Thursday, December 31, 2009

Teenage problem advice from someone mature?

We have fought because she continued to act like if she didn't care about me


we do cross country together


so I wanted to go with her at tournament to see her since she would be the only girl racing.


she said to my team mates that she didn't want me to come because I would be only bothering.


at end my couch said I could come.


I was excited so I told and she said ';oh.';


I didn't really care if u came or not (she would have been alone with boys)


then for all the trip she stayed with this guy and told him to stay with her because I annoying to stay with.


this guy, teased me infront of the boy I like and another senior guy, + her...she just laughed or said something like hahhaa thats so funny...


she told this guy who I liked wich was personal. and she said ';well u arleady told alot of people'; ...but i've asked u to not tell...and then this guy said he was gonna shout it infront of him.


at the end luckily he didn't.


then after tournament she said u will talk with the guy u likeTeenage problem advice from someone mature?
it seems to me that she feels that you steal her glory.


and doing all these things to discredit you and have other stay away from you or make you feel inferior to her.





it seems that you get the attention if you two are together and she wanted to have the glory and attention by her self.


so to make herself feel better about her self she is trying to make you look foolish, to build herself up to others.





don;t worry things like this often times end up with that person becoming more isolated then when they started.





Rise above this nonsense and cut ties with her and don't fall into this game. in-do time all things come to lightTeenage problem advice from someone mature?
Maybe you should join the Drama club. I am sure you are having all kinds of mixed feelings right now. It's not easy to be young BUT...you need to focus on your studies and the future... not ';She said'; and ';then, I said';. Cool out! While it's normal to be selfish when you're a kid...it is boring and a waste of your time. It would be smart of you to back off and let all this die down. Good luck! Hugs, Gina C.
Your friend resents you because she felt you were butting into her business. She apparently wanted to be alone with all the boys at the tournament because she likes the attention, but since you were there, that didn't happen. So she gets petty about it and blabs your personal conversations to everyone. It sounds to me that she's being selfish and immature. The best you can do in this situation is apologize to her for anything she thinks you might have done, and wash your hands of the matter. She doesn't deserve your friendship after all this behaviour.
MAYBE SHE'S NOT YOUR FRIEND AFTER ALL. IF SHE WOULD GO AFTER THE GUY YOU LIKE AND BLAB YOUR BUSINESS TO EVERYBODY CUT HER LOOSE. SHE DOESN'T EVEN CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS.
i read half of this and gave in..... how old are you? i know as a teen having friends is important and going out with guys etc, but is this really the place to discuss your feelings? it just sounds like ' she said' 'he said' and as a dinner lady in a primary school i hear it all the time with 6 year olds!... this girl is probably imature, dont stoop to her level and ignore her... get a life and learn to spell!!
OMG!

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