I hang round at school in a group of 4 girls. Me and my best friend and the other 2 girls are just our friends but they are not best friends. Just recently though its got like quite awkward between us, at lunch we just like sit in silence. I'm finding it's also putting a strain on me and my best friends relationship as well. We aren't as close as we was before, we are okay when we are together just us but as soon as we are with them its like everything is just silent and 1 girl like rules our group and the other girl just copies everything she does.
My best friend is in every single lesson with this one girl, not the one that leads the one that copies everything the other one does. (To be honest, we moan about them all the time. They aren't even really our friends.) and this girl has recently been like trying to get her all to herself I think, like when the girl whose her best friend isn't there she'll try to be all pally with my best friend and then as soon as the other girl is there she will like just agree with everything she says.
My best friend doesn't mind her (and this girl shagged my best friends ex bf) but personally just recently I've found myself loosing it a bit and I feel like I could strangle her!!
I hate the tension it's causing. I said to my friend the other day and we've had this conversation a few times %26amp; she's said but the other day I just cracked and I just feel like I can't cope being with them.
My best friend she oh don't worry I promise we are stronger and as soon as we leave school we will get other friends.
I no you probably say get other friends now, but its a really small school with only about 20 friends (girls) to actually choose from.
I cannot stand the drama and I can't stand the way its making me feel. I feel like if someone said you don't have to go back to that school it would be the best thing in the entire world. Also my best friend is acting all pally with these other girls, when she always slags them off to me when we're talking about them and thats another reason I think I'm going to crack!
Also my best friend has had some trouble with a boy recently and every moment we have together usually involves talking about him and its so annoying.
I feel like I need to do something to get this feeling out of my system.
AHHH!!!
I don't even want to go out on a Friday night because me and my best friend it would usually be what are we doing tomorrow night now the other 2 like make the plans for us!
I suppose we are getting ruled by them.
I really cannot take this any longer.
Sorry this is so long, I hope you can help, any advice will be very much appreciated xxTeenage friendship advice, please help!?
bros over hoes.
ditch them, too much drama. like someone said, hang out with guys.Teenage friendship advice, please help!?
Well that happened to both of my little sisters, so they basically ditched the girls and started hanging out with guys. Which is what I did back then too. Guys are easier to get along with. Hope that helps :)
Guys are much easier to hang out with. hang out with them till high school
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