Need advice on teenage drama...basically guy troubles :|?

Okay, I had a totally awesome best friend. I'd known him since what feels like the beginning of time. Around the beginning of this school year, I started to have a crush on him. I was hoping that it would be a small thing; that it would go away soon, so it wouldn't ruin our friendship.





However, he soon found out, and he started to ignore me, like I didn't exist in his life. I didn't really get it, and I still don't...we used to get along so well; we talked and joked and laughed every chance we got with each other. Now he's just abandoning me, all because of that.





Now and then, we talk sometimes, but only if he says something first. If I try to strike up a conversation, he'll ignore me like he heard nothing. Only the times when I look sad or start crying is when he goes back to his old self, but afterwards, he goes on ignoring me.





I still like him, but if I have to give up my feelings for him so we can be friends again, I'd do it. I really, really want him back in my life, but how? Has the damage gone too far already?Need advice on teenage drama...basically guy troubles :|?
He probobly likes you or he feels that if you were to start hanging out you would try something and he doesn't want to ruin your friendship, so hes staying away from you, trying to avoid you and trying not to hurt you.Need advice on teenage drama...basically guy troubles :|?
This is a dick move,


maybe the next time he talks to you, you tell him you have to talk to him. sit down and talk to him about this, keeping it in will make you more upset, explain to him that its not a choice when you like someone you just do. If this doesnt work then dont talk to him, if I were you id ignore him until he relalized what he was missing.
well girls tend to be more attached to their friendships but guys don't really care.. when guys ';dump'; you as a friend they really don't care about you any more.. in some cases.. he may feel weird around you now.. and this may sound weird but you need to be aggressive.. is he wont listen make him listen confront him and tell him that you aren't going to take his crap and that he needs to grow up!
yes, it has gone too far. but he probably doesn't know how to handle it or isn't ready for that kind of relationship. just leave him alone with time to think. he might come back.
If this friend of yours ignores you when you ask questions, he obviously wasn't that close to you. You may have got the wrong messages because of his hanging out with you. Maybe he doesn't know how to reject you, without hurting you with words. But at the same time, ignoring you speaking ,is worse. I've lost friends for lesser reasons and we must find new ones, as the friends I thought I had were only using me. Even today when I think back on those days ,I find more behaviour on their part to be insincere. Good Luck,.Miigwech