Teenage Advice Please: About Making New Friends And Dealing With Bullies?

I Moved To A New School Last Year, So I Was there for the whole year. I havent made many friends and I have one class where all the girls in that certain class don't like me. Well I have three friends out of 12 students. Its a single gender class. Everyone is very clicky(however you spell it). Some girls never liked me since Day 1 and they are in that class. I've never done ANYTHING to them and they dont like me. Some try to get others to not talk to me because they dont like me and some are always coming up to me putting me down. They say things about me that make me feel like there is something wrong with me, but i honestly know there isnt. The reason why I say nothing back is because im scared to fight anyone. Because if I become a loser, i will have that hanging over my head everyday. I choose not to talk in class because I dont want to make everyone think im trying hard to make friends. And while all of this is going on, I lose my self-confidence and confidence by the minute. I won't be at the school much longer because I'm going to a different school. I have a problem letting these people get to me, everyone poses as a threat to me. I dont know what to do? I feel shunned and looked down upon by everyone. What can I do to regain my self confidence, not let these people that pose threats get to me, and not fear going to my class (where everyone doesnt like me, besides a couple of people)?





Im also looking for someone to give me one on one advice, so if you want to talk on messanger and give advice. just let me know. I need someone to talk to alsoTeenage Advice Please: About Making New Friends And Dealing With Bullies?
first of all, people are always going to judge you, and you can't stop it. Don't let them get to you, because they abviously arent worth it.





ignore those who dont like you... act like you're totally oblivious! wave to them as you walk by, say hi, and stick with your friends.





SPEAK your MIND! be youself! Who cares what people think?? That's the outlook you have to take. It'll take work, but once you let go of caring about other people's opinions, LIFE IS GOOD!!! :]





good luck, and remember!


you're beautiful!!! :DTeenage Advice Please: About Making New Friends And Dealing With Bullies?
well I don't really know what to say but you can IM me anytime if you need someone to talk to or some advise. :D
One-fourth of your class is your friends. Your fine! As for the bullies, just hurt them, and they'll go away. Its not that hard.
im in high school too and went through a similar thing this year. If u wanna talk message me or something.
Maybe they just hating!! Thats what it sounds like to me! If they have no reason not to like you!! Just dont let it bother you!!
kEEP YOUR HEAD UP.. BE CONFIDENT... BULLIES DON'T LIKE CONFIDENT PEOPLE.....SOUNDS LIKE THEY ARE THE ONES WITH THE SELF-ESTEEM %26amp; CONFIDENCE ISSUES. YOU DON'T NEED TO FIGHT ANYONE BUT IF SHE GETS UP IN YOUR FACE STAND UP TO HER...BULLIES THRIVE ON PEOPLE'S WEAKNESSES.. WHEN YOU LOOK AT THEM KEEP THIS IN MIND...WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND . EVERYONE HAS DEALT WITH GIRLS LIKE THAT ....DON'T LET THEM TAKE YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE...IN 10 YEARS YOU'LL BE THE OWNER %26amp; CEO OF SOME SUCCESSFUL COMPANY %26amp; THEY'LL COME IN LOOKING FOR A JOB...........
hmm, i totally understand what your going thru, i went thru that same crap last year, luckily i moved and im going to a school over a thousand miles away from that one, lol....but anyways,...some people are just beotches and they dont care what or if youve done anything to them,...they just are so bored, and have such simple minds that they need to make others feel awful in order to entertain themselves!!!


i suggest you just dont let it get to you,...stick to your group of friends,...


oh and bullies feed on fear, so if you take everything as a joke, laugh with them, even if its at yourself, and act as if u dont give a crap what the heck they think or say avout you,...they should chill out a lil,...


moving to another school is probably a really good thing in this case tho,...it was for me,...i went from being totally picked on, and unliked to having alot of friends,...going to that school taught me alot,...even tho it made me miserable,...i now know the Do's and Donts of high school, learned to be more outgoing and i have alot more friends,...


dont worry to much about all of this,...youll be ok,...i think,...lol


I really hope this helps,... :D


Good Luck!!! :D
I really find it hard to believe that people will just start to dislike you like that. Did you do anything to them? Or maybe you should just start making more friends. I dunno, find a common interest or something. Are those girls who dislike you preppy or that sort?





it would help if you told us exactly how your first day unfolded.








EDIT: wow... She sounds like she is a little bit insecure herself. And be confident. I remember I sit with a group of people in my art class who are often bullied. The thing that kept me safe was my ego (sorry to say) hahas. You should be confident because it shows that no one can step all over you.





However, fighting is the worst thing you can do though. I used to get in a lot of fights. People will bring more people, and you will bring more to retaliate. It wouldnt be long before the issue explodes and becomes a world war.





Try to be more outgoing and try to fit in. Never lose your individuality though.
honestly, i think you are being too self-conscious about what people will think of you. You said you are going to move soon so make it your best. Say whatever you want, do whatever you want. Talk to those even though people have told them to stop talking to you. That would be stupid if they did. Just be yourself. If they want to start a fight, just back away and tell them that fighting is stupid and just walk away. Being quiet is what they like sometimes. Maybe say it as a joke or just ignore them and talk to someone else right away like you didn't hear them. Try to be more optimistic. If you wanna talk, I'm glad to give you advice.
I have problemsat school to these guys are always picking on me and laughing at me. At first I almost cried but I don't care anymore I just ignore them now.but it is hard to ignore them because sometimes they say things that are true. You sould go up to them and just ask them what there problem is. But try to look confident and do your friends know? They might be able to help you if they know them more than you do.

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