To all the LADIES out there: if you could give advice to teenage girls these days...what would you tell them?

Im just wondering





im 16 and i really would appreciate some advice about lessons you learnt when you were a teenager etc





so feel free to give me any advice etc





im tryna get my life bck on track





so thanks !!To all the LADIES out there: if you could give advice to teenage girls these days...what would you tell them?
Don't take high school too seriously. When i say that I don't mean classes. Yes, take those seriously. Try to do well. But don't care too much about what your classmates think of you. Once you graduate no one will care. Years later the people who were horrible to you will forget all about it and want to catch up when they see you. High school drama seriously doesn't matter. Don't stress yourself.





If your mom doesn't like your boyfriend, she usually has a good reason!





Have goals and dreams, but don't set them in stone. Life will not bend to your will. Things will happen that you could never imagine.





Also, don't listen to your teachers about how you must already know what you want to do with your life. Its better not to know right now. Because you will change your mind in a few years regardless. If you're going to college, the best thing to do is be undecided. That way you can experience a little of everything and truly make a well informed decision in college about what you want.





Be open minded. Once you leave the safe cocoon of your parent's home and your hometown you will meet various types of people. Your morals and ideals with be challenged. They might even change. Don't beat yourself up for not being the same person you were 5 years ago...because 5 years from now you won't be the same either. We all grow and mature. Its natural. People who never change are the ones with problems.





Never meet guys online that you haven't spoken with for a very long time(meaning lots of months/years) and are not sure you can trust, even after you're an adult. You can still easily get hurt.





Enjoy the rest of your teen years. You will never have them again. Teen years are hard, but adulthood is not any easier.





That's all I can think of for now. I could write a book lolTo all the LADIES out there: if you could give advice to teenage girls these days...what would you tell them?
Well Dear my advice to you is,Believe in yourself.I do realise it is really


difficult being a teenager in High School these days.With the peer pressures.Ask yourself this question? What would you personally like to be ,after high School would you like to continue with your Education or would you like to find a good job and save some money and travel maybe.The Future depends depend upon your personal out look on life.


If you are strong and have a mind of your own.


My Advice to you is.You and you alone have got to look in the mirror each day.If you believe in yourself and have pride and self-asteem.Then you can achieve anything you want too.Your Friends aren't going to get you ahead in life nor help you reach your gools in life.I do hope this is of some help to you dear.
idk if i would be much help since im 16 too....





but a lesson i learned in the past few years is that even when your positive you understand something, you probably dont. lol i discovered this and now i dont jump to the conclusion that i understand stuff...
Think before you act
I agree, don't take high school too seriously. do good grade wise but don't stress over it all too much. i remember stressing soooo much in high school. once i was out i realized, WOW why the heck did i stress so much?





Keep your close friends close. i have to say i have the best friends a girl can have. we've been out of high school for 7 years now and we are still close as can be. sure we parted, live in different states, went different paths. but we still keep in touch. we still get together. they are my life! most people will tell you you will part from your friends. you will make new friends in life and forget the old. that is true to an extent. your best friends are for life and if they don't want to keep in touch then they weren't your true friends after all!





Forget about those who don't matter. people who are mean or pick on others, erase them from your memory. they are nothing and never will be. high schools definitely rough. but it only seems that way when you're there. when you are gone, those things and people just don't seem to matter anymore. so don't stress over them now!





Boys will come and go in your life. sure some kids fall in love and foolishly get married right out of high school. sure some have made it. but most wont. don't take relationships too seriously. you may think you've found mr. right 100 times. you will abslolutely know when you really find him. most people don't find their future husband or wife til college or shortly after. so have fun and when you think some 16 year old boy has ruined you and broke your heart in a thousand pieces. Know, they'll be another boy waiting around the corner. you will be surprised at how quickly you bounce back! you will fall in love at least 3-5 times in your life. and you will think you are going to marry every one of them.





basically, have fun and don't let anything stand in your way of your future! and take lots of pictures along the way! its fun to look back and laugh at the old days!