I just need some advice involving teenage girls and friends. :/?

I am in a group of ';friends';, there are 6 of us including myself. In my school we are considered the preps... recently, there has been a few bumps in the road between me and one other girl, I will name Becky i dont want to give out her real name... To sum it up, Becky owes me $40 and it's been 3 weeks since she was supposed to pay me back and still hasn't. Another girl, ';Ruby';, was telling me that she understood my point and was agreeing with me and I just find out today that she was lieing and telling me she agreed to shut me up from a note. I feel like those 2 girls talk about me behind my back. I am sometimes ignored... other days when one of them isn't there they are suddenly talking to me more.


Basically, I just want some advice whether or not you think these are true friends. Teenage girls can be extremely difficult and petty and i think that the girls i hang out with are. I know im going to highschool soon, i just want to know if i have true friends. I just need ADVICE!!! thanksI just need some advice involving teenage girls and friends. :/?
you already know they are not true friends. you putt he word friends in quotes in your question. money tears everyone apart, not just teenage girls.





good luck, hopefully you can just remove yourself from these people to prevent the problem for further escalating. i dont think you will ever get your money back sorry to say. just forget it and move on with others who are more truely your friend.I just need some advice involving teenage girls and friends. :/?
if you dont solve this porblen now your ';clique';(if u wanna call it that) will break up and then you'll hate each other





about the other problems :becky nextime she need money tell her your out after you ';lent her '; $40





and as for Ruby ask her and look for signs shes lying like no eye contact or fidjity





just saying
no way are they true. they would rather be nasty to you and ignore you just to fit in with someone? then be your friend when they have no one to impress?


please, save yourself. you deserve better.
tell them omg r u guys talking about me behind my back and say the truth or i will walk or go with ur gut feeling and if u feel that they r 4 sure then just get frendz that r more like u
No these are not true friends. I would look for some other friends.
they are not your true friends.


meet some new ones :)
Aight hunni, middleschool drama huh?





Well let me tell you this, more than likely those ';friends'; won't be your friends once you get into highschool. You will see them for what they really are you know.





All you need to do is confront these girls and tell them that it's not cool for them to talk about you behind your back. At the same time, you need to stop talking about that other girl behind her back, it just creates a never-ending cycle.





Just keep your head up, and you will eventually see who your real friends are. Real friends stand by your side through whatever, and real friends might talk about you to another one of your friends, but they do it out of concern. You just need to distinguish what is gossip from concern.