to this guy, even though he didnt want a relationship with me, and didnt even really like me in that way, he just thought i was hot.


so we ended up having sex and then he moved to another state about three days after for a few months (i knew he was going to) and he had told me that he didnt want a relationship with anyone at the time.


then about three days after he had moved, i found out that he had a girlfriend, and it really hurt me which was about when i figured out that i hadnt kept myself from getting emotionally involved.


and because of that, we didnt really talk anymore which sucked because he was a pretty good guy, like a good friend.


so basically, my advice is if your feeling like this now, i dont think that you are going to be able to not get emotionally involved with this guy, which will basically just end up with you getting hurt and maybe regretting your first time, which would really suck.


so i think you should find out if its going to be 'just sex' for him or if it'll be something more, and if he doesnt feel the same way then you shouldnt do it.


so maybe just casually ask him if he likes you like would he have a relationship with you, or are you guys just hooking up.


and then tell him how you feel.


sorry this was so long :p lol


goodluck, and i hope this helps (: